每日口說挑戰怕聊天沒話聊很尷尬？教你 5 種找話題的方法 (How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say In Conversation)

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尬聊真的很難誒
我always把天聊死

PS 好久沒有one take了 撒花～ ｡:.ﾟヽ(*´∀`)ﾉﾟ.:｡

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1.
a. related (adj.) 有關的，相關的；有血緣關係的
-> He's adapted, so he is not related to the couple that brought him up.
他是被領養的，所以他跟他的養父母並沒有血緣關係。
b. relate (v.) 使有聯繫；感同身受
-> I can relate to his story.
他說的故事讓我感同身受。
c. relation (n.) 關係，關聯
-> What's your relationship to the victim?
你跟被害者是什麼關係？
2.
a. draw to (phr.) 令(某人)注意某事物
-> draw sb's attention to sth.
-> This painting really draws my attention.
-> This painting really attracts me.
這幅畫真的很吸引我注意。
b. paint (v.) 畫，繪畫
-> paint the picture 描述具體的畫面
-> Help me paint the picture here.
-> Can you help me visualize?
可以幫我形象化這個東西嗎？
c. sketchy (adj.) 寫生的；奇怪的、詭異的
-> sketch (n.) 寫生
-> That bar looks kind of sketchy.
那個酒吧看起來怪怪的。
3.
a. similar (adj.) 相像的，相仿的，類似的
-> The wine tastes similar to the one we had in Paris.
這個紅酒喝起來有點像我們在巴黎喝過的那種。
b. resemble (v.) 像，類似(多形容長相)
-> Your eyes resemble your dad's.
你的眼睛跟你爸爸的很像。
c. common (a.) 普通的，常見的；共同的
-> We really hit it off. It's probably because we have a lot in common.
我跟他聊得很投機，大概是因為我們有很多共同點。
4. be sure to 記得要
-> Be sure to call your mom. She worries.
你媽媽會擔心你，記得打電話給她。
-> Be sure not to ... 記得不要
-> Be sure not to correct people too much, because nobody likes an know-it-all.
盡量不要太常糾正別人，因為沒有人喜歡一個自以為是的人。
5.
a. superior (adj.) 有優越感的；高傲的
-> I hate when she thinks she's superior to everyone.
-> I hate when she thinks she is better than everyone.
我很討厭她總是以為她比所有人都厲害。
b. inferior (adj.) 低等的；下級的
-> No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.
沒有人可以沒有你的允許就覺得你是低等的。
c. one up (v.) 佔…的上風
-> He is such an one upper. No wonder why everyone hates him.
他是個很喜歡佔上風的人，難怪大家都討厭他。
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That's because people are drawn to others who they feel are similar to themselves, and related stories can build that bridge. Just be sure not to repeatedly make your story superior to theirs, or else you can feel like one-upping.

謝謝Cyndi…

聽說教育部認證「尷尬」也可以讀作「監介」…這個比較尷尬

然後昨天大家在我這樓的造句真是熱情奔放，創意無限，可說是「腎」況空前啊！然後有人提到台灣是洗腎大國，我忽然想到「腎敗乃兵家常事」，有點糟糕的感覺…


That's because people are drawn to others who they feel are similar to themselves, and related stories can build that bridge. Just be sure not to repeatedly make your story superior to theirs, or else you can feel like one-upping.

■draw (sb.'s attention) to sth. 令(某人)注意某事物
■superior [səˋpɪrɪɚ] (adj.) 有優越感的；高傲的
■one-up [ˋwʌnˋʌp] 領先於…；勝…一籌
領先於…；勝…一籌 be / get one up on someone
☺That's because people are drawn to others who they feel are similar to themselves, and related stories can build that bridge. Just be sure not to repeatedly make your story superior to theirs, or else you can feel like one-upping.
那是因為人們會被感覺起來跟自己相似的人所吸引，而分享相關的經驗故事可以建構起那種連結感。只是要切記分享自己的故事時，不要一直把自己講得比對方優秀，不然你就會顯得高傲。
【心得】尷尬是一種很玄的東西...

That's because people are drawn to others who they feel are similar to themselves, and related stories can build that bridge. Just be sure not to repeatedly make your story superior to theirs, or else you can feel like one-upping.

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:))))))))))))))))這4我

:::)這4無臉男

傻笑+凝視+丟問句
笑笑的看著對方，流露出想聆聽的狀態，然後對方就會開始說話啦~~哈哈哈

謝謝Cyndi&大家～～
慢速～中速～快速(小NG)～～XDD
＃培養故事力～～Yoyo～～
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That's because people are drawn to others who they feel are similar to themselves, and related stories can build that bridge. Just be sure not to repeatedly make your story superior to theirs, or else you can feel like one-upping.

我有個朋友，只要遇到不熟的人都會尷尬癌末期

【回覆留言】
@小柿子 你好厲害哈哈 我本身是就很愛喝水，沒有水在身邊就會覺得渾身不對勁XD
@史嗑爾 真的~女生真的很容易得相關疾病
@Tino That's right! Tino 自己有做到嗎哈哈

<3.0-001> Thanks Cyndi and every friend~

Recap (Recapitulation)
1. Play "Reminds me of"
2. Ask open-ended questions
3. Use revival questions
4. Make a complimentary cold read
5. Flip the script

不會聊天+1