Name: "我不喜歡"--你必須聽聽的父子對話 (“I Didn’t Feel Like it” - A Father Son Conversation That You NEED to Hear)
Uploaded: 2024-06-21T14:05:37.000Z
Duration: 10 min 54 s

過去簡單式

So I asked a question for my son yesterday that completely leveled him.

所以，昨天我問了兒子一個問題，完全把他問住了。

This was a Sunday and I looked at him at his eyes and I'm like, okay, this question really hits you.

那是一個星期天，我看著他的眼睛，我想，好吧，這個問題真的很能打動你。

現在進行式

And it was intentional because the last couple of months I've been watching, I watch all of them to see what's going on.

這是我有意為之，因為在過去的幾個月裡，我一直在看，我看所有的節目，看看發生了什麼。

My daughter the other day, early in the morning, I'm doing my neck and she comes in and she's in basketball camp.

我女兒前幾天一大早就來了，我正在整理脖子，她就進來了，她正在參加籃球訓練營。

And I said, so babe, how was basketball camp yesterday?

我說，寶貝，昨天的籃球訓練營怎麼樣？

Daddy, I didn't watch any movies, but I was just dribbling.

爸爸，我沒有看電影，只是在運球。

You've never taught me how to shoot baskets.

You've only taught Tico and Dylan, but you haven't taught me.

你只教過蒂克和迪倫，卻沒教過我。

於是我說，寶貝，我們出去吧。

於是我走到外面，她開始拍攝。

我說，你還有一個，還有一個。

Then she goes to the camp that day and she makes 30 shots that they come so bragging that you won't believe it.

然後，她那天去了營地，拍了 30 張照片，照片上的人吹噓得讓你不敢相信。

I'm like, okay, each of these kids, I'm working in a different area.

我想，好吧，每個孩子，我都在不同的領域工作。

The other one is this, but one of my kids, I get a sense he's drifting.

另一個是這樣的，但我的一個孩子，我感覺他在漂移。

And what I mean by that is he's just kind of letting life go week by week by week.

我的意思是，他只是讓生活一週一週地過去。

And my wife and I were out of town our anniversary in three weeks, but we go early because our youngest daughter is born on our anniversary.

三週後就是我和妻子的結婚紀念日，但我們提前去了，因為我們的小女兒在結婚紀念日那天出生。

So this was only weekend for us to go away.

是以，這是我們唯一能外出的週末。

We'll go to this place and check on my sons in the morning, Sunday morning.

星期天早上，我們會去這個地方看看我的兒子們。

我說，嘿，讓我跟我兒子談談。

I said, how come you're not in the car with Papa going to church?

我說，你怎麼沒和爸爸一起坐車去教堂？

I said, you tell me you got big dreams just as I do.

我說，你告訴我，你和我一樣有遠大的夢想。

I said, you think you're going to do something big with your life because you don't feel like it?

我說，你覺得你會因為不喜歡而去做你人生中的大事嗎？

And I'm on the phone with him for 15 minutes.

I'm like, okay, I got to come home and have a conversation with this guy because two weeks prior to that, not even two weeks, a week prior to that Memorial Day, I take my kids to the cemetery for Lauderdale.

我想，好吧，我得回家和這傢伙好好談談，因為在那之前兩週，甚至還不到兩週，陣亡將士紀念日的前一週，我帶著孩子們去勞德代爾墓地。

And we're going around dropping gifts to people that shopped.

And I'm surprising people that bought locally from us.

我很驚訝那些在我們當地購買的人。

And we're at this Fort Lauderdale Cemetery Memorial Day because I want these guys to start being grateful for life and have some kind of a level of urgency in their lives.

我們在勞德代爾堡公墓舉行 "陣亡將士紀念日 "活動，是因為我想讓這些人開始對生活心存感激，並對自己的生命有某種程度的緊迫感。

And there's a video I, Mario was recording this.

We can watch it together to see what I'm telling my kids because I want them to be thinking about this.

我們可以一起看，看看我對孩子們說了些什麼，因為我想讓他們思考這個問題。

Still, I haven't told you what that question is that completely leveled them, but it kind of goes from this video.

不過，我還沒告訴你那個讓他們徹底垮臺的問題是什麼，但從這段視頻中可以看出。

So let's watch this video here to get you kind of get an idea of what I'm trying to get my kids to be thinking about.

所以，讓我們來看看這段視頻，讓你瞭解一下我想讓孩子們思考的問題。

This is my 12 year old Patrick and my 10 year old Dylan.

這是我 12 歲的帕特里克和 10 歲的迪倫。

What do you think we should all ask when it comes our time and it's our deathbed?

你認為當我們臨終時，我們都應該問些什麼？

What do you think is the question we're going to be asking?

你認為我們要問的問題是什麼？

Is it going to be how much iPad I played?

Is it going to be, what is it going to be?

One, most important, am I going to go to heaven?

其一，最重要的是，我會上天堂嗎？

Did I do what I do with the gifts that God gave me?

我是否用上帝賜予我的天賦做了我該做的事？

Did I waste my life or did I do something to make the next generation better?

我是在浪費生命，還是在為下一代做貢獻？

We have a small little slot of time to do something with our lives, but when it gets to that moment, you're going to be asking, was I someone that served others?

我們有一小段時間來做一些事情，但到了那一刻，你會問，我是一個為他人服務的人嗎？

Those are the questions we're going to be asking because in no time, like this, this thing goes.

這些都是我們要問的問題，因為很快，這東西就會消失。

你知道大流行病對我們做了什麼嗎？

It made many people lonely in America where they did not have somebody to talk to.

這讓許多人在美國感到孤獨，因為他們沒有人可以傾訴。

Numbers came up saying 33% of Americans feel lonely.

有數據顯示，33% 的美國人感到孤獨。

JPMorgan Chase just came out talking about 99% of Americans are doing worse today financially than they were three years ago.

摩根大通剛剛表示，99% 的美國人現在的經濟狀況比三年前更糟。

對一些人來說，這可能是艱難的時刻。

One of the worst things you can do is not talk to anybody.

最糟糕的事情之一就是不和任何人說話。

That's why today's sponsor is BetterHelp.

這就是為什麼今天的贊助商是 BetterHelp。

What BetterHelp offers you is the opportunity to connect with over 30,000 licensed therapists who are trained to listen and give you helpful and unbiased advice.

BetterHelp 為您提供的是與 30,000 多名持證治療師建立聯繫的機會，這些治療師經過培訓，能夠傾聽您的心聲，併為您提供有益的、公正的建議。

One of the great things about BetterHelp is sometimes if you want to go to an office to go meet with a therapist and talk to somebody because you've got nobody in your life, you go to an office, you're sitting there, other people are looking at you, what if you run to a co-worker or family?

BetterHelp的一大優勢是，有時你想去辦公室見治療師，找人傾訴，因為你的生活中沒有人，你去了辦公室，坐在那裡，其他人都在看著你，如果你去找同事或家人呢？

BetterHelp, you simply do it on your phone.

BetterHelp 只需在手機上操作即可。

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