字幕列表 影片播放 列印英文字幕 Hey there, I'm the animator behind Chipflake a YouTube channel that is all about this cat and also sometimes about me but in the form of this cat. The chipflake lore is vast and complex however no matter what type of content i am making i will always be haunted by this one question that over the course of my channel i have been asked literally tens of thousands of times. “are you a boy or a girl?” now im going to put aside the kind of worrying implication that is the suggestion that these are the only two possible options that someone can be aside for a second and give you a plain and simple answer to this question. i am a boy. well, more specifically, a man considering im an adult i know some of you will be satisfied by that answer. but others wont. and while i do think those people should evaluate why they care so much i do think that this is a pretty good opportunity to talk about some things that i think are kinda important and id like you guys to know. just a fair warning that in this video i am going to expose things about myself that might be kind of weird to just casually tell a bunch of strangers youve never met. obviously im not going to go into too much detail because I still want this video to be accessible but if just the mention of any of these things makes you uneasy don't feel bad about skipping this one. its just that i feel that this stuff is important to my story and im tired of hiding things that could be useful to someone figuring out themselves just because humans decided that certain topics are weird to talk about for some reason So, the thing is i didnt always know that i'm a man But this is where it gets a little complicated because i didn't exactly have this one moment where i just had an epiphany and everything changed instead it was more like, several different aspects of my life coming together So instead of telling you a story in chronological order i'm going to split this video up into different parts just to focus on these aspects individually. and I hope that doesn't get confusing Part 1 YouTube i started this channel at the beginning of 2017 at 19 years old. i know for a lot of big youtubers their channel started off as a hobby that just happened to blow up and turn into a job opportunity for them but personally i always intended and hoped for this channel to succeed and become my job. i was severely depressed and could barely even bring myself to attend my one college class 3 times a week. the art commissions i was doing on the side were painfully unsuccessful but the thought of dealing with customers made me extremely anxious anyway. so youtube, being something i actually enjoyed wouldnt have to leave the house for and where i could pretty much choose my own working hours seemed at least feasible as a job for me in this world where you must get a job and earn money, or die, i guess? i was still considering what kind of content exactly i wanted to make when the “storytime animation” genre started to gain traction. where people would talk or tell stories, using artwork instead of a camera. which of course seemed perfect for me as someone who never liked showing their face and already loved to animate as a hobby since i was about 12 years old. so, then i just needed a character. i decided on a cat as i've always loved animals and at the time i didnt see anyone else using an animal as their storytime cartoon persona so it would set me apart a bit and i also decided that i wanted the design to look androgenous so that as many people as possible would be able to relate to them. i worked on growing my channel over the following months. and eventually my audience grew from just my friends as new people began to find my channel. and thats when something happened. suddenly for the first time i was starting to experience.. frequently being perceived as something other than a girl. i started getting comments where people would call me "they" or "he" and of course the famous “are you a boy or a girl” questions popped up several times every time i posted a video. and i didn't answer them. and i didnt correct anyone who didnt call me "she". i specifically did not want to. you would think this would be the moment where i would stop and consider “hm, why do i feel like i dont want to correct people who are perceiving me wrong?” but no i did not. you see, back in 2017 i was extremely ignorant about Well anything to do with gender really. not only had i learned extremely little about LGBT people in general from school but back then there was a popular subgenre on YouTube entirely dedicated to tearing down arguments for women's rights and the concept of gender outside of the binary “man” and “woman” among other “progressive” things. and unfortunately as a lonely, misunderstood “not like other girls” 19 year old, i was pretty deep into it. My knowledge of transgender people at that point was that they were people who knew since they were a child that they were trapped in the wrong body and they would do anything to be seen as the opposite gender because their body brings them so much pain. and if that wasn't your exact experience well, then, you're just not trans. so no, i wasn't going to question it. there was nothing to question. if i was trans, i would know it already. it would still be a long time before i would actually start to question it but at least within that time my opinion on gender changed as i became more knowledgeable about it. and all it really took was for me to actually listen to a nonbinary person's perspective when a youtuber i watched invited them onto their channel for a debate. i guess at some point i realised that its not my place to decide how someone else actually feels. When someone has a headache we don't demand brain scans to prove it we just believe and support them if needed. people dont just choose their identities for fun especially when they often lose privileges respect or even friends & family because of who they are. and eventually after listening to the perspectives of more and more people i finally faced the fact that i actually related to them. a lot. sometimes i feel a little embarrassed and kind of freaked out thinking about how easily i was drawn into misinformation on youtube and how it took.. other youtubers for me to realise that i needed to be more sceptical about the things i was being told. but, honestly i was