that you ever learn about meeting and attracting the beautiful women that you

want in your life.

The guys that do not know this are missing out on so much and they're not

going to be able to attract the women that they want. The guys that do know

this and that are implementing it are having the most incredible success with women.

I'm Ben Alexander from The Legends Academy and let's get into this

amazing topic today about female psychology. Now what I'm going to share

with you is simple

however it seems very counterintuitive. It doesn't seem like it could be true, it

doesn't seem to make sense. Now

it took me years to figure this out okay, so I want you to really take this stuff

on board. Now let's think about how guys look at attraction. With us guys, we we

see a beautiful woman walk into a room and we think, "Wow she's beautiful!"

Then we might have a conversation with her or hang out with her and think, "Wow I

had a great time with her".

We think, "Well what more could there really be to that?" you know, it just seems

fine.

We think, you know, she's good looking that's the reason we're attracted to her.

That's pretty much it for us okay? So now where men go wrong is we try and

actually impose our way of feeling attraction for women, onto women.

So when we made a woman we think, "What's the most important thing? Well probably

looks because that's the most important thing to us." Then we think well we saw a

movie and so on and all this kind of stuff, and the guy was good looking, he

usually has a good job, he's got lots of money, got a nice car, a nice watch

and in movies that's sort of what's seen to be attractive and stuff like that so

we think, "Well that kind of makes sense

so I guess we need to do that to a woman". Now

what sort of really threw this out for me was when I would see guys walking

down the street, like, they weren't good-looking guys, they didn't look

wealthy yet they're with a beautiful, beautiful girl. Or I had friends and the

same thing ,they weren't rich they weren't good looking

yet they were able to have massive success with women. I was like, "Well

something's not right here I'm missing something".

So what I did I started researching. It literally took me years.

I would read books, I went all over the internet scouring things, watching videos

and YouTube and all this kind of stuff trying to work out this conundrum: How is

it that you don't need to be good-looking and rich and have all these

things yet you can still attract women? And when I worked it out guys it totally

blew my mind and I hope it's going to blow yours too and make a huge difference for

you, and what it was is, you know, I was always thinking like a man and trying to

apply it to women. And I figured, well, I guess if I, what happens if I try and

work at this from a woman's perspective? Let's work out how women are attracted.

And when i did this guy's, it was huge! So I started thinking, well, what's

important to a woman? And what I noticed was, well, if it's not the looks, if it's

not the money,

maybe it's the feelings! You know, how is this guy making her feel? Because they

always seem to be having such a good time with these guys that were having

you know a lot of success with them. So I thought, okay, let's look at creating

the right feelings for a girl.

And then what I found guys was women are actually, they need certain feelings

they need to feel certain emotions and so on when they're with a man. And that's how

they actually make up their mind about whether or not they're attracted to a

guy. I know! It's crazy right? So us guys, we're all logical, we're like, "I need this

thing, we need that thing". A woman, she needs to feel right about someone. So if she's

hanging out with a guy having a great time,

you know, they're enjoying each other's company she's laughing she feels good

when she's with him,

that's enough for her to feel attracted. Now don't get me wrong, I'm not saying

that there doesn't need to be a base level of attraction,

I'm not saying that you can just completely let yourself go, and let

yourself get all out of shape, and

not take care of your appearance and get all smelly, like, that that's not

going to work. You need to take care of the basics

however looks are nowhere near as important as you would think! Money is

nowhere near as important as we think!

Ok, and this is great news guys! Why is it great news? Well it's great news because

it means so long as you and I can work out how to create the right emotions in

a woman when we're with her, she's going to want to keep seeing us. She's gonna want

to keep spending time with us.

She's going to want to be our girlfriend and more. Ok so it's all about the

emotions, all about the feelings,

making sure she feels great when she's with you, and then you're going to have,

like, way more success than if you're trying to impress women with

money, or you know, being upset because you feel you don't look good enough and all that

kind of stuff. That stuff's irrelevant.

You just need to be able to know the way in which to create the right emotions in a

woman. So I really hope this has been a huge revelation for you.

I hope this is going to help you in your journey of success with women as much as

it's helped me.

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