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  • Hello, everyone. I'm George.

    大家好,我是George

  • Today, let's talk about "How to start a conversation."

    今天我們來談談如何開啟聊天狀態

  • Okay. I'm still in Japan right now. And you know when you're in a strange place,

    我還在日本

  • or a foreign country, you want to know a person, you have to start with a

    你知道如果你在一個陌生的地方或是國外

  • conversation. So exactly how do you do that? In this channel, we have already

    你想要認識某人

  • talked about how to end a conversation If you really want to get away. If you

    你都是要從談話開始的

  • want to know more about this, you can check the video here. So in this video

    但到底要怎麼做呢?

  • we're gonna talk about how to start a conversation either with a stranger or

    在這個頻道我們已經談過如何快速結束對話離開

  • maybe a co-worker you've always wanted to talk to. And today we're gonna

    如果你想要知道更多

  • cover four methods that you can use to talk to people. In each method we will

    你可以看這裡的影片

  • give you two examples sentences. Maybe it's going to be very useful the next time

    在這個影片裡,我們要來說說如何開始對話

  • when you want to meet a new person. And here we go. Method number one. Give

    可能是跟陌生人

  • compliments. People like to hear something nice about themselves, and

    或是一個你一直想要談話的同事

  • therefore it's a very good way for you to start a conversation with someone

    今天我們會談到四個方式

  • When that person is happy, the conversation can keep going. Let's just

    你可以用來和人對話

  • take a look at the two example sentences. Number One.

    每一個方式裡有兩個例句

  • When you see someone very early in the morning or for the first time in a day, you try to

    或許你下次想要認識新人的時候會很有用

  • notice something new or something fancy on that person. And you point it out.

    我們開始吧

  • Especially when you say "Where did you get it?" You're inviting more information

    方法一

  • into the conversation. So that person will start talking about where he or she

    大家都喜歡聽到對於自己的好話

  • gets it and then you keep talking. And example number two.

    所以這是一個很棒的開啟對話的方式

  • Usually after a meeting or after a speech, you go to that person you really

    當他開心的時候

  • want to talk to, and then you compliment about their performance on stage. Not

    對話就會持續進行了

  • only that, you're asking about the secrets. If that person is a very nice

    我們來看這兩個例句吧

  • person, he or she will share how they prepared. Of course the purpose is for

    第一

  • the conversation to keep going, and your job is done. Just remember, in this group

    當你很早看到某人,或是當天第一次看到時

  • when you are giving compliments, be sincere.

    你試著注意他身上有沒有什麼新的東西或是亮麗的東西

  • You cannot go too far. If you do, it'll sound really fake.

    然後你提出來

  • (Hey, Mr. Philips. Nice suit.)

    特別是當你問“你在哪裡買的?”

  • (Right there. That was so fake.)

    你會製造更多的話題在你們的對話中

  • And let's move on to method number two.

    那個人就會開始說他/她在哪裡買的

  • People like their opinions being valued. We all have the

    然後你們就在聊天了

  • desire to be respected and that is why when you are asking for opinions, most

    第二個例子

  • nice people would appreciate a lot, which means this conversation can keep going.

    通常在一個會議或是演講之後

  • in a very positive way. And let's just take a look at the two example sentences here..

    你走到那個你想要對話的人面前

  • Number one.

    然後你稱讚他們在台上的表現

  • You are looking at something, maybe reading a book or

    不只如此

  • reading the proceedings of the meeting, or people's report. You find something

    你還問他們秘訣

  • that is confusing. Then you point out the problem, and you go to that person. Ask

    如果那個人夠好的話

  • the question. Ask for opinions. For most nice people, they would try to explain

    她/他就會分享他們如何準備的

  • things for you. And then you go to method number one, give a little bit of

    當然目的是

  • compliments. Then you're talking. You're having a conversation. And let's take a

    讓對話持續進行

  • look at the example sentence number two.

    你就達成目標了

  • If you notice that person you want to talk to likes to travel, then it's a very good

    但要記得

  • conversation piece. You go to that person, you start talking about your plan for

    在這個方式中,當你稱讚對方時

  • your vacation. Maybe he or she has some very good ideas. While you're doing that,

    要有誠意喔

  • you can talk about to your last vacation. You can share your future vacation plans.

