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  • Hey, it's Marie Forleo and you are watching MarieTV, the place to be to create a business and a life that you love.

    嗨,我是瑪麗‧弗萊奧,你現在收看的是瑪麗TV—教你開創理想人生與事業的頻道

  • And today is Q & A Tuesday and today Q&A question comes from

    今天是週二問答時間,今天的問題

  • Claudia and she writes:

    來自克勞蒂亞,她說:

  • Hi Marie. I’m 26 years old, Brazilian and German, and moved to Germany 8 months ago.

    嗨瑪麗,我是26歲的巴西德國混血兒,八個月前我搬到德國

  • ago. I left my whole life and family in Brazil to dive into the unknown. I've always wanted

    拋下了巴西的生活與家人迎向未知

  • to start my own online business and have yet to find inspiration.

    我一直都想開創網路事業,但還沒有靈感

  • Finding a job in the field I studied wasn't happening, so I got a part time job at a store. My colleagues

    找工作無法學以致用,所以我在一家店打工

  • are amazing, good hearted people, but they don't have ambition. I mean, none whatsoever.

    我有很棒很熱心的同事,但他們毫無野心..完完全全沒有

  • I miss having smart conversations about life and I miss constant inspiration. I love art

    我想念那些對人生有意義的談話、也想念源源不絕的靈感

  • and culture, yet I'm not pursuing any of it. I'm in a state of numbness and have

    我熱愛藝術與文化,但現在卻都放棄了。我像是行屍走肉卻不知道為什麼會這樣

  • no idea why. Do the people you spend the most time with influence you in a positive or negative

    你最常往來的人,帶給你正面還是負面的影響呢?

  • way? I've always been a doer, but this time I'm having trouble getting back on track.

    我向來有行動力,但這次我卻難以回到正軌

  • Thanks for all you do, Claudia.

    感謝指點,克勞蒂亞

  • Claudia, this is a very interesting question. Now, most of us have heard that famous Jim

    這是一個非常有趣的問題,我們都聽過吉姆‧隆恩 (勵志作家)的名言:

  • Rohn quote that says, you are the average of the 5 people you spend the most time with.

    「在你最常來往的五個人中,你是他們的平均值」

  • And whether or not you agree with that, I think we can all agree that we human beings have influence on one another.

    不論你認不認同這句話,我想我們都同意人會互相影響

  • So the people you hang out with on a daily basis, the people

    所以與你朝夕相處的人

  • you work with, the people you talk with, of course they're gonna have an impact on you

    你的同事、跟你對談的人,他們都對你產生影響

  • whether it�塜 positive or negative. Now, should you stop talking and hanging out with

    不論是正面還是負面。那你不應該再跟妳的好同事相處嗎?

  • all those nice people you work with? Of course not! As you said, they're amazing, good

    當然不是!因為如妳所說,他們是很棒、

  • hearted people. But I do wanna give you the secret to getting yourself back on track.

    心地很好的人,但我想教你一些重回正軌的秘訣

  • It's something I heard from Oprah a few months back when I was at her Life You Want

    這是我幾個月前從歐普拉《Life You Want Weekend》節目聽到的

  • Weekend. So she told this story from when she was a little girl and it's something that she did that helped her thrive

    她說自己還是小女孩時,就用這方法幫助她成功

  • no matter what environment she found herself in. So

    不論她身處什麼環境

  • she memorized the poem Invictus and she put a huge emphasis on these last 2 lines:

    她記下《永不屈服》這首詩,並且特別強調以下兩句話:

  • "I am the master of my fate. I am the captain of my soul."

    「我乃命運之主宰者, 我乃靈魂之領航人」

  • Claudia, you're gotta take responsibility for your behavior and realize that you too

    克勞蒂亞,妳必須為妳的行為負責,也要明白妳是命運的主宰者

  • are the master of your fate and the captain of your soul. And the captain doesn't get

    靈魂的領航人,船長不會在啟航之後說

  • on the boat and go, oh no, where is this boat going?

    「噢不,這艘船該往哪開啊?」

  • The captain steers the boat where the captain wants it to go.

    船長會往他想走的方向航行

  • So, Claudia, you're got to take the wheel of your ship and start steering it somewhere inspiring.

    妳必須為妳的船掌舵,往光明的方向航行

  • Now, I know you also said you feel kind of numb and like you're in a funk.

