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rightness
US /ˈraɪtnɪs/
・UK /raɪtnəs/
B1 中級
n. (u.)不可數名詞公正
What pleased him most was the rightness of the situation
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如何聰明地選擇伴侶！ (How To Choose A Partner Wisely)
- but because they're a little too right - in the sense of seeming somehow excessively balanced, mature, understanding and reliable, given that in our hearts such rightness feels foreign and unearned?
遵從我們對某些人所產生的特別感覺
- given that in our hearts such rightness feels foreign and unearned.
因為在我們心中，這樣的正常似乎很陌生且不應該得到
追求越少，發現越多？帶你了解什麼是「幸福的悖論」！ (The Less You Seek, The More You Find - The Paradox of Happiness)
- Rightness is doing what you need to and little more.
正確就是做你需要做的事，僅此而已。
非暴力溝通--什麼是暴力？ (Nonviolent Communication - What is Violence?)
- Life-alienating communication, however, traps us in a world of ideas about rightness and wrongness, a world of judgments.
然而，剝奪生命的交流將我們困在一個關於對與錯的觀念世界裡，一個充滿評判的世界裡。
衡量父親好壞的測試 (A Test to Measure How Good Your Father Was)
- And likewise, when she meets men who are busy or offhand, cruel or constantly furious, she won't feel that she's coming home or that there is an inherent rightness to her feelings of danger, invisibility and submission.
同樣，當她遇到那些忙忙碌碌或不著邊際、冷酷無情或經常大發雷霆的男人時，她不會覺得自己回家了，也不會覺得自己的危險感、隱身感和屈從感與生俱來就是正確的。
我們為什麼需要--以及如何--與單身和平相處 (Why - and how - we need to make our peace with being single)
- Likewise, while dating, we must make our peace with ongoing singlehood in order to have the clarity to turn down person after person, date after date, who doesn't attract or interest us sufficiently. Only if we can bear our own company will we avoid having to persuade ourselves of the rightness of the wrong people, will we avoid letting the fear of dying alone spoil our lives. At the same time, we will never be able to make our peace with singlehood unless we move beyond one of the cardinal, sentimental rallying cries of our age, that being single might be fun, fulfilling or interesting. So long as we continue with such bromides, we will suffer far more than we need to. Not only will we be alone, we will feel ashamed at how awful it is to be so. We need to accept the truth unflinchingly. Being single is horrible, boring, frightening, dispiriting and alienating. Yet, our very best chance of accepting and dealing adequately with singlehood is not to keep harbouring any illusions about it. There is nothing interesting about having the whole bed to ourselves or about being able to play music loudly at 3am. The dating rigmarole is a fast route to mental exhaustion. But once we accept the bleakness, it will stop surprising or humiliating us at every turn. For all its awfulness, singlehood is always better than the alternative. A bad relationship with an immature, shapeshifting, unselfaware, borderline person. It's better to be crying, yet again, on the living room floor bemoaning our fate than trying to get a recalcitrant, cheating, vain partner to come on board and love us properly. At least, solitude doesn't rob us of a future. At least, at all moments, it contains the possibility of something better. We should hate being single very much. We should also know the extent to which enduring it soberly and steadily is the ultimate guarantor of the future we deserve.
同樣，在約會的時候，我們必須與持續的單身和平相處，這樣才能清醒地拒絕一個又一個的人，一次又一次的約會，拒絕那些對我們沒有足夠吸引力或興趣的人。只有我們能夠承受自己的陪伴，我們才能避免說服自己相信錯誤的人是正確的，我們才能避免讓孤獨終老的恐懼破壞我們的生活。與此同時，我們也永遠無法與單身和平相處，除非我們超越我們這個時代的一個主要的、感性的號召，即單身可能是有趣的、充實的或有意思的。只要我們還在繼續這樣的陳詞濫調，我們就會承受更多的痛苦。我們不僅會感到孤獨，還會為自己的孤獨感到羞恥。我們需要堅定不移地接受事
學會愛自己後再去約會！ (Dating When You've Learned to Love Yourself)
- Let physical intimacy be the result of confidence in their emotional rightness, not an attempt to catalyze a bond.
讓身體的親密成為對情感正確性的自信的結果，而不是試圖催化關係。
