That's what kind of life you will live.

你就會過上這樣的生活。

Those you choose to surround yourself with will play a huge part in the quality of your life or lack of quality in your life.

你選擇與之周旋的人，將對你的生活品質或缺乏生活品質起到巨大的作用。

If you hang around with Onley angry and negative people, your life will be full of anger and negativity that you surround yourself with kind, compassionate and positive people.

如果你和安利憤怒和消極的人混在一起，你的生活就會充滿憤怒和消極的情緒，你周圍的人都是善良、富有同情心和積極的人。

Your life will have more kindness ons.

你的生活會有更多的善意在。

Positive energy.

正能量。

Who you surround yourself with is crucial on Sometimes it is important you reflect on those you are spending the most time with and asking yourself, Do I really want thes people in my life?

你周圍的人是至關重要的有時，重要的是你反思那些你花最多的時間，並問自己，我真的想在我的生活中的人嗎？

If you have any of these people in your life, it might be time to rethink how much time you spend with them.

如果你的生活中有這些人，可能是時候重新考慮你花多少時間和他們在一起了。

If any, it's all it might not be easy toe limits or end all interaction with these people if their friends or family.

如果有的話，它是所有它可能不容易的腳趾限制或結束與這些人的所有互動，如果他們的朋友或家人。

But if they're not making your life or theirs better by you spending time together, maybe it's time for both of you to move on.

但如果他們沒有通過你們在一起的時間讓你或他們的生活變得更好，也許你們兩個人都該繼續前進了。

Number one Dishonest people number two Controlling people number three Angry bitter and negative people.

一號不誠實的人二號控制慾強的人三號憤怒痛苦消極的人。

Victim mentality Number four takers never givers and number five those who have no desire to grow.

受害者心態 四號施捨者從不施捨，五號那些沒有成長慾望的人。

Let's talk a little more about each personality so you can spot them and, if needed, limits your time or end your time with them.

讓我們多談一點關於每個個性的事情，這樣你就可以發現他們，如果需要的話，限制你的時間或結束與他們的時間。

Number one Dishonest people Trust is a major human need for any relationship.

第一不誠實的人 信任是任何關係中人類的主要需求。

Friendships, romantic relationships, family members.

友誼、戀愛關係、家庭成員。

If you can't trust them, limit your time with them.

如果你不能信任他們，就限制你和他們在一起的時間。

If they lie repeatedly or rarely give you the full story.

如果他們一再撒謊或很少給你完整的故事。

This is a clear sign they don't respect you.

這是一個明顯的信號，他們不尊重你。

Address the problem with the person if you can.

如果可以的話，和他一起解決這個問題。

And if the situation doesn't change, move on and move forward.

如果情況沒有改變，就繼續前進，向前發展。

Don't responds with hate or revenge in mind.

不要帶著仇恨或報復的心態去迴應。

Just move on, take the high road and let them play out their dishonesty elsewhere.

你就繼續往前走，走高路，讓他們在其他地方發揮他們的不誠實。

Remember, if something feels off, it is most likely off number two.

記住，如果有什麼感覺不對的地方，很可能是二號人物不對。

Controlling people.

控制人。

Freedom is a basic human needs we all share.

自由是我們人類共同的基本需求。

And when we feel like another human is controlling us or trying thio, it is very uncomfortable and unnatural.

而當我們感覺到有另一個人在控制我們或試圖控制我們時，是非常不舒服和不自然的。

When you limit or end your time with these kinds of people, it will feel like a weight has been lifted off your back.

當你限制或結束與這類人相處的時間時，你會覺得自己的背上好像被卸下了重擔。

That's heavy burden you carry around.

你身上的負擔真重

Being under someone else's command is life draining.

在別人的指揮下，是很耗費生命的。

Follow your heart.

跟著你的心走。

You know those who are right for you.

你知道那些適合你的人。

Number three.

第三個。

Angry, bitter and negative people.

憤怒、痛苦和消極的人。

It goes without saying that your life would be better without angry, bitter and negative people in it.

毋庸置疑，你的生活中如果沒有憤怒、痛苦和消極的人，你的生活會更好。

But you must be able to spot these people.

但你必須能發現這些人。

Sometimes their behavior is more subtle than you might think, constantly judging others, always blaming and living in the victim role regularly getting into arguments, with others complaining, always finding the negative in any situation.

有時他們的行為比你想象的要微妙，不斷地評判別人，總是指責和生活在受害者的角色中，經常陷入爭論，與別人抱怨，總是在任何情況下找到負面的東西。

These kind of behaviors are not good for you if you want to live a true, happy, fulfilled life finds those who see the positive in each situation who responds with compassion, who can come and light up any room.

這些行為是不適合你，如果你想過一個真正的，快樂的，充實的生活發現那些誰看到了積極的每一個情況下，誰迴應與同情，誰可以來點亮任何房間。

Your life will be much better for him.

對他來說，你的生活會好很多。

Number four takers never givers.

四號選手從不給力。

It's pretty self explanatory, but it's those who always expects things to be given to them to be done for them, but who rarely ever offer the same level of giving in return.

這很不言而喻，但就是那些總是希望別人給他們的東西能為他們做，但他們卻很少能提供同樣程度的付出回報。

It's the person who calls you when they need you but doesn't answer when you need them.

就是在需要你的時候給你打電話，但在你需要的時候不接的人。

the one who will spend time with you when it suits them, but not when it doesn't.

在適合他們的時候會花時間和你在一起，但在不適合的時候不會。

It's almost like they feel superior above you.

就好像他們覺得自己比你高明一樣。

Well, they are not.

嗯，他們不是。

We are all equal.

我們都是平等的。

And if you find yourself in constant interaction with a taker, end that relationship and notice how good it feels.

而如果你發現自己經常與取食者互動，結束這種關係，並注意到這種感覺有多好。

Ons.

Ons.

Number five.

第五個。

Those who have no desire to grow If you are someone who is on a constant, never ending search for growth and self development, spending time with those who aren't could be very draining.

那些沒有成長慾望的人 如果你是一個不斷地、永無止境地尋求成長和自我發展的人，與那些沒有成長慾望的人相處可能會非常枯燥。

You may not need to end your time with these people they maybe family or lifelong friends.

你可能不需要和這些人結束你的時間，他們也許是家人，也許是一輩子的朋友。

But to expect your greatest life when you surround yourself with people who have zero intention of getting better ever.

但是，當你身邊的人都無意變得更好的時候，你就會期待自己最偉大的人生。

That's insanity.

這是瘋狂的。

A t.

A t.

End of the day You choose who you spend time with, and you choose who you spends the most time with.

一天結束 你選擇和誰在一起，你就選擇和誰在一起的時間最多。

You don't have to be rude or abrupt or disrespectful when limiting or ending time you spend with people.

在限制或結束與人相處的時間時，你不必粗魯、突兀或不尊重別人。

You don't even have to explain why.

你甚至不用解釋為什麼。