Not the one who gives the most toys.

不是給玩具最多的人。

Not the one who gives the best place to live.

而不是給人最好的住處的人。

Ah, great parent is the one who gives attention to be a great parent.

啊，偉大的父母就是要注意做一個偉大的父母。

All you need to do is be present with your child, not give presents.

你需要做的是和孩子一起出席，而不是送禮物。

Be present.

在場。

That's all kids really want.

這就是孩子們真正想要的。

They want you to notice them to be loved, to be wanted.

他們希望你能注意到他們，讓他們被愛，被需要。

The best parent is the one whose eyes light up when their child enters the room.

最好的父母是當孩子進入房間時眼睛會發光的人。

The parent who makes a promise to love unconditionally the parent who leads by example, not by what you say, but by what you do.

承諾無條件地愛的父母... ...以身作則的父母，不是靠你說的，而是靠你做的。

Kids will never pay attention to your words.

孩子們永遠不會注意你的話。

They will always and only pay attention to your actions and your intentions.

他們永遠也只會注意你的行為和意圖。

Ah, great parent works on themselves.

啊，偉大的父母在自己身上下功夫。

Ah, great parent makes their own minds strong, knowing their kids will likely follow in their footsteps.

啊，偉大的父母讓自己的思想變得強大，知道自己的孩子很可能會步自己的後塵。

Heal yourself, Make your own mind strong.

療養自己，讓自己的心靈強大起來。

So your Children To see the clearest example of what a great life looks like, setting a clear and strong example of what type of human being you want your kids to become starts with you.

所以你的孩子 要看到一個最清晰的例子，一個偉大的人生是什麼樣的，樹立一個清晰有力的榜樣，你希望你的孩子成為什麼樣的人，從你開始。

It's up to you to set the example of kindness and compassion toward others.

你要以身作則，對他人充滿善意和同情。

To set the example of what it is like to be yourself to set the example of living a magical life that you choose.

要以自己為榜樣，樹立自己選擇的神奇人生。

That's what a great parent does.

這就是一個偉大的父母所做的事情。

Set their child free, allow them to be themselves, allow them to make their own decisions.

讓他們的孩子自由，允許他們做自己，允許他們自己做決定。

Live your life in such a way that when your kids think of kindness, compassion, strength, authenticity and really joy, they think of you.

以這樣的方式生活，當你的孩子想到善良、慈悲、力量、真實和真正的快樂時，他們就會想到你。

Ah, great parent knows not to allow anything in their life.

啊，偉大的父母知道在他們的生活中不允許任何事情。

They don't want their Children to reproduce in their lives.

他們不希望自己的孩子在生活中繁衍。

That includes toxic relationships that includes bad habits that includes making decisions based on fear.

這包括有毒的關係，包括不良的習慣，包括基於恐懼做出的決定。

Ah, great parent listens.

啊，偉大的家長聽了。

They don't lecture.

他們不講課。

Ah, great parents supports.

啊，偉大的父母支持。

Never shames.

從不羞愧。

Ah, great parent guides and sets free.

啊，偉大的家長指南和套路免費。

Being a parent is not a job.

做父母不是工作。

It's a privilege.

這是一種特權。

Being a parent is not a burden.

做父母不是負擔。

It's a blessing.

這是一種福氣。

They are always watching.

他們一直在觀察。

What kind of role model will you be for your Children?

你會成為孩子們的什麼樣的榜樣？