Missing this distant person in the middle of the night

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Someone lonely but kind

It doesn't matter if you have friends.

Make yourself comfortable

Are you such a person who is very kind to everyone but enjoy lonely

Never conflict with people

Good relationship with everyone

Like to be alone

Enjoy a person's time

If you say yes, you are such a friendly loner.

Friendliness is a kind of cultivation

One person action is characte

There not conflict

Action by one person does not mean that you are not good at socializing.

You are very good at changing the way you do things.

It's just that you are not interested in performing in front of people who don't care.

You are usually friendly and understand others

But not blindly following

Don't want to join in the fun and don't want to create an event

You are so gentle, but not showing it.

Of course, not everyone can see your gentleness.

So you choose to be gentle to a few people

Be polite to others

Identity is the basic needs of people

Identify your status and achievements

Most people need to show themselves through socializing

This is actually a performance that is not strong enough inside.

For those who are strong inside, they don't need to get a sense of identity from the people around them.

What they need more is their own recognition of themselves.

So they pursue themselves rather than outside

Keeping loneliness is the performance of one's self-seeking internal improvement

One person's action is not to say that it is lonely

On the contrary, it is more conducive to our exercise

Similarly, mixing in a lively crowd does not mean that you are being recognized for loneliness.

That is just an illusion

There is an old saying: loneliness is a person's carnival

Carnival is a person's loneliness

There is another kind of person who is very lonely on the surface.

When they are crowded, they are sociable

Make everyone very happy

Full of self and positive attitude

When you are alone, you will become more sentimental

They like quiet when they are alone.

But it won't show up when there are many people.

they won't talk to other people about this topic.

They are hiding their inner loneliness with a happy externality.

Making yourself look very comfortable is actually making your heart feel better.

But this is not useless.

Only the inner strength is the real way

We must realize

Human sociality is changing

In the past, social time constraints were received.

Everyone's social is someone close to themselves.

Such as colleagues, peers, classmates, relatives

With the development of the Internet, these restrictions do not exist.

Those with common hobbies are more and more likely to get together

Those who share common interests are attracted to each other and no longer subject to space constraints.

So we often see people playing mobile phones while eating.

But turn a blind eye to the people facing

This can't blame the phone, but he is not interested in the people in front of him.

So one person's action does not mean that he has no friends.

It's just that you are not his friend.

Although you are very close, you are not a person of the world.

With the development of society, people's independence has become stronger.

People are less dependent on each other.

An ancient Chinese once said

Next door neighbor, but may never communicate

I don't know what to mean when I was young

I thought it was because the neighbors had quarreled.

This sentence is at the highest level of human civilization.

Humans can politely understand each other instead of imposing their own cognition on others.

Respecting the opinions of others is a kind of cultivation

I hope everyone can be strong inside and have good friends.

Friends don't care much, the key is whether there is a common hobby

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