每日口說挑戰為何我們都會選擇難搞的伴侶？ (Why We Pick Difficult Partners)

DAY438
聽說女兒會找像爸爸一樣的另一半
我一直覺得很害怕．．．
今天聽到他們昨天的故事更是害怕

@蛋糕家族小劇場@
媽媽開車剛好接近了一家很有名的豬腳店

爸：聽說附近有一家XX豬腳非常有名，很多人都專程跑來吃。
媽：你想去買嗎？
爸：不要。

爸：... 那家豬腳真的很有名，他們好像有特別的製作方式，跟別地方都不一樣。
媽：你想吃嗎？想吃我就開過去。
爸：不要。

爸：... 那家店假日不知道會不會開，說不定沒開，哥哥你查一下有沒有開。
(哥哥乖乖用手機Google...)
哥：今天那家店好像休息誒。
爸：！

~三分鐘後~
爸：....... 店有開啦我自己查了，有開！
媽：.... 你到底要吃不吃。
爸：不要。

爸：已經快要到了！再往前開一下就很接近了！哥哥你打電話去看有沒有開，不不不，應該是要到店門口才知道有沒有開！
媽：......... (已經不想理他)

爸：唉... 今天下雨不方便，我改天趁著沒雨的時候再想辦法自己一個人搭車過來買回家給你們吃...
媽：(눈_눈)

最後媽媽直接開到店門口讓他閉上嘴
於是我回家後就看到桌上滿滿的豬腳...

以後如果另一半這麼囉唆我一定把他拋下車 凸(¬‿¬)

Today's issue:
Do you think you tend to pick difficult partners?
-> Yes I find that. I hate that, so I'm still single now.
-------不負責任筆記第50彈-------
1.
a. constraint (n.) 限制
-> We had to adjust our plans for the event due to budget constraint.
由於預算限制，我們需要調整我們的對這件事的計畫。
b. restriction (n.) 限制
* 法律、規範面的限制
-> During the summer, the government put restrictions on water use.
夏季，政府頒布了限水的規範。
c. restraint (n.) 阻止；克制
* 常用來指對情緒或思想的控制
-> Ben showed a lot of restraint when dealing with the rude customer.
Ben在跟這個無理的客人周旋時，展現了很強的自制力。
2.
a. attract (v.) 吸引
* 讓人喜歡、對某事感興趣，或向某地靠近
-> The Eiffel Tower attracts tourists from around the world.
艾菲爾鐵塔吸引了世界各地的觀光客前來。
-> 人1 is attracted to 人2
-> Jerry is attracted to his coworker Emma.
Jerry被他的同事Emma所吸引。
b. attractive (adj.) 有吸引力的
-> The job offer is very attractive.
這個職缺很吸引人。
-> Kevin is a nice guy, but he’s not very attractive.
Kevin 是個好人，但他長得不怎麼樣。(ＱＱ)
c. attraction (n.) 吸引；吸引力
-> Time square is a popular tourist attraction.
時代廣場是一個熱門觀光景點。
-> As soon as Kate met Tyler, she felt an attraction to him.
當Kate遇到Tyler，她覺得他有一種吸引力。
3.
a. psychological (adj.) 心理的；心理學的
-> Depression is a common psychological disorder.
憂鬱症是一個常見的心理疾病。
b. psychology (n.) 心理學；心理
-> He has a degree in psychology.
他有心理學學位。
-> The investigators want to understand the criminal psychology.
調查員們想了解這個罪犯的心理。
c. psychologist (n.) 心理學家
-> If you are struggling with mental health, you might want to see a psychologist.
如果你為心理疾病所苦，你可能會想看心理醫生。
4.
a. predispose (v.) 使預先有傾向（或意向）
-> Obesity predisposes you to other health issues, such as heart disease.
肥胖讓你的健康的有易出問題的傾向，比如說心臟病。
b. dispose (v.) 使傾向於
-> Jerry’s personality disposes him to conflict with others.
Jerry的個性讓他容易跟別人產生衝突。
5.
a. fall for (phr.) 迷戀,愛上；信以為真
-> Linda fell for her classmate, Tony.
Linda愛上了她的同學Tony。
-> I felt stupid for falling for my little brother’s trick.
我覺得我相信我弟弟的惡作劇實在是太蠢了。
b. head over heels (phr.) 完全地
* 幾乎都用在愛情方面
-> Linda is head over heels for Tony.
Linda完全愛上了Tony。
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Some very real constraints around whom we can love and feel properly attracted to come from a place we might not think to look: our childhoods. Our psychological history strongly predisposes us to fall for only certain types of people.

■constraint [kənˋstrent] 限制、約束
拘束；拘禁
■properly [ˋprɑpɚlɪ]adv.恰當地；正確地；有禮貌地；體面地
■predispose (sb.to/towards sth) [͵pridɪsˋpoz] 使(某人)傾向於...；使(某人)易受感染；使(某人)易接受
■fall for sb. 迷戀,愛上
fall for sth 對…信以為真
☺Some very real constraints around whom we can love and feel properly attracted to come from a place we might not think to look: our childhoods. Our psychological history strongly predisposes us to fall for only certain types of people.
我們選擇會去愛的人和不知不覺被吸引的類型是受限於我們可能萬萬也想不到的過往：也就是我們的童年。我們過往的心路歷程強烈地主宰了我們戀愛所偏好的類型。
【Fun Song一下】Demi Lovato - Stone Cold(這首歌夭壽難唱，但是還是貪心想要唱，整首我實在無法，所以只練前面一小段，跟原唱合唱過過癮:p)

Thanks Kelsi. I did pick a difficult partner…
我老婆真的很難搞…哈哈哈

Some very real constraints around whom we can love and feel properly attracted to come from a place we might not think to look: our childhoods. Our psychological history strongly predisposes us to fall for only certain types of people.

Some very real constraints around whom we can love and feel properly attracted to come from a place we might not think to look: our childhoods. Our psychological history strongly predisposes us to fall for only certain types of people.

謝謝Kelsi&大家～
慢速～中速～快速～
吃到小螺絲～不過就這樣吧 let it go~ let it go~~
誰叫我今天賴床了呀 ><
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Some very real constraints around whom we can love and feel properly attracted to come from a place we might not think to look: our childhoods. Our psychological history strongly predisposes us to fall for only certain types of people.

我覺得自己比較難搞XDD

與其說找難搞的交往對象，我覺得可能是被互補的吸引。
因為你沒有那個特質，你才覺得那有多迷人。

今天的主題我應該可以講個三天(攤手
背景音樂是我的新歡馬仕釗Morrison－雲端情人
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