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  • What does childbirth feel like?

    生產的感覺如何?

  • Well if you get an epidural it feels like you're pooping

    如果妳做無痛分娩,它感覺就像在大便

  • but in a really weird position

    不過是以一種很怪異的姿勢

  • 'cause they make you put your legs up and hold them.

    因為他們要求妳抬起雙腿並維持同一個姿勢。

  • (springy music)

    (輕快的音樂)

  • Hi my name's Maddie, nice to meet you.

    嗨,我叫 Maddie,很高興見到妳。

  • Hi I'm Davina.

    嗨,我是 Davina。

  • Do you know why you're here?

    妳知道為什麼妳在這裡嗎?

  • Yeah because you're a teen mom.

    知道啊,因為妳是一個少女媽媽。

  • Okay, how old do you think I am? Do you know yet?

    那麼妳認為我幾歲?妳已經知道了嗎?

  • 17

    17

  • I'm 15.

    我 15 歲。

  • Yeah.

    是的

  • I had my baby when I was 14

    我在 14 歲的時候生小孩

  • and I had just turned 14 when I got pregnant.

    當我懷孕的時候我才剛滿 14 歲。

  • How old are you?

    妳幾歲了?

  • I'm 12.

    我 12 歲。

  • I remember when I was 12.

    我記得我 12 歲的時候。

  • Boys would always like send pictures and stuff.

    男孩總是寄照片和一些有的沒的。

  • I'm like what was that weird looking worm?

    我在想那看起來像蟲的怪東西是什麼?

  • (laughs)

    (笑聲)

  • They don't do that anymore here?

    他們現在不這麼做了嗎?

  • Oh well I got one Snapchat about it and was just like

    哦,我在 Snapchat 裡收過一張,然後我想

  • just gonna delete.

    就把它刪除吧!

  • It's really bad.

    這真的很糟糕。

  • So I kind of got exposed to that early.

    所以我有點太早接觸到了。

  • Then when I got a boyfriend, he wanted to have sex.

    然後當我交了男朋友,他想要發生性行為。

  • I didn't really want to but.

    我當時不是很想,不過

  • Tell him to do it himself.

    叫他自己 DIY。

  • (Both laughing)

    (一起笑)

  • I kinda thought, I love him. This is what he wants.

    我那時想,我愛他。這是他想要的。

  • So if want to keep him, this is what I have to do.

    所以如果我要留住他,這就是我必須要做的。

  • Which, is not the case. So never..

    然而,其實不是這樣的。所以永遠...

  • Yeah.

    是啊。

  • Think that, but we ended up having sex and I got pregnant.

    不要這樣想,不過我們最後還是發生了性行為而我懷孕了。

  • Did you guys use protection?

    你們沒有用保險套嗎?

  • No.

    沒有。

  • Well!

    噢!

  • Yeah, but in Texas they don't really teach you

    沒錯,不過在德州的學校他們並沒有真正

  • about that in school.

    的教導你這些。

  • What would you think if you got pregnant?

    假使妳懷孕妳會怎麼想?

  • Oh I feel like I'd get killed.

    哦,我覺得我會被殺死。

  • (Maddie Gasps)

    (Maddie 喘氣)

  • My parents would be like.

    我的父母會像是這樣。

  • No. Yeah.That's what I thought too.

    不。對啊,我當時也是這樣想的。

  • Luckily my parents were supportive,

    很幸運的是我的父母很支持我

  • but with some people, like, it's not the case for them.

    但是對於某些人來說,情況並非如此。

  • And it's really sad.

    那真的很令人難過。

  • How did you know if you were pregnant?

    妳是如何知道妳懷孕了?

  • I lost a lot of weight 'cause of morning sickness.

    因為孕吐的關係我瘦了很多。

  • Didn't your mom take you to the doctor?

    妳媽媽有帶妳去看醫生嗎?

  • Yeah. She thought I was sick.

    有。她以為我生病了。

  • So when I went to the doctor, one of the nurses,

    當我去看醫生的時候,其中一位護士

  • she was a teen mom, so she just had this gut feeling.

    她也是個少女媽媽,所以她有這個直覺。

  • Like I did not say anything. Well she did a pregnancy test,

    我當時並沒有說什麼。她替我驗孕

  • and it turns out I was, I think, 12/14 weeks pregnant.

    結果當時我想我已經懷孕 12/14 週。

  • Whoa.

    哇。

  • So I found out pretty far along.

    所以我發現得很晚。

  • Oh wow.

    哇。

  • So yeah. Me and her dad had already broken up.

    沒錯。那時我和她的爸爸已經分手。

  • I ended up telling him. How do you think he reacted?

    我最後告訴他。妳認為他的反應是什麼?

  • I don't think he'd want to keep the baby.

    我不覺得他會想要這個孩子。

  • Yeah. His initial thought was abortion.

    沒錯。他最初的想法是墮胎。

  • At three months pregnant, abortion wasn't really

    懷孕 3 個月,墮胎並不是

  • something that I thought I should go through with.

    我認為該經歷的苦難。

  • So, I ended up keeping her. Obviously.

