字幕列表 影片播放 列印英文字幕 (upbeat music) - Hey this is Mark Black, speaker, author and founder of Your Best Year Yet and I want to help you today to conquer procrastination. Do you procrastinate? Are you somebody that has a list of things that they know they need to get to but you never seem to get to them? Are you somebody that makes a to-do list and you have a few items on that list that just get pushed to the next day and the next day and the next day? Are you somebody that files their taxes the day before they're due? Are you somebody that waits until the last minute to decide what they're going to have for supper? Are you one of those people who waits until you get a diagnosis at the doctor before you go for regular checkups? We all have a tendency to procrastinate here and there in different areas of our life, typically the ones that we're most uncomfortable with or that we'd rather avoid but some of us are more chronic procrastinators than others and if that's you, I'm talking to you right now. How do you avoid that problem? I want to give you a really simple but powerful technique to help you avoid procrastination, it's called What's Next. What's next, ask yourself that question. See, what happens when we procrastinate, typically, is that we see a task in front of us and it feels like it's really big, it feels overwhelming, it may be anything from... planning a trip or it might be building a house or it might be paying your taxes, or it might, it could be anything but whatever it is, it feels like the project is really big and you don't know where to start or you feel like it's gonna take so long and I don't have time to get it all done right now, so I'll just wait and put it off, when if you would just start, you would be so much further ahead. How many times have you put something off and put something off and put something off and then found yourself having to buckle down and get a whole lot of work done in a very short period of time because the deadline was looming? I've done that. You remember your student days, did you ever cram for an exam? Like the day before? You knew the exam was coming for the whole semester, but for some reason you waited until the last day or the last couple of days before you got around to do anything about it. The reason that we do that is because we feel like the task is monumental, we feel like there's so much to get done that I don't even know where to start. The solution to that is to just ask what's next. To not try and complete the entire task all at once, to understand that you don't need to get it all figured out, just figure out what's next. When sometimes I meet people who are considering starting a business, and they're overwhelmed by all of the things that they think they need to do, you know, I've gotta get a website, and I've gotta figure out what my business is going to be called and I need to figure out who my target customer is and I need to go get a bank account and I need to do this and I need to do that, and I need, whoa, no, you don't. What's the next thing you need to do? Do that. Once you've got that done, then figure out the next thing you need to do. The saying you've maybe heard before that I love is how do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. I like to talk to people about running marathons cos that's my frame of reference, I've done it four times now and a marathon is 26 miles and if you start at the start line with the idea that you need to run 26 miles, well for most of us that's very overwhelming, even after having trained and prepared, the thought at the start line of I've gotta run for 26 miles, which, when you run at my pace, is a four or five hour process, it's overwhelming, so I need to think about, I need to run one kilometer, and once I get that kilometer done then I'll run the next one and when I get that one down, I'll run the next one and so on and so forth. Life works the same way, business works the same way. What's the next thing you need to do? Worry about that. Once you've completed that then you can move to the next thing and when we don't get overwhelmed, because we have a small step that's manageable, then we won't procrastinate, we'll take action and that cumulative effect means that you get more done in less time and you find yourself less often in situations where you feel overwhelmed and you feel like you've got way too much to do and not enough time to do it. So give that technique a try next time you're tempted to procrastinate or put something off, tell yourself I don't need to get it all done but can I do one thing, can I do the next thing today? Cos if I do that consistently over time I'll complete the task in small chunks and never feel overwhelmed by it. What's next for you right now? Answer that in the comments below. Whatever you're currently working on, whatever you are worried about, stressed about, concerned about, whatever your thing is right now, what's next for you, what's that next step that you need to take? Share that in the comments below. I love hearing your comments and knowing that you're watching these videos. I really appreciate it when you share them with people too, that's wonderful, seeing the momentum that we're building here and seeing all the people that are watching these is really gratifying, makes me want to come back into the studio here and shoot more videos for you. So share in the comments below, what's next for you? I look forward to seeing that and until next time, remember, don't live every day like it's your last day, just be alive every day. (upbeat music) Hey guys this is Mark, thank you for watching that video. Do me a favor, if you're not already subscribed to the channel, click that subscribe button there you see and that way you will be instantly notified every time I put out a new video like this. 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