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  • Your fears are right: you probably won't ever find the right person. It seems harsh to say it just now but the right partner

    你的擔心是對的:你可能永遠找不到合適的人。現在說出來似乎很刺耳,但合適的伴侶。

  • for you doesn't really exist: there are just different varieties and degrees of wrongness.

    對你來說並不真的存在:只是有不同的品種和錯誤程度。

  • It's not your fault or theirs. Anyone, however lovely they seem at first, will turn out to

    這不是你或他們的錯。任何一個人,不管他們一開始多麼可愛,都會變成

  • be maddening, difficult and deeply disappointing in a fewbut to you very importantways.

    在一些方面令人發狂、困難和深感失望--但對你來說非常重要。

  • You are carrying the burden of Romanticism and are suffering from it gravely. You have

    你正揹負著浪漫主義的包袱,並深受其害。你已經

  • been made sick by the beguilingbut fatally oppressivefantasy that there's a specific

    被一個誘人的--但致命的壓迫--幻想弄得噁心,那就是有一個特定的------------------------。

  • person you are meant to be with who will end the longing, who will be your soul-mate, sexual

    你命中註定的那個人,他將會結束你的渴望,他將會是你的靈魂伴侶,性的伴侶

  • companion, chauffeur, housekeeper, co-parent, business partner and best friend. You see

    伴侶、司機、管家、共同父母、商業夥伴和最好的朋友。你看

  • them so clearly in your mind. That's because you made them up. But they don't, in fact,

    他們如此清楚地在你的腦海裡。那是因為你編造了它們。但事實上,他們並沒有。

  • exist. Advertising, films and music have done their utmost to convey to us that people do

    存在。廣告、電影和音樂都在竭力向我們傳達,人們確實

  • eventually, after a little heartache, find their ideal other, their long-lost twin. It's

    最終,在經歷了一點心酸之後,找到了自己理想的另一半,失散多年的雙胞胎。這就是

  • a very powerful idea to lean on when you're trying to sell a stranger a concert or movie

    一個非常強大的想法,依靠當你試圖出售一個陌生人的演唱會或電影。

  • ticket. But it isn't true. The number of people around the world who are profoundly

    票。但事實並非如此。全世界有多少人深陷其中?

  • emotionally, sexually, practically and intellectually happy with a partner, for more than a brief

    在情感上、性上、實踐上和智力上與伴侶的幸福,不僅僅是短暫的。

  • period, is tiny. These lucky souls could, if gathered, comfortably fit on a small island

    期,是很小的。這些幸運的靈魂,如果聚集在一起,可以舒適地容納在一個小島上。

  • in the Maldives. You're unlikely to be among themand won't win the lottery either.

    在馬爾地夫。你不太可能成為他們中的一員--也不會中彩票。

  • This doesn't have to be the end. There's a more mature idea of love around that stresses

    這不一定是終點。有一個更成熟的愛的想法周圍強調

  • how invariably compromised all good relationships are. Compatibility is an achievement of love;

    所有美好的關係都是多麼的無一例外的妥協。相容是愛的成就。

  • it shouldn't be its precondition. We manage to live wisely and comfortably around one

    它不應該是它的前提條件。我們設法圍繞著一個人明智而舒適地生活。

  • another when we stop insisting that our partners must constantly share all of our tastes, interests

    當我們不再堅持要求我們的伴侶必須經常分享我們所有的品味、興趣時,我們就會有另一種選擇。

  • and opinions. It is more than normal to be really quite lonely in large parts of our

    和意見。在我們的大部分地區,真的很孤獨是再正常不過的事情了。

  • emotional lives. An important factorbehind almost any decent relationshipis the

    情感生活。

  • capacity of each partner to manage cheerfully on their own. Relationships don't solve

    每個夥伴都有能力自己愉快地管理。關係不能解決

  • the problem of loneliness for very long. It's easy to lament how awful other possible partners

    寂寞的問題很長時間。我們很容易感嘆其他可能的伴侶是多麼的可怕

  • are. But reflect on the ways you are difficult to live with too. You must be to a significant

    是。但也要反思自己難以相處的方式。你一定是對一個重要的

  • degreenot because you are unusually freakish, but because everyone carries with them a range

    度--不是因為你異常怪異,而是因為每個人都帶著一系列的

  • of flaws and failings that show up, horribly, on close inspection. You will to a significant

    的缺陷和故障,在仔細檢查後,顯示出,可怕的。你會對一個重要的

  • extent be ruining the life of anyone you get together with long-term. Stop looking for

    在一定程度上會毀了你長期相處的人的生活。不要再找

  • a perfect partner and start looking for that far nicer and more enticing prospect: a good

    一個完美的合作伙伴,並開始尋找更好的和更誘人的前景:一個良好的。

  • enough one. The fact that no-one will be ideal doesn't mean that another person will have

    足夠的一個人。沒有人會是理想的,並不意味著另一個人就會有

  • nothing to offer. It's just that what we need from them will arrive wrapped up in a

    沒有什麼可提供的。只是我們需要從他們那裡得到的東西,會被包裹在一個...

  • lot of things we don't need and don't want. Hopefully, the long painful single period

    很多東西我們不需要,也不想要。希望,漫長的痛苦的單期。

  • hasn't just been wasted time. It's been a training ground for the true spirit of compromise

    不僅僅是浪費了時間。它一直是一個訓練場 對於真正的妥協精神

  • and gratitude that lasting

    感恩圖報

  • love demands.

    愛的要求。

  • If you enjoyed our film, please subscribe to our channel and click the bell icon to turn on notifications.

    如果您喜歡我們的影片,請訂閱我們的頻道,點擊鈴鐺圖標打開通知。

  • To learn more about love, try our set of cards that help answer that essential question, "Who should i be with?"

    要想了解更多關於愛情的資訊,請嘗試我們的一套卡片,幫助回答這個基本問題,"我應該和誰在一起?"

Your fears are right: you probably won't ever find the right person. It seems harsh to say it just now but the right partner

你的擔心是對的:你可能永遠找不到合適的人。現在說出來似乎很刺耳,但合適的伴侶。

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