who just kind of plays by the rules.

誰只是種玩的規則。

You're kind of a nice girl from next door

你是個不錯的鄰家女孩啊

who is silly and funny, but I don't think

誰是愚蠢和有趣的，但我不認為。

everybody would probably know that you--

每個人都可能會知道你 --

(dramatic music)

咍

- Like so many people right now,

- 就像現在很多人一樣。

I've been living my life online,

我的生活一直在網上進行。

been working from home, online meetings,

一直在家工作，在線會議。

I talked to my friends through Google Hangouts,

我通過谷歌Hangouts和我的朋友哈拉。

and it got me thinking, how much can a private investigator

這讓我想到，一個私家偵探能做多少事？

find out about you if they had 60 minutes?

如果他們有60分鐘的時間就會發現你的存在？

If someone wanted to stalk me or I don't know,

如果有人想跟蹤我或者我不知道。

bring me down in an expose,

揭發我

how easy would it be for them to do that?

他們要做到這一點談何容易？

I really don't know what's out there.

我真的不知道外面有什麼。

There could be some pretty embarrassing stuff,

可能會有一些很尷尬的事情。

some stuff that I've definitely blacked out.

有些東西，我肯定黑了。

(dramatic music)

咍

Now's the time to find out if I've got like way too much

現在是時候找出 如果我有喜歡的方式太多，

information out there so I can hopefully fix it.

資訊在那裡，所以我可以希望修復它。

So I called Elizabeth South, private investigator

所以我打電話給伊麗莎白-南，私家偵探

and put her on the case.

並把她放在案子上。

(phone rings)

（電話鈴聲）

- [Elizabeth] Hello?

- [伊麗莎白]喂？

- Hi Elizabeth. This is Sarah from Buzzfeed.

- 嗨，伊麗莎白，我是Buzzfeed的莎拉我是Buzzfeed的Sarah

- [Elizabeth] Hi Sarah, how are you doing?

- [伊麗莎白]嗨，莎拉，你怎麼做？

- How are you? Thank you for taking the call.

- 你好嗎？ - 謝謝你接電話謝謝你接電話

- [Elizabeth] I'm looking up background,

- 我在查背景資料。

see what I could find on one of the staff members.

看看我能在其中一個工作人員身上找到什麼。

You give me the information.

你給我的資訊。

- Right, and that that staff member

- 對，還有那個工作人員

is actually going to be me. (laughs)

其實是要我。（笑）

What do you need to start the search?

你需要什麼來開始搜索？

- [Elizabeth] Your first and last name.

- [伊麗莎白]你的名字和姓氏。

- Have you ever found like a person that has a second family

- 你有沒有發現，像一個人，有第二個家庭

or anything like that?

或類似的東西？

- [Elizabeth] Oh yeah.

- [伊麗莎白]哦，是的。

- Oh, that, is that common, more common than I've been?

- 哦，那個，是常見的，比我還常見嗎？

- [Elizabeth] Yeah, I've dated them

- 是的，我和他們約會過。

- Oh God.

- 哦，上帝啊

- [Elizabeth] By accident, without knowing it.

- 不經意間，不知不覺地就發生了。

Like three times, yeah, and I ended up dating

就像三次，是的，我結束了約會。

a lot of Wall Street guys with one or two other families,

很多華爾街的人都有一兩個其他家庭。

I had no idea. Then I got into PI work, on accident.

我不知道。後來，我意外地進入了PI工作。

- Oh, that was your inspiration.

- 哦，這是你的靈感。

- [Elizabeth] Yeah.

- [伊麗莎白]是的。

- [Sarah] So how much time do you need?

- [薩拉]那麼你需要多少時間？

- [Elizabeth] Three to four hours.

- [伊麗莎白]三到四個小時。

We'll get quite a bit information on you.

我們會得到不少你的資訊。

- All right. Thank you. Take care.

- 好的，謝謝你。謝謝你，保重。照顧好自己

- [Elizabeth] My pleasure, look forward to it.

- 我的榮幸，期待著它。

- Bye. Bye.

- 掰掰掰掰

(tense music)

(緊張的音樂)

Elizabeth says before you hire a private investigator,

伊麗莎白說，在你僱傭私家偵探之前。

you should always research them.

你應該總是研究他們。

So I'm going to investigate her.

所以我要去調查她。

Okay Kay and Associates.

好吧，凱和聯營公司。

Okay, she's not in a flight company,

好吧，她不是在飛行公司。

so I must have spelled it wrong.

