Hey, babe, do you need a new toothbrush?

嘿，寶貝，你需要一個新牙刷嗎？

I've had this one since I was a kid.

我從小就有這個。

What?

什麼？

And quickly look very, very quickly.

而且很快就看的非常非常快。

Hi, I'm Anna.

嗨，我是安娜

Nice to meet you.

很高興見到你。

Read.

讀。

No, I'm sorry.

不，我很抱歉。

This is my now I don't do it consciously.

這是我的現在我不自覺的做。

E can't help it.

E不能幫助它。

I'm an imaginative person.

我是一個想象力豐富的人。

So of course, I immediately fantasize about the outcome of things the moment the possibility presents itself, whether it's a job opportunity I'm excited about.

所以，我當然會在可能性出現的那一刻，立刻幻想事情的結果，不管是一個讓我興奮的工作機會。

So your resume says you're proficient with Adobe Premiere Pro Sisi.

所以你的履歷上說你精通Adobe Premiere Pro Sisi。

I'm gonna like it here.

我會喜歡這裡的

Excuse me.

對不起，請原諒

I mean, you guys have kombucha on tap.

我的意思是，你們有昆布茶的龍頭。

That is crazy.

那是瘋狂的。

I love l.

我愛我。

A.

A.

Uh, when the obviously it's also like Fung Shui.

呃，當明顯的它也像馮水。

You know what?

你知道嗎？

I should probably get back to my desk.

我也許應該回到我的辦公桌上。

I got a lot of work to dio, uh, if I meet a guy and we have great chemistry Well, I'm Japanese, Hawaiian, so I'm historically self destructive.

我有很多工作要做，呃，如果我遇到一個人，我們有很大的化學反應，我是日本人，夏威夷人，所以我是歷史上的自我毀滅。

You're funny.

你真有趣

Thank you.

謝謝你了

So what are your emotional triggers?

那麼，你的情緒觸發點是什麼呢？

Your attachment style, your level of self awareness of your childhood traumas.

你的依戀風格，你對童年創傷的自我認知程度。

And how are you working to overcome them?

你又是如何努力克服它們的？

Oh, and what's your birth time.

哦，你的出生時間是什麼時候。

Well, look, if we're gonna make this work, I'm gonna need to know your ascendant.

聽著 如果我們要做這件事的話 我需要知道你的占星儀。

We've been just a TV show e here.

我們在這裡只是一個電視節目e。

The show is really good, but there's only two seasons out and there's this rumor that it gets canceled.

這部劇真的很好看，但是隻出了兩季，就有這個傳聞說會被取消。

Do I bother?

我費心了嗎？

I mean, what if I really love it and on a cliff?

我的意思是，如果我真的愛它，在懸崖上怎麼辦？

And I know I'm setting myself up for huge disappointments because you don't always get that job and sometimes that guy doesn't call you for a second date, and most definitely that show is gonna get canceled.

我知道我給自己設置了巨大的失望 因為你並不總是能得到那份工作 有時那個人也不會給你打電話讓你第二次約會 而且最肯定的是那場演出會被取消

But on the other side of the extremist spectrum, never getting invested in anything kind of sucks, too.

但在極端主義的另一邊，從來沒有投入過任何東西，也是一種很糟糕的事情。

I mean, without the hope of anything happening, life is just hopeless.

我的意思是，如果沒有發生任何事情的希望，生活就是無望的。

And that would be definitely way less fun than the emotional roller coaster of becoming overly attached to something instantaneously and writing the high of expectations into the inevitable bit of.

而這絕對會比瞬間對某件事情過度依賴，將高漲的期望值寫進不可避免的位的情感雲霄飛車少了很多樂趣。

And of course, the answer always lies and moderation like I don't know how many times I have to learn this lesson, but here we are again a decade on YouTube, and I'm still rediscovering that all of my problems usually have the same answer.

當然，答案永遠是謊言和節制，就像我不知道要學多少次這一課，但在這裡，我們又是在YouTube上的十年，我仍然重新發現，我所有的問題通常都有相同的答案。

You know, sometimes it feels like when you get older, your problems just sort of, like mutate like bacteria or something, and they become smarter and stronger.

你知道，有時候感覺就像當你年紀大了，你的問題就像變異了一樣，就像細菌什麼的，它們變得更聰明，更強大。

And you, as the antibody have to remember Hey, wait a second.

而你，作為抗體必須記住 嘿，等一下。

You're the same problem I dealt with two years ago, Only a right to version, because this is bullshit.

你和我兩年前處理的問題一樣，只有版本權，因為這是扯淡。

So now I'm striving to pace out my emotional investment in all possibilities and a healthy organic way instead of just like shoving all of my expectations into this one desired outcome so that anything other than what I imagine we'll just leave me in despair.

所以現在我努力在所有的可能性和健康有機的方式中踱出我的情感投資，而不是隻喜歡把所有的期望都塞進這一個期望的結果中，所以除了我想象中的我們，其他的都只會讓我陷入絕望。

You know, I still have hope for what will happen, but I don't immediately get married to the idea that this job is minor.

你知道，我對會發生的事情還是抱有希望的，但我並沒有立即結婚，這個工作是小事。

This boy is minor.

這個男孩是未成年人。

That TV show better go on for 43 seasons.

那部電視劇最好能拍上43季。

Instead, I try to actively and consciously just trust.

而我卻嘗試著主動地、有意識地只是信任。

Then if the job is mine, it'll be mine.

那如果工作是我的，那就由我來做。

If that's the right boy from me, it'll work out.

如果那是我的真命天子，一定會成功的。

I surrender everything to the universe, and I know that it's gonna unfold exactly as it should, and I immediately freak out and think that's all wrong and then I surrender again and the cycle repeats forever and ever and ever and ever until he died.

我把一切都交給了宇宙，我知道這一切都會按照它應該的樣子展開，我馬上就會抓狂，覺得這一切都不對，然後我又投降，這個循環永遠重複，永遠重複，永遠重複，直到他死。

Yeah, I'm Anna Khanna.

是啊，我是安娜・哈納。

Don't get attached to an outdated outro that no longer feels awesome.

不要拘泥於一個過時的外景，不再感覺到它的厲害。

Thank you to square space for sponsoring today's video.

感謝廣場空間對今天視頻的贊助。

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Squarespace有精美的獲獎模板和安在利一個平臺，所以永遠不需要安裝補丁或升級。

They have a 24 hour customer service for all your technical and emotional support questions and a simple and unique domain set of experience with Squarespace, you can create any kind of website whether you're an overly attached girlfriend, a super virus or a Sagittarius son.

他們有24小時的客服，可以解決你所有的技術和情感支持問題，還有一套簡單而獨特的域名體驗Squarespace，你可以創建任何類型的網站，無論你是一個感情過硬的女朋友，還是一個超級病毒，還是一個射手座的兒子。

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摩羯座上升。

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