He was so silly.

他太傻了。

He was acting like a straight up Neanderthal.

他的行為就像一個直接的尼安德特人。

Oh my God, he looks like a Neanderthal too.

哦，我的上帝，他看起來也像一個尼安德特人。

Yeah, for sure.

是的，肯定的。

I mean, he was holding his beer like a total Neanderthal.

我的意思是，他拿著他的啤酒就像一個完全的尼安德特人。

What a Neanderthal move.

這真是一個尼安德特人的舉動。

Am I right?

我說的對嗎？

Are you guys working with me when I keep pronouncing this is Neanderthal.

當我一直唸叨著這是尼安德特人的時候，你們是不是在和我合作。

Oh my God.

哦，我的上帝。

Okay, Okay, Okay.

好的，好的，好的。

We found out Neanderthal is actually pronounced Neanderthal.

我們發現尼安德特人的發音其實是Neanderthal。

That's not real.

這不是真的。

No, it totally is.

不，它完全是這樣。

Look it up.

查一查吧。

Okay, I'll google it.

好吧，我去谷歌一下。

It's real.

它是真實的。

What?

什麼？

Oh my God, it says when keeping it casual.

哦，我的上帝，它說當保持休閒。

You can write or say Neanderthal or Neanderthal.

你可以寫或說尼安德特人或尼安德特人。

If you opt for the latter.

如果你選擇了後者。

Some people will think you're cool.

有些人會認為你很酷。

Yeah, I know you.

是的，我知道你。

Oh my God, you, there's an article that says, what is sex with a Neanderthal?

哦，我的上帝，你，有一篇文章說，和尼安德特人做愛是什麼？

Like why is that an article?

就像為什麼那是一篇文章？

Why BBC Also, In what context are you referring to?

為什麼是BBC 還有，你指的是什麼情況？

A Neanderthal non casually?

一個尼安德特人不隨便？

I mean, maybe if you invite him to a dinner party.

我的意思是，也許如果你邀請他參加一個晚宴。

Yeah, like it's Neanderthal.

是的，好像是尼安德特人。

Good sir.

好的，先生。

First Pluto's not a planet anymore.

首先，冥王星不再是一個行星了。

Now it's Neanderthal.

現在是尼安德特人。

Public education failed me.

公共教育讓我失望。

I can't do math me three.

我不會做數學題，我三歲。

Yes, I hate it when core foundations of my knowledge turn out to be no longer true.

是的，我討厭我的知識的核心基礎被證明不再是真的。

No one likes having their entire world turned upside down.

沒有人喜歡自己的整個世界被顛覆。

Whether it's a friendship revelation.

無論是友誼的啟示。

Yeah, we definitely talk about you behind your back, horrific family secret unearthed.

是的，我們肯定會在你背後談論你，可怕的家庭祕密被挖掘出來。

You know, there was a time when I was allergic to your father's semen.

你知道，曾經有一段時間我對你父親的精液過敏。

Oh my God!

哦，我的天啊

Mom, shut your face, Get out of here.

媽媽，閉上你的臉，離開這裡。

Or just plain old facts.

或者只是普通的事實。

Please call me Neanderthal were not at the California science center.

請給我打電話，尼安德特人不在加州科學中心。

Oh, when your world turns upside down threat, not there are some very important realizations.

哦，當你的世界變成顛倒的威脅時，不是有一些非常重要的領悟。

You'll have thanks to this.

你會有這樣的收穫。

You'll realize who's really there for you, what wasn't working and what you need in order to move forward, your own inner resilience and strength, you'll realize that everything is temporary and not to be taken for granted.

你會意識到誰是真正在你身邊的人，什麼是不起作用的，你需要什麼才能向前邁進，你自己內在的韌性和力量，你會意識到一切是暫時的，不應該被視為理所當然。

And finally, after the dust settles, you'll realize that change leads to growth and that the opportunity to rebuild from the ground up is sometimes a wonderful gift.

最後，在塵埃落定之後，你會意識到，變化導致成長，從頭開始重建的機會有時是一個美妙的禮物。

Every time I've had a tectonic shift that rocks like my entire existence, it stripped away everything but the essentials, it provided such clarity and appreciation for my life.

每次我有一個構造性的轉變，就像我的整個存在一樣，它剝去了所有的東西，只有精華部分，它為我的生活提供瞭如此清晰的認識和欣賞。

It offered me the chance to change things that were no longer serving me.

它為我提供了改變那些不再為我服務的事情的機會。

It made space clearing out and decluttering so I could embrace what was next.

它使空間得到清理，使我能夠擁抱接下來的事情。

It was ultimately a very beautiful transition.

這最終是一個非常美麗的過渡。

And that's what you're in right now, a fantastic, beautiful burning from which you will rise from the gashes.

而這就是你現在所處的情況，一種奇妙的、美麗的燃燒，你將從傷口中站起來。

I mean, I won't feel like that right now though, you're probably going through absolute hell and I don't envy you because you're probably in a lot of pain.

我的意思是，雖然我現在不會有這樣的感覺，但你可能正在經歷絕對的地獄，我不羨慕你，因為你可能處於非常痛苦的狀態。

You're probably crying every day and as much as it will be a great experience after the fact I hope I never go through it again.

你可能每天都在哭，雖然事後會有很好的體驗，但我希望我永遠不要再經歷這些。

So, good luck with that.

所以，祝你好運。

I'm an icon.

我是一個圖標。

A thank you.

一聲謝謝。

The patrons who supported today's video and thank you to better help for sponsoring today's episode.

支持今天視頻的贊助人，感謝更好地幫助贊助今天的節目。

Look, even if you aren't necessarily falling apart, sometimes we just need help navigating life struggles, pinpointing what's interfering with our happiness or we just want some assistance, creating patterns that serve our lives more.

聽著，即使你不一定要崩潰，有時我們只是需要幫助來駕馭生活中的掙扎，準確地指出什麼在干擾我們的幸福，或者我們只是想要一些幫助，創造出更有利於我們生活的模式。

Better help can assess your needs and then match you with your own licensed therapist.

更好的幫助可以評估你的需求，然後為你匹配你自己的持牌治療師。

I have several friends who use the service now and you can start communicating within 48 hours.

我有幾個朋友現在使用這項服務，你可以在48小時內開始溝通。

Better health has more than 15,000 counselors in their network that otherwise may not be locally available in many areas.

Better health在其網絡中擁有超過15,000名諮詢師，否則在許多地區可能無法在當地獲得。

And you can send a message to your counselor anytime plus schedule a weekly video or phone session.

而且你可以隨時給你的諮詢師發資訊，加上安排每週的視頻或電話會議。

Better help offers more affordable access than traditional online counseling.

與傳統的在線諮詢相比，更好的幫助提供了更實惠的機會。

And they have financial aid.

而且他們有財政援助。

They want you to start living a happier, more fulfilled life today.

他們希望你今天就開始過上更快樂、更充實的生活。

You can go to better health dot com.

你可以去better health dot com。

Sasha Kana, that's better.

薩沙-卡納，那就更好了。