still essentially a teenager. youtube was my main source of entertainment and information as it is for many young people today i wasnt talking to my friends, family, teachers about this stuff. while youtubers were the reason i was lead down the wrong path other youtubers were also the reason why i got out of it. thats why its important to me to make this video and go into stupid amounts of detail because youtube is a really important resource for hearing people's stories that you might otherwise never have the chance to hear. Its a bit weird to say outloud that youtube has played a big role in me figuring out who i am. But Honestly it makes sense that my biggest form of media consumption would be where I learned about things ive never heard about before. You just always need to keep in mind that if you want to know about a group of people you should get your information from actual people within that group and not random people who have nothing to do with them using them for content. thats the double edged sword of youtube while a lot people want to spread knowledge and useful information it is still a job for most of us, and sometimes people will say things they dont even believe to get that paycheck. while we're on the subject it is kind of ridiculous how much misinformation has been spread about me in my own comments sections. ive joked about this in videos before but it genuinely happens so often that someone asks a question and some rando responds with some completely false information and NOBODY questions it. and it kind of messed me up while i was questioning my identity because even though i was making the decisions about what information about me was out there i still didnt have control over how people saw me. as if these randos on the internet had the choice of who i am. so i guess all im saying is please either get your information straight from the source or make sure the person giving you the information can verify exactly where they got it from. Part 2 Furries The second contender for most asked question in my comments section is probably “are you a furry” a question which anyone who has an animal as a persona on youtube is going to have to deal with. If you find yourself already cringing at the mention of this topic maybe skip this video if it's too much for you to handle. But it's genuinely an important part of my story and some of you may already have an idea as to why. Side note get used to the way i say “furry”. Usually british people would say fur-ie but i've always pronounced the adjective fur-ie and the noun furry idk why but its too late to go back now As a quick rundown so we're all on the same page a “furry” is someone who's part of a fandom similar to how star trek fans are called “trekkies”. Except instead of being fans of a particular TV show furries are basically just fans of cartoon animals with human-like characteristics like walking & talking. Yes it's pretty weird that a whole fandom was born from just a concept it's as if there would be a fandom about the colour orange. But here we are. Something most furries do is create a “fursona” an animal character for yourself to use online. Its kind of like a self-insert original character but not tied to the rules of any TV show or whatever so there's essentially endless possibilities. The only “requirement” is it being in some way an animal. And now you can most definitely see where this is going. I do have to say though that Chip is not actually my fursona. I know this kind of goes against what I just said but this is where it gets a bit complicated cause everyone kind of has a different definition for the word. Basically, to me just like how you can like cartoon animals and not be a furry if you make an anthropomorphic character without the intention of it being a fursona then it's not one. The reason I don't consider Chip a fursona ties back to what I said back in part 1 about me starting my YouTube channel with the intention of turning it into a job. Chip was designed to be appealing, to you guys. He is, in a lot of ways, similar to me but his purpose of being a character for YouTube was the main factor influencing his design rather than my ideal image of how I want people to see me. So basically by definition Chip is technically a furry character But since he was created without the furry fandom in mind at all, really you could consider him kind of similar to Bugs Bunny in that he's appealing to furries but not specifically intended for them. So just like watching looney toons doesn't make you a furry neither does watching my content if that's something you were worried about :) While my channel is and always will be intended for anyone to enjoy behind the scenes I'm actually pretty involved with the furry fandom. And probably the biggest reason for this aside from just being a fun hobby is its ties to identity. I actually have about 5 different fursonas they're all kinda different versions of me in a way its just honestly really fun to explore who you are in the form of a cartoon character and as a big fan of character design i really enjoy experimenting with different colours and species and stuff I won't really talk about the others in this video since they're not that relevant to the story but i'd consider my main sona to be Rion. I designed him back in 2017 he's husky with big sharp canines and i guess a mohawk. Don't ask why I chose anything about his design. This is the difference between him and Chip pretty much everything about Chip has a reason but this guy was literally just designed based on what I thought looks cool. Honestly though Rion wasn't actually created to be my sona he was just a regular character I designed for fun but I very quickly fell in love with him. I started drawing him more often and at some point I realised, damn. I wanna be him. This dog man right here? I wish that were me. He's just so cool. And confident. ..and masculine Around this time I knew that I didn't really feel like a woman but I didn't feel like a man either. So i was like i guess i'm somewhere in the middle?? But this was the first time instead of worrying about what I feel like I was thinking about what I want to be. An anthro dog- no i'm just kidding I don't know if this sounds weird but as someone who's kind of always lived based on what everyone else around me wants or expects from me I honestly rarely thought