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  • But there is one question

    我問自己一個問題,

  • that I ask myself that changed my whole perspective

    這個問題改變我對這些主題全部的看法,

  • on these topics, which brings us to the title of the video

    使我們進入這個影片的標題,

  • and the entire message.

    和完整的內容。

  • Without a doubt, the most important question

    毫無疑問地,

  • that you need to ask yourself

    在做任何事之前,

  • before you do anything in life is...

    你需要問自己的最重要的問題是 ...

  • It's two in the morning in Melbourne, Australia

    在澳洲的墨爾本是凌晨兩點,

  • and I'm sitting on a public bench

    我和我的朋友 Patrick 坐在公共的板凳上,

  • with my friend, Patrick, and we are eating burritos.

    然後我們正吃著墨西哥捲餅。

  • While we're eating, we noticed a group

    當我們在吃東西時,

  • of five guys who are slightly intoxicated

    我們注意到有五個略有醉意的男人,

  • and they were trying to talk to

    他們正試圖與他們接觸的

  • every single girl that they came into contact with.

    每個單身女子搭訕。

  • The interesting thing about this group of people

    有趣的事情是,

  • was that they all appeared to be from different countries.

    這些人都來自不同的國家。

  • Patrick jokingly commented that if there was one thing

    Patrick 開玩笑地評論說,

  • that brings all men together from different backgrounds,

    如果有一件事可以使來自不同背景的人團結一起,

  • it's the pursuit of love and women.

    那就是追求愛情和女人。

  • The next day I woke up and I went to the gym.

    隔天起床我去健身房,

  • As I was in the gym, I noticed

    當我在健身房運動時,

  • that there were people from many different countries

    我注意到不同國家的人

  • who were all working out.

    都在健身。

  • When I saw this, I was reminded of Patrick's comment

    當我看到這個情況時,我想到 Patrick 說的話,

  • and I thought to myself, I guess traveling

    我心想,

  • to cool places like Australia, looking good,

    去向澳洲一樣很酷的地方旅行、長得帥、

  • and the pursuit of love are things

    追求愛情,

  • that most people want in life.

    應該是大部分人想要的人生。

  • When I got home, I started to think more about this concept.

    當我回到家後,我開始更深入思考這個概念。

  • I thought it was interesting how people

    我覺得很有趣的是,

  • who were raised completely differently from me

    那些與我完全不同的人,

  • and who were born in completely different cultures

    或出生在完全不同文化的人,

  • can all want similar things.

    都可能想要類似的東西。

  • I thought to myself, maybe people aren't that different

    我想也許畢竟都是人,

  • from each other, after all.

    彼此間並沒有什麼不同。

  • I started to think about other things

    我開始思考,

  • that pretty much all people want in life

    幾乎所有人都想要的其他事情。

  • and this is the small list that I came up with.

    這是我想出來的清單。

  • Most people want to look good.

    大部分人都想要長得好看。

  • Most people want to have money.

    大部分人都想要有錢。

  • Most people want to meet someone

    大部分人都想要

  • who they can fall in love with.

    和某人談戀愛。

  • Most people want to have a family.

    大部分人都想要組織家庭。

  • And most people want to travel

    大部分人都想要旅行,

  • and see some of the world.

    觀光世界各地。

  • And even if I said something on that list

    即使我說的清單中有你不想要的,

  • that you don't want, I probably said

    但我認為,

  • at least two things that you do want.

    至少有兩件事你會想要。

  • To make things a little more simple,

    簡單來說,

  • I would summarize the three things

    我將總結大多數人在人生中,

  • that most people want in life

    想要的三件事情,

  • to health, wealth, and love.

    健康、財富、愛情。

  • Despite most people wanting the same things,

    儘管大部分人都想要同樣的事情,

  • there is one very important distinction

    我必須做一個非常重要的區分,

  • that I have to make, and that is the why behind it.

    這就是其背後的原因。

  • Have you ever stopped for a second

    你是否曾有停下來一秒鐘思考,

  • and really asked yourself why do I even want money?

    確實地問自己:「為什麼我想要錢嗎?」?

  • Why do I want to have a family?

    「為什麼我想要一個家庭?」

  • And why do I want to have six-pack abs?

    「為什麼我想要六塊肌?」

  • As I've gotten to know myself and more people

    多年來,我逐漸認識自己,

  • from all over the world over the years,

    和更多來自世界各地的人們,

  • I've learned that the reasons why

    我了解到,

  • a lot of people want certain things

    許多人想要某些東西的原因。

  • are not really what you might think.

    並不是你可能想的那樣。

  • I'll give you an example.

    我會給你一個例子。

  • I think pretty much everyone on earth

    我想在地球上的每個人,

  • wants to look good and be healthy.

    都很渴望自己擁有好看的長相和健康的身體。

  • But, let's look at why someone could want that.

    但我們來看看為什麼人們想要那個。

  • Is it because they like the way working out makes them feel?

    是因為他們喜歡健身的感覺嗎?

  • Is it because they want to live a long life

    是因為他們想要活得更久,

  • and have strong bones and a healthy immune system?

    而且擁有強壯的骨頭和健康的免疫系統嗎?

  • Or, is it because they like

    或是,

  • to look at themselves in the mirror?

    因為他們想要看鏡子裡的自己呢?

  • Is it because they want men and women to notice them

    是因為他們希望自己走進房間時,

  • and to look at them when they walk in the room,

    可以吸引男人和女人的目光,

  • which gives them a little ego boost?

    給他們一點自我提升的感覺嗎?

  • Are they insecure about something in their life

    他們是否對生活中的某些事情感到不安定,

  • and are they trying to compensate for it

    而一直藉由健身,

  • by working out all the time?

