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Hey there, Improvement Pill here.
Welcome to lesson three of the Tamed Course.
If you have not watched the previous lessons, pause this video right now and click on the link in the description below.
Because remember in order for you to get the most out of this course;
In order for you to really learn how to change your habits and change your life.
You're gonna have to watch each and every single one of the videos.
In today's video we're going to debunk two of the biggest misconceptions people have about building habits.
And the first is in regards to how long it takes to actually form or break a habit.
You've probably heard at one point or another "oh it takes 21 days" and it's simply just not true.
This misconception actually stems from a guy named Maxwell Maltz.
Maltz was a plastic surgeon back in the 60s.
And he noticed that when he worked with people who got a new nose or add some sort of facial reconstruction, these people would feel uncomfortable when looking in the mirror.
And Maltz found that it took them about 21 days to get used to what they were seeing.
Before they were more comfortable with the new faces.
And what's funny is that he took this simple observation with little to no science backing it up.
And he stated that it takes 21 days to form or break a habit in his book Psycho-Cybernetics.
Which was a self-help book that went on to becoming a best-seller and eventually sold millions of copies.
And over time people just assumed that this 21 days to build a habit thing was true.
So how long does it really take to form or break a habit?
Well the recent study conducted at the College of London by Professor Philippa Whaley found that it really depends.
They looked at a group of people and tracked how long it took for them to reach a point of maximum automaticity for a variety of different habits.
Now for those of you that don't know what automaticity is, it's basically how little thought you need to put into a task.
For example, if I told you to tie your shoe, you wouldn't have to think about it very hard.
Chances are you've tied your shoes enough times that it's already reached a point of maximum automaticity.
A routine is considered to be a fully embedded habit when it reaches the highest point of automaticity.
And here's a graph from the study that depicts this.
The study found that every single routine out there has what's called the automaticity line.
A point where if you've repeated the routine enough times, it becomes as automatic as it's going to get.
At this point your routine is now a habit.
And this study found that it can take anywhere from two weeks to nine months with an average of 66 days to reach this line.
And it all depends on how complicated and hard the routine is.
For example the routine of taking your supplements in the morning might only take three weeks before it reaches the line of automaticity.
Before it becomes a fully embedded habit that you don't even have to think about.
On the other hand, a routine of going to the gym and working out might take six months before it hits this line.
So for all of you out there who think "Oh I only need to stick to this routine for 21 days." or "Oh I just need to complete a 90 day challenge."
You're gravely mistaken.
You have to understand that it's going to be a long, long journey.
A journey that could potentially take almost a year to complete, depending on what sort of habits you're trying to build.
Now this might seem scary for a lot of you.
How am I gonna stick to these habits without missing a day for an entire year?
And this brings us to the common misconception number two.
Which is that if you relapse, if you give in and smoke a cigarette or have a drink or you miss a day of meditation that it's all over.
A lot of us have what I like to call the "all-or-nothing mindset".
We think "Oh, once the streak is broken all of my hard work is gone, and because it's gone I should just relapse over and over again."
"Right? I might as well enjoy myself."
And this is far from the truth.
A significant number of people in the same study missed a day or two when building their assigned new habits.
Maybe they were too tired or maybe they just forgot.
The researchers took this opportunity to look at its effects on the automaticity line.
And to their surprise, they found that missing a single day does not have a clear effect on your progress.
The amount of progress loss was almost non-existent.
However, they found that if you continue to relapse, if you continue to miss days of going to the gym or doing your daily meditation, then you started losing a lot of progress.
And the amount of progress loss was exponential.
So missing two days was significantly worse than missing just one day.
And missing a week was way worse than missing two days.
So what does this mean for us?
This means that we need to shift our mindset.
We shouldn't focus on a numerical streak.
We should not count the amount of days it's been since our last relapse.
The mindset that we should have is that we're gonna try our best to stick to this habit for as many months as it takes.
Until it reaches this line of automaticity.
Because chances are, you're going to relapse at one point or another.
In fact, studies have shown that 90% of all people trying to overcome their addictions or build new habits relapse at least once throughout their journey.
What's important is that you force yourself to go back to building your good habits the following day.
You must resist the urges to binge because that's when you actually start losing progress.
As long as you can do this, you will eventually reach the automaticity line.
You may have postponed it by a day or two.
But as long as you get back up and try again, don't worry about the streak.
You will eventually reach that line.
And once you hit that line, it becomes automatic.
So now that you know how habits work.
And you also know how long it really takes to form a habit.
Now it's time for us to select a habit together.
There's dozens of good habits out there that are all beneficial.
So we're gonna cover a bunch of them and then we're gonna pick one and focus on that one for the rest of the course.
Because remember, our strategy is to adopt good new habits so that they can eventually replace your current addiction.
The tamed course was brought to you for absolutely free with the help of the patrons of this channel.
If you want to support the cause and help me create more videos like this, please visit my Patreon page right here.
Or in the description box below to find out about the perks and benefits that all my patrons receive.
Stay tuned.
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Celeste 發佈於 2019 年 5 月 19 日    Celeste 翻譯    Evangeline 審核
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