So today I want to do a little quiz you can see if she actually does like you or even just how good you are at recognising signals that you might be getting.

所以今天我想做一個小測驗，看你能不能知道她是否真的喜歡你，或測試你多擅長辨別這些你可能接收到的徵兆。

Let's say you're in a bar, and you look across the length of the counter and you see a cute girl who glances at you briefly, does a quick hair flip and then turns back to her friends.

假設你在一家酒吧看向橫跨桌子的另一端，並發現有一位可愛的女生對你短暫地瞥了一眼並將頭髮往旁邊撥，接著轉向朋友們。

Is she into you?

她對你有意思嗎？

Err, eye contact is obviously a good sign, but you really can't tell from this example.

有眼神接觸顯然是一個的好徵兆，但你無法從這個例子中辨別。

She could just be adjusting her hair, and maybe she was looking at someone behind you.

她可能只是在整理頭髮，也可能是在看你後面的人。

So, let's say you're at the office and your cute co-worker is waiting behind you to make some copies of... whatever people make copies of.

假設你在辦公室裡，而可愛的女同事在你後方等著影印一些... 一些大家會影印的東西。

And she says :"Wow! Do you think you could go any slower?" and then playfully punches your arm.

她說：「哇！你能影印得比現在更慢嗎？」接著戲弄似地打了你的手臂。

Is she into you?

她對你有意思嗎？

Err, again, you can't really tell from this example either.

再一次，你無法從這個例子中辨別。

She might like you, but she might just be giggling and punching your arm as a sarcastic middle school throwback, so really no way to tell.

她可能喜歡你，但她也可能只是回到如愛挖苦人的國中生般嬉笑拍打你手臂，所以你真的無法分辨。

Okay, so let's say you're at the gym on the elliptical for some reason and Cutie McBooty comes in and gets on the exercise bike in front of you.

假設當你在健身房的橢圓滑步機上時，一位性感窈窕的辣妹走進來並跨上位於你前方的健身腳踏車。

And then after five minutes she looks back and says "Wow, I'm so sweaty already. If only there were a way to get the same workout at home riding something else."

五分鐘後，她向後看說：「哇，我以經開始流汗了。要是在家也能騎某個東西並達成同樣的健身效果就好了。」」

Then gives you a wink.

接著對你拋媚眼。

She into you?

她喜歡你嗎？

Yeah, still can't tell with that one...

仍舊無法分辨...

Um, exercise equipment is pretty expensive and maybe she lives in a small apartment and just doesn't have space.

健身器材十分昂貴 ，又或許只是因為她住在狹小的公寓裡，沒有空間放器材。

So, maybe you find a good deal on rowing machines somewhere, you can show her the flyer.

也許當你找到一部便宜划船機時，可以拿傳單跟她說。

Okay, so let's say you meet up with a friend that you've had coffee and drinks with a couple times and she says: "I had a lot of fun on the last few dates we went on."

假設你跟一位喝過幾次咖啡和飲料的朋友見面，她說：「我在過去幾次的約會中得到許多樂趣。」

That's a good sign because she thought those hangouts were actually dates, so suppose then she says "How'd you like to come back to my place and watch Netflix tonight?"

這是一項好徵兆，因為她視出去玩為約會，假設她說：「你今晚想要來我家看 Netflix 嗎？」

That's another good sign.

這是另一個好的跡象。

Err, it's usually a pretty good indicator when a girl invites you to do something, especially at her place.

當女生邀請你做某事時是一個很棒的徵兆，特別是邀請你去她家。

So then let's say, later at her house, you guys are watching WALL-E or something like that, and she says "I'm getting pretty bored. Why don't you come upstairs with me?"

假設稍晚在她家看瓦力或其他影片時，她說：「我覺得好無聊。你何不上樓陪我？」

That's another great sign.

這是另一個好徵兆。

She probably has something pretty interesting to do upstairs if it's better than watching WALL-E.

在樓上，她可能有比看瓦力更有趣的其他事要做 。

So, then after you go up there, all of a sudden she pushes you onto her bed, dims the lights, rips off her clothes, and you start having sex.

在你上樓之後，她突然把你推倒在床上，將燈光調暗並迅速褪下衣服，接著你們開始發生性行為。

Is she into you?

她對你有意思嗎？

Yeah again, you really can't be too sure.

你再次無法確定。

It's pretty dark in the room so she can't really see you properly, maybe she's from Canada and was just being polite.

房間內很暗所以她無法仔細地看清你，又或者是因為她可能來自加拿大並想保持禮貌。

Anyway, best bet is to just keep your wits about you and continue to look for signs.

總之，最好的方法就是保持頭腦冷靜並持續尋找跡象。