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  • When it comes to sex, how long is too long?

    當我們談到性行為時,多久的性行為算是太長呢?

  • Hello everyone and welcome to DNews, I’m Dr. Crystal Dilworth here to discuss Intravaginal Ejactulatory Latency Time;

    嗨大家好,歡迎收看DNews,我是Crystal Dilworth 博士,在這裡跟你討論「陰道內延遲射精時間」,

  • otherwise known as the time it takes a heterosexual couples to have sex.

    也就是一般異性戀伴侶做愛所花的時間。

  • So how longshouldyou be having sex for ? And are you…“normal”?

    所以你到底應該要愛愛多久呢?你「正常」嗎?

  • Well in attempting to answer these questions, I discovered thatnormalhas actually changed with societal expectations

    在試著回答這些問題時,我發現了正常的定義其實是隨著社會期待在改變的,

  • and the average length of intercourse has varied over time.

    平均的性交時間也隨著時代改變。

  • So it’s not just biology that we are dealing with here,

    影響我們的可不只有生理上的因素,

  • how long we ''think'' we should be having sex is an influence too.

    還包含我們認為我們自己應該要做愛多久。

  • In the late 1940s at the time of the famous Kinsey Report,

    在1940年代晚期,著名的的Kinsey報告指出,

  • 75% of males surveyed reported intercourse lasting approximately 2 minutes.

    75%受調查的男性反映他們性交的時間約在兩分鐘左右。

  • A number that seems objectionably short to me personally

    這數字對我來講真是令人厭惡的少啊,

  • and could warrant a premature ejaculation diagnosis in these modern times.

    且在現今社會,這可以被開立早洩的診斷。

  • For the record, the diagnosis of PE is heavily weighted towards self and partner reported satisfaction,

    不過我有言在先,早洩的診斷是由自己跟伴侶的滿意度來決定的,

  • but one to two minutes is commonly considered to be premature.

    不過通常來說,一、兩分鐘是太短了。

  • Researchers are finding that since the late 60’s, the start of the feminist movement and sexual revolution,

    研究人員發現在1960年代晚期,女性主義、性革命的啟蒙之後,

  • intercourse has been taking us slightly longer. How long?

    性行為的時間就有稍微的拉長了。多長呢?

  • Well, survey data from studies done at the University of New Brunswick show that

    在New Brunswick大學做的研究指出,

  • duration of vaginal intercourse is now reported to fall within a range of 5 to 10 minutes,

    「陰道內交合」的時間來到了5到10分鐘的區間內,

  • with durations in excess of 20 minutes being undesirable to most study participants.

    對大部份的受測者來說,持續超過20分鐘是不合需求的。

  • So that average sweet spot is really, as one scientist put it:

    誠如一位科學家所言,平均來說,

  • approximately the duration of one Marvin Gaye song.”

    最好的時間長短大概跟一首Marvin Gaye的歌差不多。(美國靈魂樂歌手)

  • Sadly, sex research is notoriously penis-centric and historically hetero-centric,

    不過令人遺憾的,這類的性調查是備受爭議地,因為只以男性為中心,且因歷史的緣故,也以異性戀為中心,

  • so these averages only apply to the time it takes for male ejaculation with a female partner

    所以這些平均時間只適用於男性對女性伴侶的射精行為

  • and only the more recent studies investigate qualitative measures like sexual satisfaction.

    直到近期的研究才有採用品質化的測量指標,像是性滿意度。

  • In a 2004 study, participants were asked to report how long they wanted sex to last as well as the actual duration of their intercourse.

    在一個2004年的研究中,受測者們被問及他們理想的性行為及實際性交的時間長度。

  • Female study participants indicated that they desired an average of 7 minutes longer then what was standard with their current partners,

    平均而言,受測女性們想要的性交時間比他們現在伴侶的標準表現,還要多7分鐘 ,

  • and men reported wanting another 11 minutes.

    男士們則想要多個11分鐘。

  • The funny thing about this survey, is that when asked about duration of foreplay,

    不過這調查有趣的是,當男女雙方被問及到前戲的長度時,

  • both men and women also reported desiring an average of 5 or 10 minutes longer respectively.

    他們都不約而同的想要更久些,男生想要再5分鐘,女生則是10分鐘,

  • So, take a look at your partner. Are they smiling?

    所以看一下你的伴侶吧。他們在微笑嗎?

  • If not, it might be time for a conversation about sexual expectations and needs.

    如果沒有的話,或許是時候溝通一下你們的性期待及性需求了。

  • Because, ultimately, it doesn’t matter what study group survey subjects think, or what your friends, neighbors,

    因為最終,無論那些受測者、你的朋友、鄰居

  • or professionals on your computer screens are doing.

    或者是「電腦上的那些專家們」怎麼做。

  • What matters is self and partner satisfaction.

    重要的是你跟你伴侶的滿意程度。

  • That's something to keep in mind as you check out this video where Julia asks the questionHow much sex should you be having?”

    這是當你觀賞Julia在這集裡提問「我們應該要有多少性行為?」時,你得記住的一點。

  • So, are you sexually normal?

    所以你在性方面正常嗎?

  • Please subscribe to DNews and do NOT let us know the answer to that question in the comments down below.

    請訂閱我們的 DNews 頻道然後「不要」在下面留言回答我剛剛的問題。

  • Thanks for watching.

    謝謝觀賞。

When it comes to sex, how long is too long?

當我們談到性行為時,多久的性行為算是太長呢?

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