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  • - Recently one of my fish passed away and died.

  • So I had the fish tank expert came to my house

  • and I ask him, "Well what happened, how come my fish died?"

  • And he said, "Well, one of the fish is sick

  • and chances are, there might be a few other fish

  • that might be sick as well."

  • And I was freaking out,

  • I'm like, so what should I do?

  • How do I fix this?

  • How do I treat the fish?

  • Do I give them like some medicine,

  • do I take them out and inject some needle?

  • I have no idea how this works, right?

  • He said, "Dan, you don't, if a fish is sick

  • you don't treat the fish, you treat the water.

  • See today I want to share a very profound message with you.

  • The number one enemy that is holding you back

  • from success and that is you don't treat the fish,

  • you treat the water.

  • If you want to change, you want to improve your life,

  • the first this you have to be aware of is your surroundings.

  • Who do you surround yourself with?

  • That's your water; you are the fish.

  • You see, most people,

  • when they attempt to make an improvement

  • they want to change their lives,

  • they want to increase income, they want to make more money,

  • they want to be happier, but they want to change all of that

  • without changing their environment.

  • It's virtually impossible.

  • You're setting yourself up for failure

  • because if you want to change but the environment is toxic,

  • the people you hang around being negative;

  • the people around you, they don't believe in you.

  • Or the workplace you are working at

  • that's not suitable for your long-term goals

  • it's not where you want to be,

  • well, how are you going to get out of that?

  • So the first thing you have to consider

  • is your environment, your surrounding.

  • Not just physically but also mentally,

  • meaning the place you work, your home office,

  • the friends around you, who you spend time with.

  • Now does that mean, you may be asking me,

  • "Dan, does that mean that you ask me to move?

  • What if I'm in a third world country?"

  • I do know a lot of my fans

  • they are from all over the world at this point.

  • That you may be from different countries

  • so am I asking you to move?

  • Yes, most likely, yes.

  • "Oh, but Dan, I can't move."

  • You need to find a way.

  • You need to get out of the environment.

  • If you want to be successful,

  • you first need to put yourself in a position to do so.

  • You want to win, if you want to win a game

  • first you need to at least enter the game.

  • So you need to find a way, whatever it takes

  • to get out of the environment first.

  • The second thing you need to consider

  • is the people around you, your friends.

  • Maybe it's the buddies you grew up with,

  • but are they where you want to be?

  • One thing that I love what my mentor said, Dan Pena,

  • he said, "Show me your friends, I'll show you your future."

  • It's very, very true.

  • You can't help but be influenced by your friends.

  • You can't help.

  • If they are spending time with you,

  • they are bitching, moaning, complaining

  • about whatever is going on, guess what,

  • that's who you are going to become.

  • Who you hang around with is who you become.

  • So does that mean that you need

  • to spend less time with them?

  • Yes, most likely as well.

  • What about if they are family?

  • One thing I've learned about family

  • is you can love them from a distance.

  • You can love them from a distance.

  • Maybe you want to be an entrepreneur

  • and they say "Don't do it, it's too risky.

  • Why don't you just get a safe, secure job?

  • Why can't you be like your mom?

  • Why can't you be like your dad?

  • Why can't you be like your cousin?"

  • They don't understand where you want to go.

  • They don't understand you ambition

  • and it's very difficult to change them.

  • One of the most difficult things to change

  • is someone's mind.

  • It's very difficult to do that,

  • but you could get away,

  • maybe at least spend less time with them.

  • You could choose, you cannot choose

  • who your family, who they are,

  • but you could choose how much time

  • you want to spend with them.

  • Now I know this may not sound, like politically correct.

  • This may not be very popular opinion.

  • I'm sure I'm going to get some haters in the comments,

  • but it's a fact.

  • If you want a change, treat the water, your environment.

  • Your willpower could only have so much power,

  • but your environment, it would pull you

  • towards the future that you want.

  • If you want to go this direction,

  • your environment is pulling you to this direction.

  • Now, in some cases, I am also talking about the loved ones,

  • your spouse, your boyfriend, your girlfriend.

  • Are they supportive of your goals?

  • Are they supportive of what you want to do?

  • I see this a lot as a couple; husband wants to do this,

  • the wife wants to do this, the spouse wants to do this,

  • because of a lot of, it could be negative programming

  • from the past.

  • Different direction.

  • You are going to have a challenge.

  • The books that you read, the videos that you watch,

  • that also makes a difference, the events that you go to.

  • So don't give an excuse of,

  • "Oh this is the way it is."

  • It's not the way it is, you can change it.

  • If there is a negative person

  • you don't want to spend time with,

  • you don't have to spend time with that person.

  • No one forces you to watch that t.v.

  • and not read a book.

  • No one forces you to spend time

  • with this person and not that person.

  • You always have a choice.

  • You can either make excuses or you can produce results;

  • you cannot do both.

  • The number one thing that's holding you back

  • from success, I truly believe is your environment.

  • The question is, comment below,

  • what are you going to do to change your environment?

- Recently one of my fish passed away and died.

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阻礙你成功的第一大敵。 (The #1 Enemy Holding You Back From Success)

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    林宜悉 發佈於 2021 年 01 月 14 日
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