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If you're still struggling with consent, just imagine instead of initiating sex,
you're making them a cup of tea. You say "hey, would you like a cup of tea?"
And they go "oh my god, I would LOVE a cup of tea! Thank you!"
Then you know they want a cup of tea.
If you say "hey, would you like a cup of tea?" and they're like "um... you know, I'm not really sure…"
then you can make them a cup of tea, or not, but be aware they might not drink it,
and if they don't drink it then – and this is the important part –  don't make them drink it.
Just because you made it doesn't mean you are entitled to watch them drink it.
And If they say "No thank you" then don't make them tea. At all. Just don't make them tea,
don't make them drink tea, don't get annoyed at them for not wanting tea.
They just don't want tea, ok? They might say "Yes please, that's kind of you"
and then when the tea arrives they actually don't want the tea at all.
Sure, that's kind of annoying as you've gone to all the effort of making the tea,
but they remain under no obligation to drink the tea. They did want tea, now they don't.
Some people change their mind in the time that it takes to boil that kettle, brew the tea and add the milk.
And it's ok for people to change their mind, and you are still not entitled to watch them drink it.
And If they are unconscious, don't make them tea.
Unconscious people don't want tea and they can't answer the question "do you want tea"
because they're are unconscious. Ok, maybe they were conscious when you asked them if they wanted tea,
and they said yes, but in the time it took you to boil the kettle,
brew the tea and add the milk, they are now unconscious.
You should just put the tea down, make sure the unconscious person is safe, and this is the important part again
– don't make them drink the tea. They said yes then, sure, but unconscious people don't want tea.
If someone said yes to tea, started drinking it,
and then passed out before they'd finished it, don't keep on pouring it down their throat.
Take the tea away. Make sure they're safe. Because unconscious people don't want tea.
Trust me on this. If someone said "yes" to tea around your house last Saturday,
that doesn't mean that they want you to make them tea all the time.
They don't want you to come around at their place unexpectedly and make them tea
and force them to drink it going "BUT YOU WANTED TEA LAST WEEK",
or to wake up to find you pouring tea down their throat going "BUT YOU WANTED TEA LAST NIGHT".
If you can understand how completely ludicrous it is to force people to have tea when they don't want tea,
and you are able to understand when people don't want tea,
then how hard is it to understand it when it comes to sex? Whether it's tea or sex, Consent Is Everything.
And on that note, I am going to make myself a cup of tea.
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搞不懂人家到底要不要?讓我們用喝茶來比喻性行為... (Tea Consent (Clean))

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Kristi Yang 發佈於 2017 年 11 月 4 日

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還搞不懂你的對象或伴侶給你的暗示嗎?這部影片將性行為比喻成喝茶,透過幽默詼諧的手法教你如何判斷對方到底是要,還是不要。讓我們來一探究竟吧!

1entitle0:36
entitle 這個字是個動詞,是「給予(某人…)的權利、使符合資格、給…命名」的意思。
Children and the elderly are entitled to cheaper entry fees to the amusement park.
小孩及年長者擁有付較少費用進遊樂園的權利。

John Green entitled his latest book "The Fault in Our Stars".
約翰・葛林將他最新的那本書取名為《生命中的美好缺憾》。


2obligation1:04
obligation 是名詞,意思是「義務、責任」。動詞則是 oblige,「強迫、幫助」的意思。
If you haven't promised him anything, you are under no obligation to pay him any money.
如果你沒有答應他任何事,就沒有責任要付他任何錢。

The actors in this play are obliged to do everything the playwright asked them to do.
這齣戲裡的演員被迫要做所有劇作家要求他們做的事。


*同場加映:
【TED-Ed】說服别人的六個關鍵技巧 (Six keys to successful persuasion)


3pass out1:56
pass out 的意思是「(因病痛、受傷或醉酒)昏迷、失去知覺」,而另一個很像的片語是 pass away,但千萬別搞混囉!pass away 是「死亡」的意思,可別用錯,不然會釀成大禍唷~
I was so tired that I passed out on my floor when I got home.
我累到回家後直接昏睡在地上。

Justin is terribly upset because his grandfather just passed away.
賈斯丁非常難過,因為他的爺爺剛剛過世。


4on that note2:42
這是一個在英語中非常常用到的片語,常見的用法有兩個,第一,用在話題與話題中的連接詞,當「說到這個」用;第二,想要結束話題時也可以說 on that note,後面再接一句話,表示「在此,(結束話題)」的意思。
A: I went tea-picking with my friends today!
B: Really! On that note, would you like some tea?
A: 我今天和朋友一起去採茶!
B: 真的呀!說到這個,你想來一點茶嗎?

And on that note, ladies and gentlemen, I would like to end my speech here today.
在此,先生小姐們,我想在這裡結束我今天的演說。


*同場加映:
超特別!28個來自世界各地的生日傳統(Ep.201)(28 Birthday Traditions From Around the World (Ep.201))


人生中,也許我們會是喝茶的人,也會是煮茶的人,但無論如何一定要切記,絕對不可以強迫別人一定要喝茶喲!

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