about what I want. Who I want to be and what I want from life. But the whole furry fandom thing was kind of my own little thing. No one I know IRL is really involved with the fandom so it was kind of a way for me to explore myself without any input from people who's opinions I care too much about. I mentioned earlier that I have 5 different sonas and theyre all different “versions” of me. Some are more accurate to who I am IRL wheras others are totally different. Rion is a lot more confident and outgoing than I am and probably ever will be to be honest. He's really a super idealised version of me and essentially has no flaws and while i do strive to be more like him its mostly just fun to have a character like this im not aiming to become exactly like him. Maybe i'll talk about my other characters in a video some other time. Theyre not really a secret or anything but they are pretty personal to me and im not sure i want to introduce them onto this channel just yet. Sorry. So with its heavy ties to identity as you can probably imagine the furry fandom is “very LGBT”. There's..honestly a lot of furries who've had a similar experience to me and discovered their identity through experimenting with crafting a personal representation of themselves online. And I just love how I can speak to a group of furries be like “yeah i'm a guy” and they're just like “ok.” ??? Meanwhile people in other communities start acting really weird around me because they just can't wrap their head around “person with high voice is man??” Furries just dont care! They're so chill. And that's the story of how being a dog online helped me discover who I really am. :D Part 3: Sexuality I can't think of a time where I ever actually disliked LGBT people. However I was definitely influenced to think that being one of these things would be ..not good? I remember learning about acceptance of different identities in school there were even these little “some people are gay, get over it” stickers on the bulliten boards in the hallways but “gay” was still an insult!! It was a word used synonymous with “bad”!! Masculine girls and feminine boys were relentlessly bullied and called slurs. If you had any indication that you might not be straight whether true or not you could say goodbye to ever enjoying going to school again. I don't know what it's like for you guys who are in school right now I really really hope it's different. I know a couple of old my classmates who are nowadays happily out as gay but back then it was either be straight or lock yourself as deep in the closet as possible and throw away the key! As someone who then thought I was a girl who liked boys I didn't even consider that I might also like girls despite thinking several girls in my class were very pretty getting butterflies around them and really really really wanting to be their friend. It is still incredibly hilarious to me how this changed when I got to college. Suddenly NO body cares. Like literally my entire art class was gay. And once my subconcious ban on being gay was lifted by the fact that nobody gives a shit anymore I realised what my internet history should have told me this entire time I am bisexual! With this came the realisation I didn't wanna be those pretty girls in my class I wanted to date them. And this is the struggle of being bi and also trans. Sometimes you really dont know if you wanna look like someone or look at them. it s really weird and i don't know how to describe it. But i would stand in front of the mirror and be like. Im hot. But also. I hate how i look?? Cause like. I had the exact body type that i found attractive in women so there was this really weird disconnect between objectively i think i look good. But something is off. HMMMMM. Of course I didn't question it i'm sure you have picked up on the common theme of not questioning things by now. But in this case being raised as a girl you are kinda taught that it's normal to hate your body and every woman does. Every woman wants to look like hotter women. (which is.. not true by the way in case you were wondering) But for me it was like. There was no goal. I wasn't really as skinny as what was considered the stereotypically ideal body type but i wasn't interested in aiming for that. Like, I didnt care about wearing makeup and pretty clothes. I wasn't happy but i couldn't picture anything that would make me happy. Of course it just didn't click for me until much later that although I looked good this was just not what I was supposed to look like. Nowadays I can confidently tell the difference between what i find attractive and what i want to look like. but thanks to denial it took me a very long time to figure that out. Its still interesting how these things are all connected i mean thats why T is still part of the main acronym despite the others being sexualities. But yeah, thats how i figured out I was Bi and how it kind of made figuring out my gender more complicated. Part 4 anxiety most of you probably know by now its not exactly a secret that i have an anxiety disorder but it has taken me a long time to accept that.. it affects nearly every aspect of my life quite severely. including discovering and accepting who i am. this anxiety comes from my pretty significant lack of self esteem. i dont have confidence or trust in myself so as a result my brain is more cautious and defensive than it needs to be triggering flight responses even in completely unnecessary circumstances. because of this ive always taken kind of a “side character” role in life trying to support others and be what they want me to be rather than deciding for myself. i measured my worth based on my usefulness to others. so when i realised that i might not be the person that everyone around me expected me to be. that kind of messed me up. everyone always says just be yourself the people who are worth your time will support you no matter what and those who don't dont deserve you anyway. and i completely agree with that. but as someone who based their entire life around what other people thought of me. the thought that i might upset or disappoint them totally consumed me. and i fell into a heavy state of depression and denial. i tried so hard to force these feelings out of my head. but those feelings of euphoria fought harder. some of you might have been under the impression up until this point that i'm