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  • How do I talk to my kid about gender?

    該怎麼和我的孩子討論性別是什麼呢?

  • Little kids get ideas about what it means to be a girl or boy from the world around them.

    小孩子會從周遭環境去理解男生、女生代表的涵意。

  • From you and from other people in your family.

    會從你,以及家庭裡的其他成員身上了去理解。

  • From TV, books, and movies.

    會從電視、書籍以及電影中去理解。

  • And from other kids they know.

    也會從其他小朋友身上理解。

  • It starts from the moment they're born.

    他們從一出生就開始進行這種認知。

  • Think, gender reveal parties: pink nurseries for girls, blue ones for boys; princesses for girls, and superheroes for boys.

    想想看,性別往往被二分化:女孩住在粉色育嬰室,男孩住在藍色育嬰室;女孩喜歡公主,男孩喜歡超人。

  • There's nothing wrong with blue or pink.

    藍色、粉色本身沒有什麼問題。

  • But sometimes the toys, books, and words you choose can send the message that there's a right and wrong way for them to be a boy or girl.

    但有時候你選擇的玩具、書籍和說出口的話可能無形中透露出,當男生或女生有標準對錯。

  • For example, if only little girls play with princess dolls and only little boys play with superheroes;

    舉例來說,如果小女孩只玩公主娃娃、小男孩只玩超人遊戲;

  • It sends the message that girls should focus on looking pretty and finding a prince, while boys should focus on fighting and winning.

    這傳遞了「女生應該注重於打扮得漂漂亮亮並找到自己的王子」,與「男生就應該打架並贏得勝利」的訊息。

  • When you pick a new toy or book, or sign your kid up for a new activity, ask yourself these questions:

    當你為孩子挑玩具、買新書或替他們報名課程時,試著問自己這些問題:

  • Would I feel comfortable with this if my kid wasn't the gender they are?

    今天如果我的孩子是其他性別,我還會選擇買這些玩具、書籍、課程給他們嗎?

  • Why or why not?

    為什麼會,又為什麼不會呢?

  • Does this expand or limit my kid's expectations of who they could grow up to be?

    我的選擇會擴展,還是會限制我孩子對於自己長大後的期待?

  • Does my kid already like things like this, or am I picking it because of their gender?

    我的孩子本來就喜歡這些東西嗎?還是我買這些東西僅因為他們的性別?

  • Making choices that defy gender stereotypes can help your kid grow up feeling like their gender won't limit what they can do with their lives.

    若你替孩子做的選擇能突破性別刻板印象的框架,你的孩子在成長過程中就不會認為自己的潛力可能受限於性別。

  • And that's a good thing if we want to live in a world where everyone has a shot at achieving their dreams.

    這是好事,尤其當我們希望這個世界能讓所有想完成夢想的人都有機會實踐它。

  • The idea is to make sure that whether your daughter dreams of being a firefighter, a scientist, or a parent;

    只要確定,不論你女兒的夢想是成為消防人員、科學家還是家長;

  • And whether your son dreams of being a teacher, a parent, or a professional athlete;

    也不論你兒子夢想當老師、家長或專業運動員;

  • That they feel loved and supported in following what they're passionate about.

    他們追求熱忱的過程中,是被關愛、被支持著的。

  • So give them choices, follow their interests, and let their imaginations lead the way.

    所以讓他們自己選擇,遵循他們所愛,並讓他們的想像力帶領自己前進。

  • Want to learn more?

    想了解更多嗎?

  • Check out plannedparenthood.org/parents.

    到 plannedparenthood.org/parents 看看吧!

How do I talk to my kid about gender?

該怎麼和我的孩子討論性別是什麼呢?

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