York City. In this clip we'll talk about when is the right time to say I love you in a new

relationship. Well it's always a sticky question because nobody wants to be the one to say

it first. But if you're genuinely feeling those feelings and you think that the other

person is responding and feeling the same thing too it's okay to say it whenever you

feel it, unless it's in the first week or two of a relationship, you really can't fall

in love that quick, that's more lust and attraction, and that's where a relationship starts from

with all that chemistry, but when you really start to have deeper feelings is when true

love is involved. So if you think you love them in the first week or so, you might be

falling in love with them, but you don't love them first, and if you say it at that point

you're going to scare them away. If you're feeling like you're starting to fall in love

and you really want to say it but you're not sure if you should, a little way to start

it say, you know I feel like I'm falling in love with you, instead of just saying, I love

you, is a gentler way to ease into that, and maybe the other person will reciprocate and

come back with it. This is Donna Barnes, life and dating coach in New York City.