    不要太誇張了

  • And then you are having a very pleasant

    如果你這樣做,會聽起來太假

  • conversation. Remember, a conversation is a two-way street. Don't just listen. Don't

    Hey!Philips先生,西裝真好看!

  • just ask questions. Sometimes you have to share a little bit. And let's move on to

    有有有。。。好假喔!~

  • method number three.

    噓~~~

  • If you find someone you want to know about, you might have already observed a little bit.

    我們繼續看第二個方法

  • Not in a creepy way. Don't be a stalker.

    人們喜歡他們的意見被重視

  • You would go to that person. Ask about the interest that you share

    我們都有被尊重的欲望

  • with each other. You might start a conversation. Let's

    這就是為什麼當你問人意見時

  • take a look at example sentence number one.

    大部分的好人都會很開心

  • If it is baseball season or basketball season, and you notice the person that you like to talk to also

    代表的是,這個對話可以持續正向地進行

  • enjoys the ballgame that you do, then why not? Start asking about the result or

    我們繼續來看兩個例句

  • your favorite teams. Maybe you share the same passion in sports. This also goes

    第一

  • with fashion or technology. Whatever you think the other person likes, you can go

    你在看某樣東西

  • to that person and talk about it. And let's move on to example sentence number two.

    可能在讀一本書或是會議的紀錄

  • Sometimes it's not something that you like. It's something

    或是別人的報告

  • that you don't like. Or someone you hate. You work in the same place. You don't

    你發現令人困惑的地方

  • like the manager. Find the common enemy. Start talking about that person. If you

    你指出問題所在

  • share the same opinion, then that conversation will go without any further

    然後你上前去問問題

  • help. But be careful, you have to be very sure about what you're talking about.

    詢問意見

  • Or you might end up making some new enemies. And let's move on to method number four.

    大部分的好人

  • This is actually very common in America. When you

    他們會試著為你解釋

  • ask people some controversial questions or some opinion questions, you say would

    然後你使用第一個方式

  • you rather do this or that. You make the other person make a choice, and you find

    稍微稱讚一下

  • out what he or she likes. Sometimes the question could be very tricky or very

    你們就在對話啦

  • interesting. Let's just take a look at the two example questions. Number one.

    你們就在聊天了

  • This is the kind of question that asked about personal preferences.

    我們繼續看第二個例句

  • There is no right or wrong answers. The fun part is you will know

    如果你注意到你想要談話的對象喜歡旅行

  • more about the person. Why not answer the question right now. If you have an answer,

    這就是個很好的話題啦

  • put some comments down below. And question number two.

    你走上前去

  • This is a more serious question.

    你開始談論你假期的計畫

  • Remember, you have to make sure the person does not get offended because

    或許他/她有很棒的想法

  • you're asking about the funeral. Again, this kind of question has no correct

    你在這麼做的時候

  • answers. What you need to do is pick one and talk about the reason. If that person

    你還可以說說你上次的旅行

  • is too shy for this kind of question, you might want to try to induce a little bit

    你也可以分享未來的旅遊計畫

  • of interest. Through the process, you will have the conversation. Remember, what

    然後你們就會有一個令人開心的對話了

  • you're asking this kind of questions, don't just ask yes/no questions. And that

    但要記得

  • is why this "would rather question" would work a lot. Because in addition to

    對話總是雙向的

  • choosing one of the answers, you also have to explain why. And during the

    不要總是聽,或是總是問問題

  • explanation, you will have the conversation that you want.

    有些時候你也要稍微分享一下

  • So these are the four methods that I introduced today that you can use to start a conversation

    我們繼續看方法三

  • with someone. Do you have any problem talking to someone? Share your comments

    如果你發現了你想要更了解的人

  • below. Let me know. If you liked this video, make sure you click the like

    你可能已經注意一陣子了

  • button, or you can subscribe to the channel.

    不是變態的那種

  • I'll see you next time. Bye.

    不要變跟蹤狂了

Hello, everyone. I'm George.

大家好,我是George

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