Hey, soy sauce, A lot of offensive things.

嘿，醬油，很多攻擊性的東西。

Hey, wasabi girl.

嘿，芥末女孩。

A lot of unoriginal offensive things.

很多沒有創意的攻擊性的東西。

A sushi mama.

一個壽司媽媽。

I wanna furikake your face! Just straight up condiments.

我想叉叉也就是你的臉只是直接的調味品。

Now that I'm hearing all of this back to back.

現在，我聽到這些背靠背。

So you think you can cat call girl your bodies and exotic edible dish from insert the Asian country you hail from here.

所以，你認為你可以貓叫女孩你的身體和異國情調的食用菜從插入亞洲國家你從這裡出發。

I don't want to stick my chopsticks and that fluffy s rest and consume u haul.

我不想把我的筷子和那個毛絨絨的S休息，消耗u的收穫。

It was original.

這是原來的。

Okay, I will give you that.

好吧，我會給你的。

I've never heard that one before.

我從來沒有聽說過這個。

Well, you know, I definitely appreciate the straightforwardness of the approach.

嗯，你知道，我絕對欣賞這種直接的方法。

We don't get that a lot.

我們沒有得到很多。

Yeah, I really like the idea that my ass is fluffy rice.

是啊，我真的很喜歡這個想法，我的屁股是鬆軟的米。

I don't like you.

我不喜歡你

You're a harasser.

你是一個騷擾者。

But I like the image evoked, right?

但我喜歡這種形象的喚起，對嗎？

Yeah.

是啊。

There's some sole addiction choices in this cat call.

在這隻貓叫中，有一些獨一上癮的選擇。

Ooh, 666 You think back I've talked about this before, but as an Asian woman, obviously the number one thing you should know is that there are people out there who want to date you because of your race and regardless of your personality, the federalization of your ethnicity with the expectation that you're submissive and the idea that you are a land to be conquered, our unfortunate projected perspectives that come with all ideas.

哦，666你回想一下，我以前談過這個問題，但是作為一個亞洲女性，很明顯，你應該知道的第一件事是，有一些人因為你的種族而想和你約會，而不管你的個性，你的種族的聯邦化與期望你是順從的，你是一個要被征服的土地的想法，我們不幸的投射觀點，所有的想法。

But these kinds of racist people usually reveal themselves sooner or later, and eventually you get pretty good at spotting them before they have a chance to get you emotionally attached.

不過這類種族主義者通常遲早會暴露自己的身份，最終在他們有機會讓你產生感情之前，你就已經很好地發現了他們。

Next, Asian Americans are actually three times less likely to seek mental health services than Caucasians Onley 8.6% of Asian Americans seek any type of mental health service or resource, compared to the 18% of the general population nationwide.

其次，亞裔美國人尋求心理健康服務的可能性實際上是高加索人的三倍Onley 8.6%的亞裔美國人尋求任何類型的心理健康服務或資源，而全美一般人群的比例為18%。

And yet we have the parental pressures of succeeding academically, a tradition heavily rooted in silence and shame and the stresses of being from two different cultures and trying to develop a bi cultural sense of self.

然而，我們有父母在學業上取得成功的壓力，這種傳統在很大程度上植根於沉默和羞恥，以及來自兩種不同文化的壓力，並試圖發展一種雙文化的自我意識。

When I was growing up in the South, I was not American enough for America, and then when I was in school in Japan, I wasn't Japanese enough to all of my peers.

我在南方長大的時候，我不夠美國人，然後在日本上學的時候，我不夠所有同齡人的日本人。

It's a hell of an identity crisis, and there's a lot of negative stigma against mental health in the Asian community.

這是一個身份危機的地獄， 有很多負面的恥辱 對心理健康在亞洲社區。

So you should know there's absolutely nothing wrong with seeking help, whether it's therapy, medication for a mental disorder or joining a support group.

所以你應該知道，尋求幫助絕對沒有錯，無論是治療、藥物治療精神障礙，還是加入支持小組。

In fact, I urge you strongly to make it a priority to take care of your mental health in whatever ways benefit you the most.

