Butwhenyou'replacedin a situationthatissoendangeringandyoudon't knowwhat's happeningandit's alsoquick, you'remutedattimesandsometimesfouryears.
Andsotoeverlookbackatthattosay, Damn, I knew I shouldhaveusedmyvoice.
Damn, I know I'm a strongwomanthatcanbecomeblamingyourself.
And I justneverwantanywomantofeelthatbecauseyouare, Youcantrytowinthiscaseandshe's evenusingourselves, andit's gonnafallbackonher, youknow, toshowtellitreallyisWomenselloutlikeand I thinkwomenwhosaythesetypeofthingsThisisoneofthereasonswhywomenwhohavebeensexuallyassaultedareafraidtospeakup.
That's why I'm gonnateach.
I have a son.
I'm gonnateachmysontorespectwomen.
Yeah, itdoesn't matterifthatgirlislayingtherebuttnakedandshesays, No, shemeansnobackforyouas a motherandus, someonewhohasbeensexuallyassaulted.
Andyouhavetransparentaboutthat.
Whatwouldyoutellthisnextgenerationofwomen?
Women?
Isthereanythingtheycando?
Different, Notblameyourselffromthepast.
Butistheresomethingyouwouldtellthem?
I thinkthemostimportantthingthatwedon't recognizeisyourintuition.
Everytimeyou'verecognizes a personyou'vedatedthatwaswrongor a situationthatyoufeltuncomfortablewhenyoulookback, yourintuitionthewholetimewassaying I toldyouso.
So I wouldreallyaskwomentolistentoyourgut, havethatsharpfeelingwhenyouwalkinto, youknow, a knapartmentorsomethingwhereyoufeelit's a littleweirder.
You'vehad a coupleofdrinksandyoufeellike I'm a littlerockier.