passive-aggressive
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B1 中級
adj.形容詞被動攻擊的
His passive-aggressive behavior made it difficult to work with him.
n.名詞有被動攻擊性的人
Don't be such a passive-aggressive; just say what you mean.
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- That's called being passive-aggressive.
他有一輛從老家帶來的黃色打老婆車。
- That's called being passive aggressive.
這就叫被動攻擊。
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- Couldn't you just leave some passive aggressive comments on their Instagram, like, hey, congrats, General, when are you due?
你不能只在他們的 Instagram 上留一些被動攻擊的評論嗎？像是，嘿，恭喜你，將軍，你預產期是什麼時候？
- Couldn't you just leave some passive-aggressive comments on their Instagram, like, hey, congrats, general, when are you due?
說到身材羞辱，他卻說，我想看到他們胖胖的臉，當我告訴他們他們的臉有多胖的時候。
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- then boom: someone cuts you off in traffic, makes a passive-aggressive comment, or hits you with that classic "no offense" but— And suddenly you're spiraling.
別人開車插隊，說了被動攻擊的話，或是來一句經典的「沒有惡意喔，但是...」。
- Someone cuts you off in traffic, makes a passive aggressive comment, or hits you with that classic, no offense, but.
別人開車插隊，說了被動攻擊的話，或是來一句經典的「沒有惡意喔，但是...」。
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- He spent the rest of the interview being surly, offering passive-aggressive answers,
當 Ghomeshi 禮貌地提到這位明星的奧斯卡獲獎經歷時，演員完全關閉了。
- He spent the rest of the interview being surly, offering passive aggressive answers and accusing the polite host of trying to instruct the audience.
在接下來的採訪中，他一直態度惡劣，給出被動攻擊式的回答，並指責這位有禮貌的主持人試圖指導觀眾。
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- It's bless your heart um my understanding and from my experience is essentially a uh it's a a term that is just chronically had a a it's a chronically is an insult it just is bless your heart is an insult disguised as kindness if that makes sense so for example it would be like you know you said someone you know you you you show up let's say that you know you you were down on your luck you're a little poor and you walk into a shop and someone's like oh bless your heart you're covered in rugs they do rags they do not mean that in a nice way not at all that's the context they would say that phrase in and they do not mean it in a nice way it is downright offensive they are trying to be like oh we have all that southerly love but what they're really doing is they're being mean but they're trying to disguise it it's passive aggressive that's a great term passive aggressive that is what it is passive aggressive well bless your heart I'm sure you're going to do well and I actually have heard that a few times by like particularly elderly ladies um or or elderly people who are particularly judgmental obviously that being a select few you know you know I'm not saying that elderly people are judgmental but the select few that are that I've interacted with they might I've heard that before well bless your heart oh you're uh oh you're wearing that to school bless your heart I guess that's what you guys do these days like that's supposed to be offensive that's supposed to be offensive that is an insult disguised as kindness to make themselves feel better that's just what it is number six is good for you now this one is actually 50 50 so I this is on there but this is 50 50 if I'm being 100% honestly there are generally some times and you could be like good for you man I love it and and and and there's and and there generally are times like that but there's also times when it's offensive now for this and for a lot of English a good thing to learn is that tone means everything if you're like you know if someone tells you an accomplishment and you're like good for you man that's awesome you have to you can you can really make it sound like you mean it and you can really make it sound like a good thing and at that point it definitely is a good thing but to be brutally real with you this is one of those phrases that you have to make an effort to sound really polite you have to go the extra mile with your tone to make it sound like you're trying to be basically respectful and kind to them and and and you know congratulate their achievements because just said as itself good for you it means something completely differently it's like I don't give a fuck I don't care I guess good for you not good for me why would I care that's kind of what it's supposed to that's kind of what it implies so if I say hey man you know I just ran a mile good for you okay well that's inherently rude that's exactly how they meant it that's how that phrase comes across it sounds like it's a good polite phrase and it definitely can be if you say it correctly but just saying the phrase isn't enough that does sound disrespectful good for you okay well cool great um now I feel shitty now I feel like I didn't want to share that accomplishment with you that is just how it comes across people do not do not so that is just a phrase that people do not like to hear good for you well well because it once again it implies good for you but not good for me okay cool that's great I didn't care I didn't ask about you I like respectfully I asked about I was just telling you my accomplishment you don't have to