事實上，我強烈要求你以任何對你最有利的方式，優先照顧你的心理健康。

And finally, if you have a dream, pursue it.

最後，如果你有夢想，就去追求它。

I've had so many friends who became biologists or lawyers at the behest of their parents, but they were so unhappy that they eventually had to quit or they went through college to please their parents.

我有好多朋友在父母的要求下成為生物學家或律師，但他們很不開心，最後不得不放棄，或者為了討好父母而讀大學。

And then they finally started doing what they actually wanted to do.

然後他們終於開始做他們真正想做的事。

After spending all of that money and losing all of that time.

花了那麼多錢，輸了那麼多時間。

And look, I want to acknowledge family expectations and pressures, and traditional Asian homes are different.

而且，我想承認家庭的期望和壓力，傳統的亞洲家庭是不同的。

The values of sacrifice, community and obeying authority are upheld and enforced in a way that is just simply different from our non Asian peers.

犧牲、社會和服從權威的價值觀得到了維護和執行，這與我們的非亞洲同齡人根本不同。

But this is your life, not your parents.

但這是你的生活，不是你的父母。

And yes, your parents may have brought you into this world.

是的，你的父母可能把你帶到了這個世界上。

But the world needs whatever it is that you're passionate about, whatever you're happy doing.

但這個世界需要的是你所熱衷的任何事情，無論你做什麼都很開心。

That's what the world needs you to be doing, because that's what you're gonna be your best self.

這就是世界需要你去做的事情，因為這才是你要做的最好的自己。

And we need mawr happy people who love what they do, because that is when people do the best jobs.

我們需要熱愛自己工作的快樂的人，因為那是人們做得最好的工作。

And ultimately your parents will be happy if you're successful doing what you love.

而最終如果你做自己喜歡的事情成功了，你的父母也會很高興。

And look, I know this is very easy to say.

你看，我知道這很容易說。

So I want you to know it's gonna be hard.

所以我想讓你知道，這將是困難的。

You'll feel like you're disappointing them for a very, very long time, maybe even a decade or more.

你會覺得你讓他們失望了很久，很久，甚至可能是十年或更久。

But it is not disappointment, his courage.

但這不是失望，是他的勇氣。

It's bravery.

這是勇敢。

And honestly, if you apply that sweet, sweet Asian work ethic to something you actually give a shit about, I mean, there's no chance to be failing.

說實話，如果你把這種甜美的亞洲人的工作態度應用到你真正關心的事情上，我的意思是，沒有機會失敗。

I'm Anaconda and I want to say thank you to square space for sponsoring today's episode from websites and online stores to marketing tools and analytics.

我是Anaconda，我想對正方形空間說聲謝謝，謝謝你們贊助今天的節目，從網站、網店到營銷工具和分析。

Squarespace is the only one platform to build a beautiful online presence and run your business.

Squarespace是唯一一個建立一個美麗的在線存在和運行您的業務的平臺。

Squarespace allows for simultaneous posting, so you could auto post your website content to Twitter, Facebook or Tumblr.

Squarespace允許同時發佈，所以你可以將你的網站內容自動發佈到Twitter、Facebook或Tumblr。

And if that's not enough, you could do email campaigns, which make it easy to unify your brand voice on your home page and in those in boxes.

如果這還不夠，你還可以做郵件活動，這樣可以輕鬆地在你的主頁和那些盒子裡統一你的品牌聲音。

I love data.

我喜歡數據。

So of course I love the built in tools that allow me to look at insights that can help me better understand my audience because you know I can't see you right now.

是以，我當然喜歡內置的工具，讓我可以查看洞察力，幫助我更好地瞭解我的觀眾，因為你知道我現在看不到你。

Go to Squarespace.

去Squarespace。

Com for a free trial, and when you're ready to launch, go to squarespace.

.com進行免費試用，當你準備好啟動時，到squarespace。

Com slash anna to save 10% off your first purchase of a website or a domain with the offer code, Anna Squarespace.

在這裡，您可以使用優惠代碼Anna Squarespace.Com slash anna來保存您第一次購買網站或域名的10%的折扣。