    所以,我最後留下她。顯然地。

  • But she is the little light of my life.

    但是她是我人生中的光芒。

  • Obviously, you should not be having sex at 14.

    很清楚地是,你不應該在 14 歲時有性行為。

  • Well yeah.

    是啊。

  • Yeah, but I mean stuff happens.

    但是我的意思是說有些事情就是會發生。

  • I can't go back and change it, you know.

    你知道我不能回到過去並改變它。

  • And even if I could, I wouldn't because I love my daughter.

    而就算我可以,我也不會這麼做因為我愛我的女兒。

  • But it's obviously not something I recommend.

    不過這並不是一件我會建議去做的事情。

  • I don't recommend it at all.

    我完全不建議大家這麼做。

  • Did people feel bad for you being pregnant at 14?

    人們會因為妳在 14 歲懷孕而替妳感到難過嗎?

  • Like yes. They also kinda feel like

    會啊。他們好像也會因為

  • I'm a bad person because of it.

    這樣而認為我是一個不好的人。

  • I don't think you're a bad person.

    我不覺得妳是一個不好的人。

  • - Thank you. - Just made a

    - 謝謝妳。- 只不過做了一個

  • - Bad choice. - Yeah.

    - 不好的選擇。- 是的。

  • I agree with that. I took the consequences of my actions

    我同意。我為我的行為負責任

  • and I made it into a beautiful thing.

    並且將它變成一件美好的事。

  • Do you still keep in contact with her dad?

    妳還有和她的生父聯絡嗎?

  • Um, I do now but that just happened.

    嗯,我現在有,不過這是才發生的事。

  • He recently started seeing her

    他最近開始和她見面

  • and I mean he's been really nice.

    而且他表現得很好。

  • I really didn't expect that kindness from him,

    我實在沒有期待能從他身上得到任何的善意

  • but I'm really happy that she gets to have a father

    但是我感到很開心,她能夠在她的生命中擁有一個父親

  • in her life because even though I'm a young mom,

    因為即使我是一個少女媽媽

  • I wanna try to make her life as normal as possible,

    我還是想要讓她盡可能擁有一個正常

  • and as good as possible. Do you wanna meet her?

    美好的人生。妳想見她嗎?

  • Yeah

  • She's so cute. This is Everly. Everly, this is Davina.

    她很可愛。這是 Everly。Everly,這是 Davina。

  • Ah she's so cute. I love babies.

    啊,她實在是很可愛。我最喜歡嬰兒。

  • Do you want to try to hold her?

    妳想要抱她嗎?

  • I'm scared. I think she is gonna yell.

    我害怕。我覺得她會大叫。

  • You can shake hands. Everly shake hands.

    妳可以握手。Everly 握手。

  • Oh wrong hand. Okay. Okay. Oh she's so warm.

    哦,錯手了。好的。好的。哦,她好溫暖。

  • (giggling)

    (咯咯笑)

  • What's your favorite part about

    妳最喜歡哪一個部份

  • Just the bond.

    親密的關係。

  • My mom would always talk about it.

    我媽媽總是談論這個。

  • I was just kinda like oh yeah so its basically a bond

    我當時想哦這不就像是

  • you would have with a sibling, but it's

    和姊妹間的關係嗎,不過它

  • so much more than that. It's just like.

    不只是那樣。它就像。

  • I don't have a good bond with my sibling.

    我和我的姊妹關係不怎麼樣。

  • (everyone laughs)

    (大家都笑了)

  • She's just like "go away". I'm like, "I'm in the hallway".

    她會說「走開」。我會回答,「我在走廊上」。

  • (laughs)

    (笑聲)

  • High five. Oh nope. Not with that hand.

    擊掌。哦不是。不是那隻手。

  • (laughs)

    (笑聲)

  • Bye it was so nice to meet you.

    再見,真高興和妳見面。

  • Bye.

    再見。

  • Everly you want to shake hands too?

    Everly 妳也想要握手嗎?

  • Oh it's the slobber hand.

    哦,這隻是口水手。

  • Oh that's okay. It's a cute slobber hand.

    哦沒關係。這是可愛的口水手。

  • Okay bye.

    拜拜。

  • (Clapping)

    (拍手)

  • Okay. She's happy. I'm gone.

    好的。她很開心。我要走了。

  • Thank you for watching Kids Meet A Teen Mom.

    感謝你們收看 Kids Meet A Tenn Mom。

  • If you wanna subscribe to our YouTube Channel.

    如果你想要訂閱我們 YouTube 頻道

  • Follow our journey. There's a link down below.

    追蹤我們的旅程,下方有連結。

  • Don't forget to also subscribe to Hiho Kids

    不要忘了也訂閱 Hiho Kids

  • and watch more Kids Meet videos.

    並觀看更多 Kids Meet 影片。

  • (baby babbling)

    (嬰兒牙牙學語聲)

  • Oh my gosh.

    哦我的天啊。

  • Bye.

    拜。

  • (Laughs)

    (笑聲)

What does childbirth feel like?

生產的感覺如何?

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