    好,我知道妳說妳像行屍走肉而感到恐慌

  • Well, whenever I'm in a funk and I need to get motivated again, you know what I do?

    每當我陷入恐慌想找回動力的時候,妳知道我怎麼做嗎?

  • I have myself a dance party and I dance it out. Hard.

    我會辦個跳舞派對,用力大跳一場

  • Does having a dance party sound trite? Maybe. But there's undeniable power in combining

    聽起來很老套嗎?也許吧! 但當肢體律動配上超讚音樂

  • physical movement with awesome music. And once you do your dance party you're gotta

    不可否認的會產生一股力量,在跳舞的時候妳會問自己

  • ask yourself, what's the next best action I should be taking? Maybe you're gonna wanna

    下一步該做什麼最好?也許妳會想去博物館

  • go to a museum, maybe you wanna go see a movie, maybe you're gonna head out to a bookstore.

    也許去看電影,也許去書店

  • Doesn't matter, the point is you need to take immediate action.

    都無所謂,重點是妳得立刻行動

  • Next I wanna challenge you to something that you may not have considered. Being the captain

    接下來我要提一些妳可能想都沒想過的點子

  • also means that you lead your crew. So you're got all these amazing people at work, why

    身為船長意味著妳要帶領船員,所以對於妳的好同事

  • not start some inspiring conversations with them? Ask them about their talents, their

    何不跟他們聊些激勵人心的事,聊他們的才華

  • families, their hopes and dreams.

    他們的家人、他們的希望與夢想

  • You can actually lead them to start having these incredible conversations with you.

    妳能帶領他們進行這些美好的對話

  • Finally, you're got to make it your priority to expand your circle of influence. When I

    最後,擴大影響圈將是妳的第一要務

  • first started I didn't really have that many ambitious friends either and I remember going

    當我剛起步時,我也沒什麼有野心的朋友

  • to Toastmasters and I got my butt out and I went to business conferences and online marketing conferences

    我記得我加入國際演講協會,然後卯起來參加創業會談跟網路行銷大會

  • to meet other like minded people. Today I'm surrounded by the most creative and ambitious people you could possibly imagine.

    為了認識更多有想法的人。現在,我身邊圍繞創造力強又野心勃勃的人

  • So bottom line, Claudia, I want you

    所以,克勞蒂亞,最重要的是

  • to remember that, yes, you are the master of your fate and the captain of your soul

    妳要記住妳是命運的主宰者、靈魂的領航人

  • and each and every day you're gotta take that wheel and make sure that you're steering your ship in the right direction.

    每一天妳都要好好掌舵,確保妳的船往正確的方向航行

  • That was my A to your Q Claudia, let us know how it goes. And now I would love to hear

    以上是我的回應,請讓我知道後續進展。現在我想聽聽大家的意見

  • from you. Do you believe that you're the average of the people that you spend time

    你同意「在最常來往的五個人中,你是他們的平均值」嗎?

  • with? And if you ambition level isn't where you think it should be, what are 3 specific

    如果妳的野心不如妳預期,妳會採取哪三項行動

  • action steps that you could take to steer your ship in the direction of your dreams?

    幫助你回到夢想的航道上?

  • As always, the best discussions happen after the episode over at MarieForleo.com, so head

    一如以往,看完影片到MarieFlorleo.com討論會激盪出最棒的火花

  • on over there and leave a comment now.

    現在就來這裡留言

  • Did you like this video? I really did. If you did, subscribe to our channel and I would

    你喜歡這部影片嗎?我喜歡!如果你也是請訂閱我們的頻道

  • be so grateful if you shared this video with your friends. And if you want even more awesome

    如果你把影片與朋友分享我也會很感激的。如果想取得更多

  • resources to create a business and life that you love plus some personal insights from me that I only talk about in email

    理想事業與生活的超讚資訊,和我只在電子報分享的個人見解

  • come on over to MarieForleo.com and sign up for email updates.

    快來MarieForleo.com註冊,接收最新消息

  • Stay on your game and keep going for your dreams because the world really needs that special gift that only you have.

    持續努力追求夢想,因為這個世界需要妳獨一無二的天賦

  • Thank you so much for watching

    感謝收看

  • and I'll catch you next time on MarieTV.

    我們下次見!

Hey, it's Marie Forleo and you are watching MarieTV, the place to be to create a business and a life that you love.

嗨,我是瑪麗‧弗萊奧,你現在收看的是瑪麗TV—教你開創理想人生與事業的頻道

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