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  • Hey baby you, you got what I need

    嘿,寶貝,你就是我需要的

  • But you say youre just a friend.

    但是你說我們只是朋友

  • You say you're just a friend.

    你說我們只是朋友

  • WellCasters have you been singing that song recently?

    各位 WellCasters 最近有唱到這首歌嗎?

  • If ya are. Sounds like youve been friend zoned.

    如果有的話,聽起來你已經被喜歡的人歸類成朋友了

  • Not that I’m happy about it.

    不是說我對這件事感到很有趣

  • Sorry I just realized like he he.

    抱歉,我只是,嘿嘿

  • But hey. If that Austin Mahone guy who's got 2.5 million Twitter followers can trip and fall into the dreaded friend abyss?

    但,嘿!像是推特追蹤人數破250萬的 Austin Mahone都會陷入這樣的窘境

  • What’s your average person supposed to do? Well WellCasters.

    那普通人又該怎麼辦呢?觀眾們

  • Youre in luck. Sort of.

    你們有福了。應該啦

  • We have some suggestions on how to trade your buddy label for a shiny new girlfriend or boyfriend badge of honor.

    我們會提供一些小建議,讓你們晉升成男女朋友

  • Now before you get all excited. Please know that these are just ideas.

    不要太興奮了,提醒一下這只是一些小撇步

  • Alright. We can’t make any guarantees.

    好嗎?我們也不能保證一定會成功

  • And we're gonna trust that you will use your discretion.

    我們相信你們會自己做好衡量的

  • Tip one. Be confident.

    小撇步一:要有自信

  • It’s natural to get shy or self conscious around your crush.

    當然在喜歡的旁邊感到害羞是很正常的

  • Especially if youve recently upgraded them from friend.

    尤其是你最近才把你對他的感覺從朋友

  • To object of my undying affection.

    變成心儀的對象

  • But even if you have to fake it at first.

    你也必須要假裝

  • Stand up tall, make direct eye contact and smile.

    站挺一點、做眼神接觸並且對他微笑

  • You know like that episode where we told you to be an eagle and not a turtle.

    你記得之前那一集說要當一個老鷹而不是一個烏龜嗎

  • I still don't know what that means, but anyway.

    我還是不太懂那是什麼意思

  • You get the point?

    但你懂的

  • People are drawn to confident people.

    人們會被有自信的人吸引

  • And wanna know what they have goin' on.

    而且想了解他們是怎麼樣的人

  • The important thing here is that you need to demonstrate that you know your own worth.

    重要的是,你要展現你自己的價值

  • Before you can expect someone else to recognize it.

    不要只期望別人會發現你的價值

  • Tip two.

    小撇步二

  • Don’t be a doormat.

    不要當好好先生(什麼都順他的意)

  • Respect is an essential part of any relationship.

    尊重是一段感情中很重要的一部分

  • And it's up to you to draw the boundaries.

    你要畫出界線

  • You might be tempted to respond to your crush's every need.

    雖然你會很想要滿足你心儀的對象所有需求

  • That’s natural.

    這很正常

  • But this'll probably backfire as your friend will see you as someone with very very low self esteem.

    但這可能造成反效果,讓他感覺你是一個沒什麼自尊的人

  • Don’t get yourself stuck in a situation where youre constantly giving rides, buying gifts and ultimately feeling used.

    不要讓自己陷入永遠都在接送、送禮物的人,最後只會感覺是被利用了

  • Tip three.

    小撇步三

  • Don’t put them on a pedestal.

    不要把他們想的完美無缺一樣

  • Hey. Just like you have a few flaws so do they.

    就像你一樣,大家都有缺點的

  • We promise. Youre being unfair to your friend and setting yourself up for disappointment.

    我們保證。你這樣想對他並不公平,而且會讓自己失望

  • When you discover that they tell the same joke every single time they meet a new person.

    當你發現他每次認識新朋友的時候都講一樣的笑話時

  • It's super annoying.

    超級惱人的

  • Your behavior is gonna show that youre a little overly attached also.

    你的行為表現顯示你有點太黏了

  • When new people come around youre gonna get jealous, youre gonna act weird.

    當他認識新朋友時,你會吃醋而且表現得很怪異

  • Just chill out.

    放輕鬆吧

  • Tip four. Do your research.

    小撇步四:要做功課

  • You've probably spent way too much time daydreaming about this perfect relationship with this perfect person.

    你可能花太多時間在做白日夢,想像跟這個完美的人有一段完美的戀情

  • How you'll frolic on the beach and never leave each other’s sides

    在海邊漫遊,而且永遠待在對方的身邊

  • But do you know what their needs are?

    但你真的知道她得需求嗎?

  • Maybe they prefer more distance in a relationship.

    或許他希望有點距離的戀情

  • And they need more space.

    他們需要多一點的空間

  • Remember the other person isn’t you.

    記住,別人不是你

  • Theyre not gonna meet every single one of your expectations

    他們沒辦法符合你所有的期望

  • and I’m sorry but neither will you.

    我很抱歉,但就連你自己都無法符合自己所有的期望

  • Especially if you don't take time to figure out what the other person wants out of a relationship.

    尤其當你沒有花時間好好去了解對方想要什麼樣的戀情

  • So, ask!

    所以,就問吧!

  • Want more tips? Okay.

    想要其他小撇步嗎?Okay!

  • Tune in next time for our anti-friend zone follow-up.

    記得要看下集的「不只想當朋友」影片

  • Well. That’s all for me today WellCasters.

    今天的節目到此結束

  • Would you do me a kindness?

    你可以幫我個忙嗎?

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    訂閱我們的頻道

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    可以先看到一些未發布和非常精彩的內容喔!

  • See you later.

    下次見

Hey baby you, you got what I need

嘿,寶貝,你就是我需要的

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