and I'm gonna be surprising my mom with a tattoo.

- Honestly, we could get any

number of reactions from my family.

- Something about tattoos just speak to me.

It's dope, but they wouldn't let me get one so.

- None of my family has ever gotten a tattoo.

- I don't think my mom is gonna be too happy.

- I ended up choosing a Koi fish, just because

it fits in with the whole zen vibe of my family.

- I'll be getting a dragon tattoo.

My mom's pretty smart but also I really dig dragons.

- A little bit nervous but at the same time,

I think this is gonna be great.

- He was such a good kid.

He just was always very, just listen.

(laughs)

- Very proud of you. You know, I just.

- Thanks ma. I'd never wanna do anything

that would take away from that pride that you have in me.

- Well I want to give him his space,

but I would hope that he was honest with me.

- Yeah.

- Do you remember when I was like talking to the two of you

about Tom's birthday, like the weekend before last?

- Yes.

- And I got a little bit heavily under the influence.

Well, there's like one other thing I

ended up doing that night.

- (sighs)

The real reason why I brought you here

wasn't for really any of this.

- What?

- Just.

- You're (bleep) me. Sebastian.

When did you get that?

- I got it like a couple of weeks ago.

- You're dad is gonna kill you, dude.

- No ma, no.

- Alright so.

- Oh my gosh! It's beautiful.

- I got a Koi fish.

- Was it painful?

- I don't really remember.

- No, well good.

- I wanted a tattoo and you said you like personal space.

I do what I want.

- What is it?

- It's like a dragon with smokes and stuff like that.

- It looks like scribbles to me Sebastian.

- Come on mom now you're just being mean.

- Oh my God.

- I love the Koi fish. It's kind of tied in

with Papa Ross, my dad.

He had a beautiful Koi pond.

And who actually had a heart attack

right next to his Koi pond.

And it was the most peaceful way for him to go.

It was a blessing.

- Do you even know, like when you got the tattoo,

like what does it mean to you?

- It means strength, resilience,

and that I really like Lord of the Rings so yeah.

- I don't know why I thought, you know,

that you had gotten in trouble with the law

or you decided to go sleep with a hooker.

And I was like oh no.

So a tattoo is mild.

- Oh ok.

- I've gone through this with him before.

I got a tattoo when I was 18,

but now I'm 44 years old.

I wanna get it off.

I'm disappointed. At least talk to me about it.

- (sighs)

- And especially that color.

- (laughs) wow mom.

- I've considered tattoos myself.

- What would you get for a tattoo?

- Maybe an octopus.

Thank God it wasn't a prostitute.

- Oh more? Like what else can you tell me?

- (sighs)

- Oh great.

- Calm down.

Alright, the tattoo's fake mom.

- (laughs) Let me see.

- The tattoo's fake mom,

like you can scrape it off just barely.

- (laughs) Thank God you didn't get it.

- I just want to give you one last look of the tattoo.

- Yes.

- Cause it's actually gonna wash off.

(laughs) It's not a real tattoo.

- Really?

- You don't understand how much it was gonna cost us

to get that lasered off.

- Who said I was gonna get it lasered off?

- I'm shaking I'm so happy!

(laughs)

- It's a beautiful tattoo though.

- You didn't want to go for something

a little more masculine?

- (laughs)

- I want to give you your personal space, but

like something like that is big.

Tagging yourself and doing that is not what makes you.

You is what makes you.

- Don't get an octopus tattoo.

Cause I think the octopus would be a little.

- Scary?

- Scary.