York Dating Coach. In this clip, we're going to talk about how to talk to a quiet girl.I

think it's important to recognize that everyone has sort of their own pace of life. Their

own way of communicating. You know if you come across someone who's particularly shy,

or nervous, or just quiet, the best thing to do is to keep to that level. You never

want to overwhelm someone or to be really loud and abrasive with someone. It's especially

important to not necessarily cue them in to the fact that their quiet. You don't need

to constantly mention something you've noticed about someone. So, saying "jeez, you're really

quiet" or "pep up, liven up" isn't going to work. I would say your best bet is to be calm

and quiet with them. Let them slowly work into a conversation with you. The more you,

the more you feel at ease with someone, the more comfortable you make them feel, the better

your conversation and flirtation process will be in the end. This is Jessica Claire, New

York Dating Coach.