be like good for you now once again it can be polite you just have to go the extra mile to make it sound polite just be like good for you man that's some terrific good shit dog good for you man I I love it good for you ran a mile you're working on yourself we fucking love that shit that is what that sound that that's a good way to make it sound like it's actually polite but once again you have to go the extra mile you can't just say the say the phrase at face value number seven interesting now the the interesting is a a is like a a a word that you can use in a sentence that it means just nothing right uh it's it's more the phrase as itself so just saying interesting as itself so for example um this one's weird once again because I feel like in certain contexts it's it's just fine but it is definitely one of those things where you have to be kind of careful with it so interesting uh if you're like um oh I saw I read an interesting book today that means nothing that's fine that's totally fine you read an interesting book that's all people are going to take it as they're not going to take it as polite but if someone says a phrase of any kind that is not supposed to be interesting you say interesting it's offensive so say that I said hey I ran a mile today and instead of congratulating me and being like cool good for you man they were like interesting that's offensive what they're it's like interesting I don't I don't know why it develops into that kind of a phrase but it kind of did so it's like it once again you're not really congratulating their achievement you're not making them feel good about themselves interesting okay you're like oh that's curious why would you run a mile makes them sound like it makes it feel like okay that is so out of place for you that that that you don't like like like why would you do that you ran a mile oh I didn't think you were athletic interesting like that's just it's just offensive you know it's demeaning their achievement it just does not sound good it really is it it it means.
是的，這只是一個通常不尊重的說法，尤其是在別人對你說了什麼之後，你說了什麼，他們回覆了，你卻說「Well, I was just saying...」好的，酷，但我剛剛告訴你我的意見了，或者我剛剛告訴你不同的看法了。你不需要同意我，但你也不需要那麼生氣。聽起來就像生氣了。我會說這個說法聽起來像是防禦性的。就像「好吧，我只是在說這個。」這是輕蔑的，這是防禦性的，這是報復性的。所以，你知道，我說「嘿，我認為天空是藍色的。」有人說「Well, I think the sky is red.」我說「Well, I
- That what you said to them as a good thing they think is actually bad they don't actually mean it's interesting or they don't actually mean it's interesting like okay well that's fascinating that you would do that that's kind of the tone that it kind of implies now once again in a lot of contexts it's fine especially if it's like something interesting you're calling like science interesting or you're calling something academic interesting that's completely different than just replying to someone's achievement and just being like interesting okay cool well that's offensive or if you say tell someone an idea or they tell you an idea and the response is interesting like I say hey dude we could totally I had this great idea for a business plan and you're like hmm interesting yeah no you're not hyped about it you don't really like that idea that's not what that that's not how that sounds it sounds like you're you're you're you're demeaning the idea you don't really care you don't think it's a good idea interesting okay you just think it's bad anyways enough of that one number eight is I'll keep that in mind now this one's not inherently like horribly rude it's not one of those things where it's like it's once again now nowhere in the category of no offense but but it is one of those things where like you could say I'll keep that in mind but nine times out of ten what people mean by that is that they're ignoring it so you could give them a great idea you could give them a great concept and they say I'll keep that in mind it's kind of like a unpolite polite way of saying I'm ignoring it now to some extent it's some people would argue it's more polite than saying I'm just going to ignore that no I don't like that but I'm an upfront person and a lot of people are upfront people and they just want you to be fun with them no I don't think that's a good idea we'll see I'll consider it but I don't really think I'm going to use that idea cool that's a great way to say it super polite super straightforward you're not wasting their time but being like I'll keep that in mind I'll keep that in mind it's kind of considered passive aggressive polite so some people would consider it polite it was probably used to be polite but nowadays it does come off like you're just throwing their idea to the side and you don't care but you don't want to say it to their face and a lot of times being polite is about uh being disrespectful is I find is having an honesty okay opinion about something but not wanting to be straightforward about to someone so you beat around the bush and pretend that's disrespecting them you know tell them to your face that's what you think don't.
「Bless your heart」這個說法，根據我的理解和經驗，基本上就是一個偽裝成友善的侮辱，如果這樣說比較好理解的話。
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- That's called being passive-aggressive.
這就叫消極攻擊。
- That's called being passive-aggressive.
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