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  • Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.

  • Today, we're showing you 10 powerful tricks that can help you to get a girl to like you

  • And because we don't want you to blow your first impression with some bad PUA strategy,

  • We're also letting you know the #1 stupidest thing guys try to do to pick up a girl.

  • So.... here are 10 tricks you can use to get quickly a girl to like you + the 1 pick up

  • strategy guaranteed to make you look like an idiot

  • 10. Subtly Mirror Her Body Language to Subconsciously Build Familiarity

  • The problem with mirroring is it's really easy to get caught doing it if you're too

  • obvious.

  • So in order to do it effectively, start small and try this:

  • Without following too closely, simply try to match her body positioning.

  • If she crosses her leg, try crossing yours.

  • If she plays with her hair, adjust yours.

  • It may seem weird but in reality, you'll be subconsciously winning her over.

  • 9. Get Other People Around You to Like You First

  • Think about how many people you encounter

  • on an average night with a woman: Friends, wait staff, and countless others.

  • What if I told you that every single one of those people could help show a girl you're

  • good guy?

  • It's not as crazy as it sounds, because all you have to do to get them to help you

  • ... is treat them with respect and kindness.

  • Not only is it simply a better way to go about dealing with people,

  • But their warm reactions and approval of you will be guaranteed to help her like you.

  • 8. Make Comfortable Eye Contact By Focusing on the Space Between Her Eyes

  • While avoiding eye contact can make you seem shy or even scared,

  • Too much eye contact can actually be pretty intimidating (for you and for her).

  • So here's a trick: Instead of trying to look her dead in the

  • eye, Look at between her eyes and let your less-intense

  • peripheral vision do the work.

  • Not only will she not feel like you're uncomfortably staring at her,

  • But you also won't have to worry about how much eye contact you're giving her.

  • 7. Be the First One To Break Eye Contact...But Don't Do It Too Fast

  • Since we're on the subject of eye contact, here's a question that comes up a lot:

  • What if I “accidentallymake eye contact with a woman?

  • First off, don't pretend you weren't looking.

  • Instead, leverage your thieving glance to your advantage

  • and acknowledge her.

  • Here's how you do it: Hold your friendly eye contact for just a

  • brief moment...then look away before she does.

  • Women actually tend to be a lot better than men at this little game but if you do it right...

  • You immediately go from just a creepy stranger to a guy she might talk to.

  • 6. DON'T Touch Her In a Friendly Way

  • Now, that does NOT mean giving her sleazy,

  • uninvited or overly-aggressive touches, But if you want her to see you as not just

  • a friend, but as potentially something more you've got to differentiate how you touch

  • her, from how her friends do.

  • Luckily, you can do that while still respecting her boundaries:

  • So instead of giving her more high fives, fist bumps or pats on the back,

  • Just try limiting your contact to lightly touching her arms or shoulders every so often.

  • 5. Dress Well In Clothes That Emphasize Your Shoulders

  • Just like it's scientifically proven that men are more attracted to a certain hip-to-waist

  • ratio, women are more attracted to guys with a stronger

  • shoulder-to-waist ratio Now, I know what you're thinking:

  • What if I have narrower shoulders?

  • Well that's OK!

  • Because there's a trick for that: and that's to find clothes that fit right

  • and emphasize a more masculine build.

  • 4. Stand Up Straight

  • Do you want to instantly convey confidence,

  • and high energy to every woman you meet?

  • Then standing up straight is an absolute must.

  • Now, like anything else, don't overdo it by puffing up your chest.

  • Instead, relax your shoulders, brace your core and hold your chin up.

  • Even if you're short statured, this is one simple trick that's scientifically

  • proven to make a better impression with women.

  • 3. Bring Up Something Specific She Said in the Past

  • It might be the oldest trick in the book, But simply showing her you're listening

  • is one thing that guys constantly fail to do.

  • Not sure how to listen any better than you already do?

  • Here's how: #1. As she's talking, listen and actively ask

  • relevant follow up questions

  • #2. And in the days after she told you something she has going on, ask her how it went.

  • 2. Don't Be Overly Available or Obsessive

  • First off, this does not mean you should just

  • pretend like you're busy and have a lot going on,

  • Because if you do, most girls will catch on to your scheme, and forget about you pretty

  • quickly.

  • But one of the biggest ways for a girl to realize how much she likes you,

  • Is to realize that she misses you and wants to spend more time with you.

  • And in order for her to do that, you're can't be overly available.

  • 1. Don't Act Like A Highschooler

  • By far the best, most effective trick to truly

  • getting a girl to like you ...is to make sure she doesn't detect anything

  • shady about you.

  • And the best way to do that, is to be honest and upfront with her.

  • Because take it from us guys: Women know when something is off.

  • So do yourself a favor.

  • Instead of using these tricks to convince a girl to like you,

  • Use them to really make yourself a decent, confident guy that any woman would want.

  • As promised, here is the #1 worst way to try to pick up a woman you want to like you

  • And it's what's known as theindirect opening.”

  • This tactic involves lying to a girl about why you're talking to her.

  • For example, if a guy is at the mall and doesn't have any way to start a conversation with

  • a girl He might try to open the conversation by asking

  • for the time, for directions or for a girl's opinion on something he

  • doesn't actually care about.

  • Not only would he be lying to a girl he wants to like him right off the bat,

  • But if he get caught doing it (which is incredibly likely to happen),

  • It also ruins any chance he might have had with the girl.

  • Those are the 10 powerful tricks to get a girl to like you and the #1 worst way you

  • can try to start a conversation with a girl.

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  • And while you're here,why not check out these other powerful videos?

  • Thanks for watching!

Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.

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