non-binary and go by they/them pronouns. that's because i did for a while. for those who dont know non binary in terms of gender means to put it simply not a man or a woman. that also includes being a mix of both or being neither. Personally i considered myself right in the middle. thats because..to be honest identifying as nonbinary was like a compromise to me. it was a way for me to experience the euphoria of not being seen as a girl in a way that wouldn't bother the people around me by expecting them to make an effort to change how they see & treated me. i had “any pronouns” in my bio not because i liked all of these pronouns equally but so that other people wouldnt have to worry about using the wrong ones. this feeling of needing to live up to other people's expectations and bother as few people as possible is something i still struggle with a lot today to be honest. but its something i am working on Over the past year or so Ive been trying to focus on myself more and trying to allow myself to do things that I actually want to do and make more decisions for myself. Which has allowed me to realise that I want to be a guy. If no one else was around to influence me in any way if i lived on a desert island all by myself this is what I would want to be. And then there's the next big hurdle of telling everyone that im so afraid of losing. Unfortunately my anxiety didnt just fizzle away once I realised im trans. Even after successfully crawling out of the denial phase it still took me.. literal years to come out to everyone who needed to know. That's why my identity online was always kind of vague while I could sneakily kind of imply it I still had one foot in the closet keeping me from being completely open about it. It was just so hard to ignore this feeling that Im going to lose everyone i care about. My brain is just so painfully pessimistic that I was too afraid to come out to even my most progressive and accepting family members. But, i am just really tired of feeling like I am not really living. And wasting my life away being chained down by “what about them?” I just needed to accept that if anyone didnt accept me then its time to let them go. And that might be painful but its a temporary pain that can be replaced with people who are supportive and do care. I had two options. Either continue playing pretend and be unhappy for the rest of my life for the sake of a few people. Or risk losing them but be able to live the life I want to live and have the chance to be happy. and..i deserve to be happy. Part 5 conclusion, that was supposed to be short but it turned out kinda long so its more like a fifth part of stuff that didnt fit into the other parts Okay i feel like this is pretty obvious but since this is youtube i have to clarify anyway - all of this is just my experience from my perspective. for example please dont take my experience identifying as non binary as kind of a “phase” and assume this is how it is for everybody. actual nonbinary people who are completely confident and comfortable in their identity exist and i wholeheartedly support them. and if you dont honestly please leave my community. if it wasnt for nonbinary people being so open and accepting i would probably still be trying to force myself to live as a girl and not understanding whats "wrong" with me. during my time identifying as nonbinary i experienced so much hate and dismissal it was ridiculous. so please show them respect and support where you can because they really deserve it. so i know i could technically have just never mentioned i'm trans let my hormone therapy take its course and eventually everyone would stop asking me about my gender and just treat me like a dude. in making this video im opening myself up to a lot more hate and just stupid comments in general pretty epic. but back when i was struggling i just feel like this is the kind of video that wouldve really helped me out, you know? so i hope you could gain something from this video whether you figured something out about yourself learned something new or it was just interesting story. finally i just wanted to mention that i started hormone therapy about a month ago as of the time i'm recording this. that means that my voice is most likely going to change. so, id like to politely request you be respectful about that. i know a lot of you like my voice and i appreciate all the nice comments i get about it but please remember that im not a cartoon character getting a new voice actor whether you prefer my old or new voice is not something to debate about in the comments. i dont exist or make decisions based soley on entertaining you and im still a real person at the end of the day. by the way if you are new here if this happens to be the first video youve ever seen from me i unfortunately have to disappoint you because this is not my usual style of content. usually i make cartoons about cats. while its not completely off the table as i do enjoy making videos like this once in a while i dont really have a drive to make lgbt focused content so please dont subscribe if thats what youre expecting So i decided to re-record this last little bit because i wasn't 100% happy with how it came out plus I have something really cool to show you Basically i just wanted to say thank you for supporting me even just watching and Liking my videos really helps me out. But if you really want to support me further i've actually been working really hard for the last few months on relaunching my online shop. I'm working with a new provider now all of the stuff is really high quality and they've helped me to come up with some really cool ideas because ive been really wanting to make more than just your standard “merch” one of these things is… i made a calendar! I'm honestly really happy with how this came out its so cool. Im not gonna spoil what the pages look like right now but you can find more information as well as order one if you want as well as my other stuff at chipflake.shop as usual And uhhh see some of the other stuff i've been working on! so i hope you like it! So... I.. dont think i will have hit 1 million subscribers by the time I'm posting this video but either way I'm pretty dang close way closer than I ever expected to be So, thank you for that i still can't believe it I'm bad at ending videos like this thank you again for supporting me i hope you have a great day