所以我一定是拼錯了。

All right, so this is where she works, Kay and Associates.

好吧，這就是她工作的地方，凱和事務所。

And you should see if, how long they're licensed.

你應該看看他們是否有執照，多久了。

Okay. So we're going to do a search here,

好了，我們要在這裡搜索一下。

license type, lamp adjuster.

許可證類型，燈光調整器。

I didn't know that that was a thing.

我不知道那是一種東西。

Oh, will you look at that?

哦，你能看看那個嗎？

1992, September 16, 1992, issuance date. Okay.

1992年，1992年9月16日，發行日期。好的

- When I'm going through my research

- 當我做研究的時候

and I'm looking up Ms. Sarah Burton,

我在找Sarah Burton女士。

I mean, obviously, you know, we have databases where

我的意思是，很明顯，你知道，我們有數據庫，在那裡...

we get a lot of our information from,

我們的很多資訊來自：

and we cross reference that.

和我們交叉參考。

However, I don't think people realize how much information

然而，我認為人們並沒有意識到有多少資訊

you can actually get off social media.

你其實可以離開社交媒體。

Really everything. I know almost everything about you now.

真的一切。我現在幾乎知道你的一切。

- Elizabeth South, Google.

- 伊麗莎白-南，谷歌。

Which one are you? No, that can't be her.

你是哪一個？不，那不可能是她。

Is that her?

是她嗎？

I had to stop looking up things about Elizabeth

我不得不停止查找關於伊麗莎白的事情

because it felt weird, but she is legit.

因為感覺很奇怪，但她是合法的。

So now I'm legitimately scared to find out

所以現在我真的很害怕發現

what she finds out about me.

她發現了我的情況。

I guess I'll just wait.

我想我還是等吧。

- What was most interesting was when I had a call

- 最有趣的是，當我接到一個電話的時候

with a former roommate.

與前室友。

I wonder if her family knows about this.

不知道她的家人是否知道這件事。

I was informed that she--

我被告知，她...

(dramatic music)

咍

Hello? - Hi. How are you?

嗨，你好嗎？

- Good. How are you?

- 很好，你怎麼樣？你好嗎？

- So there probably wasn't that much on me, right?

- 所以我身上大概沒有那麼多的東西吧？

- Well, I mean, I don't know what you consider very much.

- 我是說，我不知道你認為什麼是非常重要的。

I've got a lot of info on you.

我有很多關於你的資訊。

- Oh no. Okay. All right. All right.

- 哦，不好吧，好吧。好吧，好吧。好吧，好吧。

Well, I guess we should just dive in.

好吧，我想我們應該潛入。

- Yeah, I did find out something

- 是的，我確實發現了一些東西

that probably is not on your social media profile.

這可能不是你的社交媒體檔案。

I mean, here's the thing.

我的意思是，這裡的東西。

- Okay.

- 好吧，我知道了

- Most people are like you, like,

- 大多數人都和你一樣，喜歡。

you're going to have Facebook.

你會有Facebook。

You really need to make it private,

你真的需要把它變成私人的。

especially if you have friends

特別是如果你有朋友

or you're going to be posting any private information,

或者你要發佈任何私人資訊。

because that really tells people where they can find you.

因為這真正告訴人們在哪裡可以找到你。

Most people don't realize how much information they input

大多數人不知道他們輸入了多少資訊。

into the app, that you can still be located with.

成的應用，你還可以用定位。

Even for you, I recommend having private accounts

即使對你來說，我也建議你擁有私人賬戶

and then public accounts.

然後是公共賬戶。

Like I have a number of celebrity friends,

像我就有不少名人朋友。

but they have a separate account

但他們有一個單獨的賬戶

under a name that's not connected to them.

用一個與他們無關的名字。

They do not connect your phone number to it,

他們不會將你的電話號碼與之相連。

I can find you like that.

我可以找到你這樣的。

- Okay.

- 好吧，我知道了

- Connect your regular email to it.

- 將你的普通郵件連接到它。

I mean, there's, I can't give away too many secrets,

我的意思是，有，我不能透露太多祕密。

but I have conversations with my friends.

但我和我的朋友們有對話。

Like if anyone ever calls you, you hit me up first.

就像如果有人打電話給你，你先打給我。

You never trust anybody.

你從不相信任何人。

If I would've wanted to find loads of information on you,

如果我想找很多關於你的資訊的話。

very easy to do.

很容易做到。

- When you say "loads of information," what do you mean?

