字幕列表 影片播放 列印英文字幕 - So, I'm in Scotland attending the castle seminar. If been following me, you know. So I wanna make a few videos just for my fans on YouTube of course you know Dan Peña The 50 Billion Dollar Man, while soon to be the trillion dollar man has been my mentor for over a decade now, 10 years. And it's interesting, this is a gym, where we could work out if we want to, but every single day, we're exhausted. We go from nine a.m. to like 10 p.m. where we're assignments, so everyday it's pretty intense. Now you see the boxing ring here. In one of the days where Dan is volunteering, you can join, and say, "Hey, you know what, I want to box with other attendees." And, how this came to be is actually some from the previous castle seminar. Some of those guys were actually getting into fights, so Dan was thinking, "Okay, you guys want to fucking fight, let's fight." (bell rings) So now, you can fight in the ring. For some people that don't have a lot of boxing experience or martial art experience, it's also about facing your fears, right, that what happens if you punch someone, or what happens if someone punches you, then what do you do. And it ties in with a lot of what we talk about in the last few days, at the castle, and that is the fear of failure, or fear of success, for some people it's fear of success, that we're so afraid. But you think about fear of failure, what it really is, is an illusion. It doesn't exist, because even if, because even if you fail at something, you still learn something from it, and no one can take a experience away from you. So lot of that is all this mental bullshit that we have, that we are so afraid, "Oh, I don't know, what if it doesn't work?" Right? That's not a very important question. Right, what if I don't know what how would people think of me, right? What if I lose money, right? What if my business doesn't take off? Like, or a lot of what ifs, and the reality is, most of those things don't actually happen. It's this programming, this belief that we have that we don't believe that it's gonna work, and guess what if you don't believe it's gonna work, what happens? It doesn't fucking work. It just doesn't. So this is a good exercise where we do and you face your fears, and it's not about boxing, it's not about punching somebody. It's about getting out of your comfort zone. That's something you don't normally do, and when you can do a little bit of that, then you may be saying, "Hey, you know what? "Maybe I could do more. "Maybe it's not so bad. "Maybe it's possible. It's possible that I could do this." Doesn't matter what your goals are, and then you expand your comfort zone, and you expand your comfort zone. Right, so fear of failures, fear of success, fear of the unknown, don't know what happens, you know what it's like to struggle, but you do not know what it's like to succeed. You don't know how would people view you, and people would view you differently and you would get haters, just like I do. You'd get fucking trolls, just like I do. Because people are fucking jealous. They envy you. They wish that they could do what you do. You're gonna get all of that and more. Maybe your family and friends, they don't want to talk to you anymore. It's all part of it. It is all part of it, because that's the world that we live in, or that's in dense term, we are fucked, right? The world's so fucked up. But don't let that stop you from pursuing your goals, your passions, your dreams, whatever they might be, right? So comment below if you wanna see more of these videos, I'll make a few more for you.
A2 初級 如何應對失敗(以及對失敗的恐懼)? (How To Deal With Failure (And The Fear Of It)) 17 0 林宜悉 發佈於 2021 年 01 月 14 日 更多分享 分享 收藏 回報 影片單字