Understanding the psychology behind the way you behave and treat others can be very useful in your daily life.

理解人類行為與其對待他人方式背後的心理學，在日常生活中非常有用。

Here're the most surprising psychology facts that can help you understand yourself and others better.

以下幾項令人吃驚的心理學真相可以幫助你更了解自己與他人。

Check out number twenty. It's a total surprise.

第 20 項完全出乎意料！

Number one, any friendship that begins in the period between sixteen and twenty-eight years of age is more likely to be robust and long-lasting.

首先，任何在 16 到 28 歲之間萌芽的友情比較可能成長茁壯與長久。

Two, women generally prefer men with deep husky voices because they seem more confident and not aggressive.

第二點，一般來說女性比較偏好聲音低沉沙啞的男性，因為他們看起來比較有自信、沒有侵略性。

(HOWLING)

(金鋼狼式嗥叫)

Three, the smarter the person is, the faster he thinks and the sloppier his handwriting is.

第三點，一個人越聰明，代表他思考反應越快且字跡越潦草。

Four, our emotions don't affect the way we communicate.

第四點，情緒不會影響我們溝通的方式。

In fact, the way we communicate has an influence on our mood.

事實上我們溝通的方式會影響我們的心情。

Five, the way a person treats restaurant staff reveals a lot about their character.

第五點，可以從一個人對待餐廳員工的態度看出他的性格。

Six, people who have a strong sense of guilt understand others' thoughts and feelings better.

第六點，擁有強烈罪惡感的人較能理解其他人的想法與感受。

Seven, men are not funnier than women.

第七點，男性並非比女性幽默風趣。

They just make more jokes, not caring whether others like their humor or not.

他們只是開更多玩笑，且不在乎別人喜不喜歡他們的幽默感罷了。

Eight, Shy people talk little about themselves, but they do so in a way that makes other people feel that they know them very well.

第八點，害羞的人很少提起自己的事，但某種程度上來說，他們讓其他人自以為很了解他們。

Nine, women have twice as many pain receptors in their bodies than men, but they have a much higher pain tolerance.

第九點，女性比男性多了兩倍數量的痛覺感受器，但她們的忍痛力高出許多。

Ten, listening to high-frequency music makes you feel calm, relaxed and happy.

第十點，聆聽高頻率的音樂讓你感到平靜、放鬆與快樂。

Eleven, if you can't stop your stream of thoughts at night, get up and write them down.

第十一點，如果你在夜晚被思緒纏身，就起床把這些思緒寫下來吧！

This trick will set your mind at ease, so you can sleep.

這個小技巧會讓你心靈放鬆好入眠。

Twelve, good morning and good night text messages activate the part of the brain responsible for happiness.

第十二點，道早安、晚安的簡訊會觸發腦中管理快樂情緒的部分。

Thirteen, doing things that scare you will make you happier.

第十三點，做你害怕的事會讓你更快樂。

Fourteen, the average amount of time a woman can keep a secret is 47 hours and 15 minutes!

第十四點，女人可以保守秘密的平均時間為 ... 四十七小時又十五分鐘！

Fifteen, people who try to keep everyone happy often end up feeling the loneliest.

第十五點，想讓每個人都開心的人往往最後感到最寂寞。

Sixteen, the happier we are, the less sleep we require.

第十六點，人越開心，需要的睡眠就越少。

Seventeen, when you hold the hand of your beloved, you feel less pain and worry less.

第十七點，當你牽著摯愛的手，你會覺得痛苦、擔憂都減少了。

Eighteen, intelligent people have fewer friends than the average person.

第十八點，聰明的人交的朋友比一般人少。

The smarter the person is the more selective they are.

因為越聰明的人越有交友上的選擇性。

Nineteen, marrying your best friend eliminates the risk of divorce by over 70%.

第十九點，跟最要好的朋友結婚可以減少超過百分之七十的離婚風險。

This marriage is more likely to last a lifetime.

這樣的婚姻很可能就是一輩子的婚姻。

Twenty, the people who give the best advice are usually the ones with the most problems.

第二十點，最擅長給建議的人通常自身的毛病最多。

Twenty-one, women who have mostly male friends stay in a good mood more often.

第二十一點，擁有大部分都是男性朋友的女性更常保持心情愉悅。

Twenty-two, people who speak two languages may unconsciously shift their personalities when they switch from one language to another.

第二十二點，說兩種語言的人會下意識在切換語言時個性也跟著改變。

Twenty-three, being alone for a long time is as bad for your health as smoking fifteen cigarettes a day.

第二十三點，長時間獨處對身體的負面影響跟每天抽十五根菸一樣。

Twenty-four, travel boosts brain health and decreases a person's risk of heart attack and depression.

第二十四點，旅遊會提高腦部健康和減少罹患心臟病與憂鬱症的風險。

Twenty-five, people look more attractive when they speak about the thing they are interested in.

第二十五，當人在談論他們有興趣的話題時會顯得更迷人。

And number twenty-six, when two people talk to each other and one of them turns their feet slightly away or repeatedly moves one foot in an outward direction.

第二十六，當兩個人交談時，其中一人將腳微微轉向，或重複地將一隻腳向外移動。

This is a sign of disagreement.

這是不認同的象徵。

Which psychology fact do you find the most intriguing?

哪項心理學事實最吸引你？

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