Thisgaveus a template, but a deeplyunhelpfulone, aboutwhatadultlovemightbelike.
於是,這給了我們成人間相愛模式的印象,一個毫無助益的印象。
Intheearlydaysof a newrelationship, therearesomeblissfulmomentswhentwopeopleunderstandeachotherwithoutneedingtosayverymuch.
一段關係剛開始時,有些很美好的時光,兩個人不需說太多,也能互相理解。
Theymagicallyagreeonthings, theysense a connectionunlikeanyother, butthisisultimatelyverymisleading.
在事情的看法都出奇的一致、彼此心靈相通,但這個想法其實是大錯特錯。
Intruthallofusareasadultsbafflinglycomplicated.
實際上,身為成人的我們心智極為複雜。
Toexpectsomeonetounderstanduslong-termwithoutushavingtoexplainisequivalenttoexpectingsomeonetoworkouthownuclearfissionworkssimplybylookingattheoutside a powerstation.