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  • - So, I'm in Scotland attending the castle seminar.

  • If been following me, you know.

  • So I wanna make a few videos just for my fans

  • on YouTube of course you know Dan Peña

  • The 50 Billion Dollar Man, while soon to be

  • the trillion dollar man has been my mentor

  • for over a decade now, 10 years.

  • And it's interesting, this is a gym,

  • where we could work out if we want to,

  • but every single day, we're exhausted.

  • We go from nine a.m. to like 10 p.m.

  • where we're assignments, so everyday it's pretty intense.

  • Now you see the boxing ring here.

  • In one of the days where Dan is volunteering,

  • you can join, and say,

  • "Hey, you know what, I want to box with other attendees."

  • And, how this came to be is actually some

  • from the previous castle seminar.

  • Some of those guys were actually getting into fights,

  • so Dan was thinking,

  • "Okay, you guys want to fucking fight, let's fight."

  • (bell rings)

  • So now, you can fight in the ring.

  • For some people that don't have a lot of boxing experience

  • or martial art experience,

  • it's also about facing your fears, right,

  • that what happens if you punch someone,

  • or what happens if someone punches you,

  • then what do you do.

  • And it ties in with a lot of what we talk about

  • in the last few days, at the castle,

  • and that is the fear of failure,

  • or fear of success, for some people it's fear of success,

  • that we're so afraid.

  • But you think about fear of failure,

  • what it really is, is an illusion.

  • It doesn't exist, because even if,

  • because even if you fail at something,

  • you still learn something from it,

  • and no one can take a experience away from you.

  • So lot of that is all this mental bullshit that we have,

  • that we are so afraid,

  • "Oh, I don't know, what if it doesn't work?"

  • Right?

  • That's not a very important question.

  • Right, what if I don't know what

  • how would people think of me, right?

  • What if I lose money, right?

  • What if my business doesn't take off?

  • Like, or a lot of what ifs, and the reality is,

  • most of those things don't actually happen.

  • It's this programming, this belief that we have

  • that we don't believe that it's gonna work,

  • and guess what if you don't believe

  • it's gonna work, what happens?

  • It doesn't fucking work.

  • It just doesn't.

  • So this is a good exercise where we do

  • and you face your fears,

  • and it's not about boxing, it's not about punching somebody.

  • It's about getting out of your comfort zone.

  • That's something you don't normally do,

  • and when you can do a little bit of that,

  • then you may be saying, "Hey, you know what?

  • "Maybe I could do more.

  • "Maybe it's not so bad.

  • "Maybe it's possible.

  • It's possible that I could do this."

  • Doesn't matter what your goals are,

  • and then you expand your comfort zone,

  • and you expand your comfort zone.

  • Right, so fear of failures, fear of success,

  • fear of the unknown, don't know what happens,

  • you know what it's like to struggle,

  • but you do not know what it's like to succeed.

  • You don't know how would people view you,

  • and people would view you differently

  • and you would get haters, just like I do.

  • You'd get fucking trolls, just like I do.

  • Because people are fucking jealous.

  • They envy you.

  • They wish that they could do what you do.

  • You're gonna get all of that and more.

  • Maybe your family and friends,

  • they don't want to talk to you anymore.

  • It's all part of it.

  • It is all part of it, because that's the world

  • that we live in, or that's in dense term,

  • we are fucked, right?

  • The world's so fucked up.

  • But don't let that stop you from pursuing your goals,

  • your passions, your dreams, whatever they might be, right?

  • So comment below if you wanna see more of these videos,

  • I'll make a few more for you.

- So, I'm in Scotland attending the castle seminar.

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