字幕列表 影片播放 列印英文字幕 I can't do it! I don't know, maybe if I am drunk So making a move is hard? - It is. Hey guys and girls on Ask Japanese it's Cathy Cat! Can Japanese girls go up to a boy and say I like you or how about we go for tea. Can girls chat up boys here in Japan, is a question you asked us. Let's follow that up and go ask Japanese girls to day. Don't forget hit that subscribe button if you haven't already for more stuff here from Japan. Also ring the notification bell otherwise you'll miss the videos, Give us a like. Let's head off and ask Japanese girls. I suddenly spoke to you girls right? - Yeah. - Did I surprise you? You did. - But thank you for taking part in our interview. So today we are asking have you as girl ever approached a boy? Never! - Not at all. You are not brave to approach boys? - Not at all. - Zero. Can Japanese girls chat up boys? - I think it's ok..... - I think it's ok. Very cool if they can. You say it's cool but why can't you do it? - I want the boy to approach me! You wish for him to make a move? - Yes - Why so? I want the man to make the first move too. Is there someone precious even you would try to approach? For example a member of Arashi sitting in the seat next to you. - I couldn't talk to them I don't know. Maybe if I am drunk. Please think of your favourite celebrity. That person suddenly works at your job but only for one week. If you don't talk to them within one week, they'll be out of reach again so what will you do. - I think I would say "I like you" properly Wow you can do it. - Well I thought of my favourite female celebrity. If it was a man, I couldn't. But I could tell the women I admire that I admire her. - Like "I am your fan" - Yeah But you couldn't with a male celeb? - Never. - Why? It's too embarrassing. - You're shy too. Well then what will you do in that one week? - Try my best and ask him for his details So Japanese girls want boys to come up to then is there something to help with that? - Look into their eyes Or try to show them I treat them with special treatment. - Do men understand those hidden signs? - I don't think they do What action do you do then? - Say "I only do this for you" or such. That's as much as I can do. In Japan this might be a clear sign, abroad though it might be unnoticed. Girls making a move on boys?? That doesn't exist. - It doesn't. - I have never seen it. Not at all. - Absolutely never Why then? - Why.... Boys dislike it. - Yeah boys are like that it's bad for girls to approach men. - Girls have to wait for boys to come to them. We have to wait. - True true - You have to sit there like Yamato Nadeshiku er Nadeshiko and wait for ya man? So if girls approach girls it looks bad on them? - In school it's ok. Like confessing your feeling. - Yeah but chatting boys up is forbidden Chatting up always comes from boys. - But then boys generally chatting people up is a bad thing. - So chatting up is a no but love confession is ok - Yeah. - Why? - Cause you know them and you want to tell them how you feel. - First get to know each other and talking to strangers is bad. When you are friends its ok. - If you know each other its ok If you have been friends it's ok to ask the boy to go out. - Yeah That's ok. - But not to strangers. Did you ever want to chat up a boy. - Never - Why? I wouldn't even think of doing that, even if I see a cool guy Are there any celebrities you support right now? Think that that person is working at your part time job for a week together with you. - Oooooh It's not like he's a stranger and you will be working together. So in that one week if you don't approach him, nothing will happen. What do you do? - Don't scare him off - Try to get close without being too much try it. - like how. - Follow his Instagram or send a direct message. If that's not possible I wouldn't want to be too persistent. - You think a lot about the other's situation. I would feel bad for pestering him. He is famous and all. Well... If I pushed my feelings on him... he would be troubled by it. - He is busy after all! - Would feel sorry for him. Just seeing him is fine. - You just look at him from afar? Yeah that would make me happy. - Just having been able to work together is happiness I think that's enough. Wow admirable. You wouldn't try to appeal to him? Maybe a little. - Try to talk a little But only if its ok. - We are already luckier than the average fan. That is more than enough. - How friendly of you I heard girls can't chat up boys in Japan How is it really? Or is it correct? Tell me It's correct. - Totally right. - Have you ever? Never! - I can't talk to boys. - Approaching boys is difficult. - It is. - Making a move is hard but you can't go. So what would you have me do? - Dress flashy I guess I am already doing that. And he might give me his attention? - Yeah! Hard pass i guess. Many girls said there isn't a culture of boys going up to boys unless maybe in school when you have a boy in school that you know. Even if you met your very popular idol person that you admire in a kind of familiar environment, many girls would still not go up to him because they don't want to bother him. You don't wanna push your feelings too much on the other person and maybe annoy or burden them with your feelings. Very interesting. So there is a lot of thought put into the other person, considering the other person's feelings. Also what if he hates me if I do this So there is a lot of ... holding back in a way. So... I guess the boys have to be the first step. Seems to be a big thing here, also many said boys don't like it when girls do the first step... Alright... how are we gonna make this happen then guys? Because we have already had in one of our former interviews... Japanese boys are getting more and more shy... so this is going to be interesting, going into the next century, seeing how dating in Japan will now change due to these circumstances. So thank you very much for checking out or video. We have done more on this topic and I would like to know from you, what you think about this by dropping us a comment Don't forget if you haven't subscribed already there is more stuff coming out. We do a lot of videos here in Japan and don't forget to ring the notification bell and also give us a like. And the director and I, if you wanna see more snaps of these cute fashions I am wearing here on the streets of tokyo be sure to check out our instagram. 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