Name: 溝通教程--識別非語言線索 (Communication Tutorial - Recognizing non-verbal cues)
Uploaded: 2022-11-16T18:15:43.000Z
Duration: 3 min 32 s

who interpret body language to find the killer.

解釋身體語言以找到凶手的人。

Hopefully you won't need interpretive skills for that.

希望你在這方面不需要解釋的技巧。

But having a basic knowledge of nonverbal cues

但掌握了非語言線索的基本知識

can definitely help you in the workplace in other ways.

絕對可以在其他方面幫助你在工作場所。

你的老闆是否真的喜歡你的想法

Does your new acquaintance at the networking reception

你在聯誼招待會上的新認識的人是否

that your colleague may not be so much of a friend?

你的同事可能不是那麼多的朋友？

Non-verbal cues don't reveal everything, of course,

當然，非語言線索並不能揭示一切。

and there can be misfires or conflicting information.

並且可能出現誤報或資訊衝突。

is wrinkling their nose at you in disgust

and they're actually just in the middle of allergy season.

而且他們實際上正處於過敏季節的中間。

But as long as you can take these cues as hints

但只要你能把這些線索作為提示

they can form useful nuggets of data you can compare

它們可以形成有用的數據塊，你可以比較

and combined, they can paint a far more reliable picture.

並結合起來，它們可以描繪出更可靠的畫面。

First, take a look at whether their body language is open

首先，看一下他們的身體語言是否開放

or they're otherwise protecting their body.

或者他們正在以其他方式保護自己的身體。

their arms are free and their torso is exposed,

他們的手臂是自由的，他們的軀幹是暴露的。

Now, a closed body posture could mean a number of things.

現在，一個封閉的身體姿勢可能意味著許多事情。

Number one, most innocuously, it could mean they're cold.

第一，最無害的是，這可能意味著他們很冷。

是以，如果你的辦公室裡的暖氣壞了。

don't worry if your colleagues start doing this.

如果你的同事開始這樣做，不要擔心。

But it could also mean they're feeling nervousness

但這也可能意味著他們感到緊張

Again, you have to compare it with other data,

同樣，你必須將其與其他數據進行比較。

at where your colleagues' feet are pointed.

but really useful in situations like parties

So even if their upper body is pointing toward you,

是以，即使他們的上半身是指向你的。

That's where their body is telling them they should go.

那是他們的身體在告訴他們應該去的地方。

and respectfully wind down the conversation.

their subconscious will be grateful to you

Finally, watch out for mismatched expressions.

最後，注意不匹配的表達方式。

but the corners of their eyes aren't crinkling,

Of course, it could also be Botox (laughs)

當然，這也可能是肉毒桿菌（笑）。

if you've ever been, or been in possession of, a teenager!

如果你曾經是，或曾經擁有過，一個青少年!

翻白眼，傻笑，或類似的情況。

Adults generally aren't so obvious about it.

But if you see quick flashes of those behaviors,

但如果你看到這些行為的快速閃現。

because people are generally trying to contain it

and if you notice something, even a quick moment,

如果你注意到什麼，哪怕是一個快速的瞬間。

非語言線索是微妙的，但也是有力的。

can help you understand far better where you really stand

可以幫助你更好地瞭解你的真實處境。

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