今日挑戰句子
影片不是英文?Winnicott wasn’t saying this because he liked to settle for second-best, but because he knew, from first hand, the toll exacted by perfectionism - and realised that in order to remain more or less sane (which is a pretty big ambition already) we have to learn not to hate ourselves for failing to be what no ordinary human being ever really is anyway.
Winnicott 會這麼說,並不是因為他喜歡退而求其次,而是因為他知道,完美主義所需付出的代價,還有了解到為保持一定的健康心態(其實這已經是很大的企圖心),我們必須學習不去討厭未能成為不平凡者的自己。
學習重點
2. perfectionism完美主義
perfectionism
[pɚˋfɛkʃənɪzm](n.)完美主義
perfection
[pɚˋfɛkʃən](n.)完美
perfectionist
[pɚˋfɛkʃənɪst](n.)完美主義者

unickname8 年前
■settle [ˋsɛt!]决定;解决
安排;平靜下來;付清、償付;殖民
達到並保持穩定的狀態;沈澱;定居傷亡、損失、代價
通行費、過路費;長途電話費迫切需要;勒索;强要
確切的,精確的完美主義
■toll [tol]
■exact [ɪgˋzækt]
■perfectionism [pɚˋfɛkʃənɪzm]
☺Winnicott wasn’t saying this because he liked to settle for second-best, but because he knew, from first hand, the toll exacted by perfectionism and realised that in order to remain more or less sane (which is a pretty big ambition already) we have to learn not to hate ourselves for failing to be what no ordinary human being ever really is anyway.
Winnicott 之所以會這麼說,並不是因為他甘於做第二,而是因為他依據自己過去的經驗而知道完美主義所需付出的代價,並且他也體會到為了讓神智保持在一定正常的狀態(其實這已經是個不易達成的大目標了),我們還得必須學著不要因為自己無法變成所有常人都沒能達到的非凡境界,而痛恨自己。
【心得】人生的一大功課:多練習珍惜和欣賞生命中的美好。(太專注於尋找瑕疵和破綻其實是件危害身心的事。而且如果一直看著暗處,很可能會誤以為那就是全部。)
ShakesBeer8 年前
今天的句子好長喔!!決定偷懶念個兩遍就好。
不過今天再來交一份作業,這是Yun之前點的「老情歌」
http://picosong.com/wRLT5/
Winnicott wasn’t saying this because he liked to settle for second-best, but because he knew, from first hand, the toll exacted by perfectionism - and realised that in order to remain more or less sane (which is a pretty big ambition already) we have to learn not to hate ourselves for failing to be what no ordinary human being ever really is anyway.
Huahua8 年前
媽呀~今天的句子也太長了吧!是Crystal精心準備的聖誕禮物嗎XD 感恩Crystal~讚嘆Crystal~~Merry Xmas!
這麼長…用唱的好了 =w=
♪ Winnicott wasn’t saying this because he liked to settle for second-best, but because he knew, from first hand, the toll exacted by perfectionism - and realised that in order to remain more or less sane (which is a pretty big ambition already) we have to learn not to hate ourselves for failing to be what no ordinary human being ever really is anyway.
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【Rudolph, The Red Nosed Reindeer】
Then one foggy Christmas Eve
Santa came to say:
"Rudolph with your nose so bright,
won't you guide my sleigh tonight?"
Then all the reindeer loved him
as they shouted out with glee
Rudolph the red-nosed reindeer
you'll go down in history!
Rudolph, the red-nosed reindeer
had a very shiny nose
And if you ever saw him
you would even say it glows
All of the other reindeer
used to laugh and call him names
They never let poor Rudolph
join in any reindeer games
Then one foggy Christmas Eve
Santa came to say:
"Rudolph with your nose so bright,
won't you guide my sleigh tonight?"
Then all the reindeer loved him
as they shouted out with glee
Rudolph the red-nosed reindeer
you'll go down in history!
布布布布魯斯8 年前
【Believe in Myself】It takes a good deal of bravery and skill to keep even a very ordinary life going. To
這需要很大的勇氣與能力來維持平凡的生活。
覺得這一段話滿有意思的。
The School of Life 居然在台北有實體據點耶~不曉得是像商店可以進去參觀,還是是一般公司。
Winnicott wasn’t saying this because he liked to settle for second-best, but because he knew, from first hand, the toll exacted by perfectionism - and realised that in order to remain more or less sane (which is a pretty big ambition already) we have to learn not to hate ourselves for failing to be what no ordinary human being ever really is anyway.
TDK8 年前
Merry Christmas (′▽‵)
Cakie (人´∀`).☆.。.:*・°8 年前
DAY327
原來IG只能編輯15秒的影片QQ
只好放上短短的兩個片段惹
猜猜我是哪一個? XDD
https://youtu.be/o3krPkkqJEc
https://youtu.be/fKIF5jrJoio
Winnicott wasn’t saying this because he liked to settle for second-best, but because he knew, from first hand, the toll exacted by perfectionism - and realised that in order to remain more or less sane (which is a pretty big ambition already) we have to learn not to hate ourselves for failing to be what no ordinary human being ever really is anyway.
Tino8 年前
<2.0-284> Thanks Crystal and every friend~
Merry Christmas !
Blue Monday with positive long sentences.^^
@entrepreneur /ˌɑːn.trə.prəˈnɝː/ (源自法文)
= someone who starts their own business, especially when this involves seeing a new opportunity.
@realise (英式) v.s. realize (美式)
劉益廷8 年前
聖誕節快樂
Yun8 年前
Thanks Crystal. I like the video and totally agree with "Good enough is good enough."
*常見字根ism表示____主義
- heroism 英雄主義
- communism 共產主義
* realise 為英式拼法
Kate Shao8 年前
Merry Christmas everyone ♥
【回覆留言】
@布布布布魯斯 哈哈我是指今天天聖誕節無感XD 因為還有準備明天的提案哈哈
@丸子 其實我們沒在過聖誕節說,反倒在公司蠻有感的
@祖壕 噢噢原來如此!你們會很爆肝嗎XD
@Tino Merry Christmas:D