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  • - Hey this is Mark Black, speaker, author

  • and founder of Your Best Year Yet

  • and I want to help you today to conquer procrastination.

  • Do you procrastinate?

  • Are you somebody that has a list of things

  • that they know they need to get to

  • but you never seem to get to them?

  • Are you somebody that makes a to-do list

  • and you have a few items on that list

  • that just get pushed to the next day

  • and the next day and the next day?

  • Are you somebody that files their taxes

  • the day before they're due?

  • Are you somebody that waits until the last minute

  • to decide what they're going to have for supper?

  • Are you one of those people who waits

  • until you get a diagnosis at the doctor

  • before you go for regular checkups?

  • We all have a tendency to procrastinate here and there

  • in different areas of our life,

  • typically the ones that we're most uncomfortable with

  • or that we'd rather avoid

  • but some of us are more chronic procrastinators than others

  • and if that's you, I'm talking to you right now.

  • How do you avoid that problem?

  • I want to give you a really simple

  • but powerful technique to help you avoid procrastination,

  • it's called What's Next.

  • What's next, ask yourself that question.

  • See, what happens when we procrastinate, typically,

  • is that we see a task in front of us

  • and it feels like it's really big,

  • it feels overwhelming,

  • it may be anything from...

  • planning a trip or it might be building a house

  • or it might be paying your taxes,

  • or it might, it could be anything

  • but whatever it is, it feels like the project is really big

  • and you don't know where to start

  • or you feel like it's gonna take so long

  • and I don't have time to get it all done right now,

  • so I'll just wait and put it off,

  • when if you would just start,

  • you would be so much further ahead.

  • How many times have you put something off

  • and put something off and put something off

  • and then found yourself having to buckle down

  • and get a whole lot of work done

  • in a very short period of time

  • because the deadline was looming?

  • I've done that.

  • You remember your student days,

  • did you ever cram for an exam?

  • Like the day before?

  • You knew the exam was coming for the whole semester,

  • but for some reason you waited until the last day

  • or the last couple of days before you got around

  • to do anything about it.

  • The reason that we do that

  • is because we feel like the task is monumental,

  • we feel like there's so much to get done

  • that I don't even know where to start.

  • The solution to that is to just ask what's next.

  • To not try and complete the entire task all at once,

  • to understand that you don't need to get it all figured out,

  • just figure out what's next.

  • When sometimes I meet people who are

  • considering starting a business,

  • and they're overwhelmed by all of the things

  • that they think they need to do, you know,

  • I've gotta get a website, and I've gotta figure out

  • what my business is going to be called

  • and I need to figure out who my target customer is

  • and I need to go get a bank account

  • and I need to do this and I need to do that,

  • and I need, whoa, no, you don't.

  • What's the next thing you need to do?

  • Do that.

  • Once you've got that done,

  • then figure out the next thing you need to do.

  • The saying you've maybe heard before that I love

  • is how do you eat an elephant?

  • One bite at a time.

  • I like to talk to people about running marathons

  • cos that's my frame of reference,

  • I've done it four times now

  • and a marathon is 26 miles

  • and if you start at the start line

  • with the idea that you need to run 26 miles,

  • well for most of us that's very overwhelming,

  • even after having trained and prepared,

  • the thought at the start line

  • of I've gotta run for 26 miles,

  • which, when you run at my pace,

  • is a four or five hour process, it's overwhelming,

  • so I need to think about, I need to run one kilometer,

  • and once I get that kilometer done

  • then I'll run the next one and when I get that one down,

  • I'll run the next one and so on and so forth.

  • Life works the same way, business works the same way.

  • What's the next thing you need to do?

  • Worry about that.

  • Once you've completed that then you can move

  • to the next thing and when we don't get overwhelmed,

  • because we have a small step that's manageable,

  • then we won't procrastinate, we'll take action

  • and that cumulative effect means that you get more done

  • in less time and you find yourself less often

  • in situations where you feel overwhelmed

  • and you feel like you've got way too much to do

  • and not enough time to do it.

  • So give that technique a try next time you're tempted

  • to procrastinate or put something off,

  • tell yourself I don't need to get it all done

  • but can I do one thing, can I do the next thing today?

  • Cos if I do that consistently over time

  • I'll complete the task in small chunks

  • and never feel overwhelmed by it.

  • What's next for you right now?

  • Answer that in the comments below.

  • Whatever you're currently working on,

  • whatever you are worried about, stressed about,

  • concerned about, whatever your thing is right now,

  • what's next for you, what's that next step

  • that you need to take?

  • Share that in the comments below.

  • I love hearing your comments

  • and knowing that you're watching these videos.

  • I really appreciate it when you share them

  • with people too, that's wonderful,

  • seeing the momentum that we're building here

  • and seeing all the people that are watching these

  • is really gratifying, makes me want to come back

  • into the studio here and shoot more videos for you.

  • So share in the comments below, what's next for you?

  • I look forward to seeing that

  • and until next time, remember,

  • don't live every day like it's your last day,

  • just be alive every day.

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  • Hey guys this is Mark,

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  • And as a thank you for doing that,

  • I want to give you a special gift.

  • I wrote a book a few years ago

  • called Live Life From the Heart:

  • 52 Weeks to a Life of Passion and Purpose.

  • It is a guide book, to help you live a passion-filled life

  • and I sold thousands of copies of that book,

  • I still sell it to this day on my website

  • and after events, but I want to give it to you

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如何停止自責......現在就開始 (How to Stop Proscrastinating...Now)

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