Name: TED】Tracee Ellis Ross:女人的憤怒蘊含著一生的智慧(A woman's fury holds lifetimes of wisdom | Tracee Ellis Ross) (【TED】Tracee Ellis Ross: A woman's fury holds lifetimes of wisdom (A woman's fury holds lifetimes of wisdom | Tracee Ellis Ross))
Uploaded: 2021-01-14T07:35:34.000Z
Duration: 10 min 36 s

And a couple of days before Christmas, she was at the post office.

It was really crowded, as it is around the holidays,

而在聖誕節的幾天前，她在郵局。

那裡很擁擠，因為正是假日時節，

And out of nowhere, someone moved her out of the way --

just physically put their hands on her and moved her out of the way.

不知從哪裡冒出來一個人， 將她挪開了──

He apparently needed something that she was blocking,

真的把手放在她身上，將她移開了。

他顯然需要一些被她擋住的東西，

Maybe he had said something to her, maybe he didn't, she didn't hear it ...

Either way, she was focused, she was filling out the form.

或許他對她說了一些話， 或許他沒有，她沒有聽到……

And the next thing you know, there were hands on her,

不管怎麼說，她正全神貫注， 填寫她的表格。

She said that she was shocked at first --

And then a fury rose up in her that she could not explain:

然後她感受到一種憤怒， 連她自己都無法解釋：

「我的意思是，我想要肢體攻擊他。

So later, I was left pondering this fury,

追著他跑然後對著 他的臉大喊大叫。」

and looking for an explanation as to why, even in her telling of it,

所以之後，我在思考這個憤怒，

並且嘗試著解釋為什麼， 即使在她的講述中，

and why this was a word and a feeling that I was hearing a lot about lately.

I feel like this is the point in the room

為什麼這是我最近經常聽到的 一個詞和一種感覺？

where all the men are getting a little bit uncomfortable.

所有的男人都感到有一點不舒服。

This fury is something that I have been chomping on

這種憤怒是自 上次美國總統大選以來

並非只我的朋友一個人有這種憤怒。

by lifetimes of men helping themselves to women's bodies

男性在未經同意的情況下 擅自操弄女性的身體

There's a culture of men helping themselves to women,

有一種男性擅自操弄女性的文化，

where a woman's body is like a saltshaker:

"Get out of the way so I can get to the fries" --

一個女人的身體被當做一個鹽瓶：

「讓一下，這樣我就可以 拿到薯條了」──

I imagine that some of you are wondering what the connection is

我想你們中的一些人或許想知道

two things that seem to be on opposite ends of the spectrum.

它們兩個看起來完全相反， 處在光譜的兩頭。

The innocuous makes space for the horrific.

那麼，共同的聯繫便是那個光譜。

And women have to live with the effects of both

無害的舉動為更可怕的 舉動提供了空間。

而女人必須同時忍受這兩方面的影響

can you imagine you're just on your phone,

and someone walks up to you and just takes it out of your hand?

能否想像一下，你正在看手機，

And they're like, "OK dude, I don't know why you're getting so upset,

然後有個人向你走來， 直接從你手上把它拿走了？

而他們說，「行了，老兄， 我不知道你為何這麼不高興，

I'm going to give it back to you as soon as I'm done.

一旦打完以後我會立即還給你。

And then imagine if someone takes that cell phone out of your hands --

然後想像一下 如果有人從你手中拿走手機，

"Yeah, well, I mean, you got a fancy case,"

or "You shouldn't have taken it out of your pocket,"

「是啊，嗯，我是說， 你的手機殼很獨特。」

或者「你不應該 從口袋裡把它拿出來」，

But somehow, no one ever talks about the person who took the cell phone.

但不知何故，從來沒有人 談論過把手機拿走的人。

Men are so used to helping themselves, that it's like ...

And not because men are fundamentally less moral,

but because this is a very big blind spot for most men.

When someone helps themselves to a woman,

而這並不是因為男人天生更不道德，

it not only triggers discomfort and distress,

而是因為，這是絕大多數 男人的一個盲點。

but the unspoken experiences of our mothers' lives,

That's lifetimes of women dealing with men

還會帶出那些沒有說出口的經歷。

who assume they know better for us than we know for ourselves,

是我們母親的生活，姐妹的生活，

以及我們之前幾代的女人所經歷的。

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