    試圖彌補這一點呢?

  • I think if everybody was being completely honest

    我想如果每個人都對自己完全誠實的話,

  • with themselves, I would bet the answer,

    我敢打賭,

  • because I wanna take care of my immune system

    「因為我想要照顧好我的免疫系統和骨頭。」

  • and bones is probably the least common answer.

    這是最不可能的答案。

  • Let's very quickly look at a more interesting example,

    我們再來迅速地看一個更有趣的例子,

  • which is getting money and becoming rich.

    就是想要賺很多錢成為有錢人。

  • Why do people want this?

    為什麼人們想要這個?

  • Is it because they want to provide security

    是因為他們想要為自己和未來的家人,

  • for themselves and their potential future family?

    提供安定的生活嗎?

  • Or is it because society tells us

    或是因為這個社會告訴我們,

  • that you are better than the person beside you

    如果你擁有比其他人更多錢,

  • if you have more money than them?

    你就會比別人更好?

  • Do we think that if we have money

    或是我們認為如果我們有錢,

  • we will finally get that girl of our dreams?

    最終就會找到自己的夢中情人?

  • Is it because you have low self-esteem

    是因為你自尊心低,

  • and you think getting money will finally

    你認為有錢就會

  • make you feel good about yourself

    讓你自我感覺良好,

  • and it will fill that little hole

    而且可以彌補

  • that has been with you since childhood?

    從小時候就擁有的空虛?

  • Again, in my personal opinion,

    再一次地,以我個人的觀點來說,

  • the reason is probably not related

    原因不可能是,

  • to providing for the family and getting security.

    為了提供安定的生活給家人。

  • Now, I want to be very clear about something.

    現在,我想要釐清一些事情。

  • I don't think there is anything wrong

    我不覺得人們想要錢、女人、好看的長相,

  • with people wanting money, women, or to look good.

    有任何不對。

  • I'm not saying that if you want these things

    我也不會說如果你想要這些東西,

  • there is something wrong with you and you are insecure.

    你就有些問題或是沒有安全感。

  • After all, these are all things that I want in my own life.

    畢竟,這些都是我在生活中也想要的東西。

  • But there is one question that I asked myself

    我問自己一個問題,

  • that changed my whole perspective on these topics,

    這個問題改變我對這些主題全部的看法,

  • which brings us to the title of the video

    使我們進入這個影片的標題,

  • and the entire message.

    和完整的內容。

  • Without a doubt, the most important question

    毫無疑問,

  • that you need to ask yourself

    在生活中你做任何事之前,

  • before you do anything in life

    或是你決定想要某些東西時 ,

  • or before you decide you want something in life

    你必須問自己最重要的問題,

  • is to ask yourself why.

    就是問自己為什麼。

  • Why do I want this thing?

    「為什麼我想要這個?」

  • Why do I want money?

    「為什麼我想要錢?」

  • Why do I want women?

    「為什麼我想要女人?」

  • Asking yourself why over and over again

    不斷重複問自己為什麼,

  • is like peeling an onion.

    就像是剝洋蔥一樣。

  • It allows you to get to the core of who you are

    這會讓你更了解自己的核心價值,

  • and what you really want.

    和你真正想要的東西。

  • The only trick is, is that you have to be 100% honest

    唯一的訣竅就是你必須 100% 的對自己誠實,

  • with yourself, which is something

    大部分的人

  • most people really don't like to do.

    真的不喜歡這樣做。

  • Doing this will only make you understand yourself better,

    這樣做會讓你更加了解自己,

  • which will make you a better person.

    也會讓你成為更好的人,

  • I would recommend asking why for not only big things,

    我建議你不要只針對大事問為什麼,

  • but also for the smaller things,

    瑣碎小事也可以問為什麼,

  • such as why do I want to do well on this test?

    像是「為什麼我要考好這個考試?」

  • Why do I want to start my own business?

    「為什麼我想要開始創業?」

  • Why do I want to buy these fancy shoes?

    「為什麼我想要買這雙花俏的鞋子?」

  • Is it because I like them?

    「因為我喜歡嗎?」

  • Or is it because I know my friends and family

    或是「因為我知道我的朋友和家人都會喜歡,

  • will like them and then they will finally approve of me.

    所以我想要他們讚美我?」

  • Try it out, see what happens.

    試著去思考,看看會發生什麼事情。

  • It had a huge impact on my own life.

    這對我人生造成很大的影響。

  • So, the channel has grown a lot over the past few weeks

    在過去幾周,這個頻道成長不少。

  • and I just wanted to welcome

    我只是想歡迎所有新成員的加入,

  • all the new members to the community.

    歡迎加入這個社群。

  • If you are watching this,

    如果你在看這個影片,

  • be sure to turn the notification bell on

    請確保打開通知鍵,

  • so that way you won't miss any future videos.

    這樣你就不會錯過未來上傳的任何影片。

  • I want to be able to serve you guys better,

    我想要給你們更好的,

  • so if you ever want to suggest a video idea

    所以如果你們想提出一個影片創意,

  • or you don't like something about the video,

    或是你不喜歡影片的某些內容,

  • let me know because I really value your feedback.

    請讓我知道,我非常重視你的回饋。

  • If you guys enjoyed the video, please leave it a like

    如果你們喜歡這個影片,請幫我按個讚,

  • and, of course, subscribe to the channel.

    當然還要訂閱此頻道。

  • As always, I'll see you in the next one.

    如同以往,我們將在下個影片與你再會!

  • (gentle music)

    (輕音樂)

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我問自己一個問題,

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