- 當你說 "大量資訊 "時，你是什麼意思？

- I mean, not only all of your friends back to high school

- 我的意思是，不只是你所有的朋友 回到高中的時候

who is connected to you, what you were doing,

誰和你有關係，你在做什麼。

your interests, your job history, your hobbies.

你的興趣，你的工作經歷，你的愛好。

- So the stuff that is out there now, in the past,

- 所以現在的東西，在過去。

even if I go and change privacy settings, or I delete them,

即使我去改變隱私設置，或者我刪除它們。

that doesn't necessarily mean it's gone from the internet.

這並不一定意味著它從互聯網上消失。

That's what you're saying?

這就是你的意思？

- That's exactly what I'm saying.

- 這正是我要說的。

- Did you find anything bad about me?

- 你有沒有發現我有什麼不好的地方？

Is there anything that you would recommend

你有什麼建議嗎？

that I take offline?

我脫機的？

- I mean, so if you're really like, if you're one of these,

- 我的意思是，所以如果你真的喜歡， 如果你是其中之一，

I would say conservative, religious people, they might,

我想說，保守的、有宗教信仰的人，他們可能會。

they may find it sinister.

他們可能會覺得這很陰險。

I found it super entertaining

我覺得超級有趣

and I decided we could be friends.

和我決定我們可以做朋友。

- Oh, okay.

- 哦，好吧。

- I found out for your birthday

- 我是在你生日的時候發現的

that you wanted to have a seance.

你說你想進行通靈

And there was an exorcism part to it.

而且還有驅魔的部分。

- [Sarah] Yeah, to try to exorcize my demons.

- [薩拉]是啊，試圖 驅除我的惡魔。

- Did it work?

- 有用嗎？

- Um, I guess so, because my record's pretty clean, right?

- 嗯，我想是的，因為我的記錄很乾淨，對吧？

(laughs)

（笑）

As you probably know,

你可能知道。

I don't have like an arrest record or anything.

我沒有逮捕記錄或任何東西。

So I feel like I don't have that much.

所以我覺得自己沒有那麼多。

Is there anything else that you found

你還發現了什麼嗎？

most people maybe wouldn't realize you could find so easily?

大多數人也許不會意識到你能這麼容易找到？

- I know I have your phone numbers,

- 我知道我有你們的電話號碼

you know, linked to you.

你知道，與你相連。

I have all of your past addresses.

我有你過去所有的地址。

I have you listed from March 2011 to October 2012 at (bleep)

2011年3月至2012年10月，我在(嗶嗶)把你列入名單。

- That's completely accurate.

- 這是完全準確的。

- I can give you five others. (laughs)

- 我可以給你五個其他的。（笑）

- No, I don't need to, I, move on.

- 不，我不需要，我，繼續前進。

- Your, your social security is. (bleep)

- 你的，你的社保是。(嗶)

This is just on a flat across the board,

這只是在平坦的全局上。

what we get from our databases.

我們從數據庫中得到的。

- Okay, okay.

- 好吧，好吧。

- I can tell how you vote, how you're registered to vote.

- 我可以知道你是如何投票的，你是如何登記投票的。

I see all your friends, family members, their age,

我看到你所有的朋友，家人，他們的年齡。

their dates of birth, all of your neighbors.

他們的出生日期，你所有的鄰居。

Now this is going to probably freak you out a little bit.

現在，這可能會嚇到你一點。

- Um, okay?

- 嗯，好嗎？

- So not only do I see all your possible neighbors,

- 所以我不僅看到了你所有可能的鄰居。

I can see all of your possible neighbors,

我可以看到你所有可能的鄰居。

their social security, their date of birth, their age,

他們的社會保險，他們的出生日期，他們的年齡。

and all addresses associated with them,

以及與之相關的所有地址。

as well as getting their phone numbers.

以及獲取他們的電話號碼。

So if I wanted to interview literally anyone

所以如果我想採訪任何人

you've ever been near, I can do it.

你曾經在附近，我可以做到這一點。

- Wow. Yeah, please don't call my neighbor from 2012.

- 哇哦，是啊，請不要叫我2012年的鄰居。是啊，請不要叫我2012年的鄰居。

Thank you.

謝謝你了

- Well, that's too late.

- 好吧，那太晚了。

Yeah. I did talk to one of your neighbors.

是的，我確實和你的一個鄰居談過了。

(dramatic music)

咍

I have conversations with my friends.

我和我的朋友們進行了對話。

Like if anyone ever calls you, you hit me up first.

就像如果有人打電話給你，你先打給我。

You never trust anybody.

你從不相信任何人。

Really nice, they seemed very sweet,

真的很好，他們看起來很可愛。

On the surface, you look like someone who just kind of

從表面上看，你看起來像一個人誰只是一種。

plays by the rules, you're comedic,

玩的規則，你是喜劇。

you're kind of a nice girl from next door

你是個不錯的鄰家女孩兒啊

who is silly and funny, but I don't think everybody

誰是愚蠢和有趣的，但我不認為每個人都是

would probably know that you donated eggs.

可能會知道你捐了卵子。

Wasn't that around 2012, something like that?

是不是在2012年左右，類似的事情？

- That was, I did that right after college

- 那是，我大學畢業後就做了

to pay off some of my debt,

來償還我的一些債務。

but like very few people know that.

但像很少有人知道。

- Well now I do everyone who watches this video

- 現在我做每個人誰看這個視頻

is probably gonna know.

可能會知道。

- I mean, it's fine, it's okay.

- 我的意思是，它的罰款，它的罰款。

I, I don't feel bad about it.

我，我不覺得有什麼不好。

It's just one of those, like things that I did in the past.

這只是其中之一，就像我過去做的事情。

- If I would have wanted to go deeper into that

- 如果我想更深入地瞭解這個問題

and to find what happened, it's a very good possibility

並找出發生了什麼事，這是一個非常好的可能性。

we could have gotten information.

我們本可以得到資訊。

So I'm not saying that sometime in the future, you know,

所以我並不是說在未來的某一天，你知道的。

10, 15 years from now that I might not get a call

10年，15年後我可能不會再接到電話了

from somebody who you may end up being their birth mother.

你可能會成為他們的生母。

And we can track that back.

我們可以追蹤到這一點。

- I selected a program where I did it anonymously.

- 我選擇了一個程序，我在那裡匿名做。

So I thought--

所以我想...

- There's always a way to find that answer,

- 總有辦法找到這個答案。

that's all I can tell you.

我只能告訴你這麼多

- I do realize with the internet,

- 我確實意識到與互聯網。

and obviously with all these DNA testing--

顯然，所有這些DNA測試 -

- Gonna pop up.

- 彈起裙。

- Yeah.

- 是啊。

- Because you didn't think back in 2012,

- 因為你沒有想到2012年的時候。

that this would happen.

會發生這種情況。

Like when me and my partner got together, I was like,

就像我和我的搭檔在一起的時候，我當時就想。

before we get married, we're doing an ancestry thing.

在我們結婚之前，我們正在做一個祖先的事情。

That's gonna make sure you don't have any love children

這將確保你不會有任何愛的孩子。

that I don't know about,

我不知道的。

because I might not stay with you if I find that.

因為如果我發現了，我可能不會和你在一起。

- What can I do now to try to make myself more secure?

- 我現在該怎麼做才能讓自己更有安全感？

- If it's a place you frequently go,

- 如果是你經常去的地方。

that people could just walk in there and see you

人們可以隨便走在那裡，看到你。

and you don't want to be found,

你也不想被人發現。

like this is our Sunday brunch place.

好像這是我們週日早午餐的地方。

So I'm like, look, if you want to be found, fine,

所以我想，你看，如果你想被發現，罰款。

but most girls I know are on dating apps,

但我認識的大多數女孩都在交友軟件上。

and most dating apps, actually all dating apps

和大多數約會應用程序，實際上所有的約會應用程序

have a lot of creeps on them.

身上有很多爬蟲。

If you are on a dating profile,

如果你在約會的資料上。

do not use pictures that you put on your other

不要使用您放在其他網站上的圖片。

social media profiles, 'cause they'll find you.

社交媒體資料，因為他們會找到你。

- 'Cause they'll match them up.

- 因為他們會給他們配對。

- What I recommend to absolutely everybody,

- 我推薦給大家的絕對是。

you don't autofill credit cards.

你不自動填寫信用卡。

Never put that computer on a public wifi.

千萬不要把電腦放在公共wifi上。

- [Sarah] Okay.

- [薩拉]好吧。

- Even if you're at Starbucks, you open up your computer

- 即使你在星巴克，你打開你的電腦。

and it's going to automatically connect,

就會自動連接。

and you do have professional hackers to where they will

你有專業的黑客，他們會在那裡。

hang out near coffee shops or places where there's free wifi

在咖啡店或有免費無線網絡的地方附近閒逛。

and it's real easy to get on your wifi

而且很容易上你的wifi。

and go through all of your information.

並查看你所有的資訊。

- So do I need to have a discussion