I meantellingMrShanklin, wedon't knowifwecansaveyourleg.
MrSankwhenwedon't knowifyou'regonnadie.
I mean, I don't knowthatthataffectionmentallyreallydies.
Posttraumaticstressdisorderisthesyndromeoffreally a normalresponsetoabnormalevents, andtheabnormaleventshavetohavethatqualityofbeingsearingandintrusiveandhorrifyingandterrifying.
AnyofuscanhavePTSDmoreorless, butforsomepeopleitlasts a longtime, andithasotherelementsaswell.
Healsoknowshe's vulnerableevendownhereintheemergencydepartment, wherethere's lesstimetogetinvolved, evenhear a patient, ortheirfamilycangettoussometimeswhenweleastexpected I hadanindividualonetimewhowas a youngmalewhohadbeeninvolvedin a drugdealthatwentbadlyandtheindividualwasshotandthenbroughtin.
Andthiswas a reallytraumacodewheretherearebellsandwhistlesandyouknow, Ivy's beingslammedinandlotsofhoopedallyinthisroomtothescreaming, yellingandeverything.
Butmaybeit's notsobadbecausehewas a drugdealerandthingswerebetter.
Um, andwelefttheroomandtheroomwasalljust a bigbloodymess.
Everything, andwewalkedout.
And I wastoldbythetheleadnursethattherewas a relativeouttherethatitwashisfather.
So I wentoutthereandherewasthislittlemansittingintheinthecorneroftheroom, whichwhichwecallthebadnewsroom.
Andhewas a verywelldressedlittlemanofHispanicgentlemen.
And I satdownin a very, youknow, roboticway.
And I said, Youknow, MrSoandsowasthisyoursonandwetalkedbrieflyfor a littlebit.
Andthen I said, I havesomebadnewsand I said, Yoursonisdeadanditwaslike a shotwentthroughhim, andatthesametime, itwentthroughme, anditwasjustlikesomebodyhadtakenmeandcompletelythrownmeoutofitthroughtheworldbecause I connectedwithhimin a waythatjustkisssoulandbeingandmoreorlessdestroyedit.
Andhe, inturn, connectedwithmesomehow.
And I wasdevastated.
I wastrashed, nomatterhowdeeplywereaffected.
It's alwaysharderonthefamily.
Atleastwe'reprepared.
We'vedoneitbefore, andwe'reonourhomeground.
Theyare.
Theshockofwhathappenedto a lovedonecanbeoverwhelming, thesuddenrealizationoftheenormity, thefinalityofwhat's happened.
Andthis, too, cancausePTSD.
Sometimes a parentwilljustsitinthedayswe'rewifewilljustsitsortofdissociated.
It's importantfor a doctoror a nursetoknowsomethingaboutthisfieldandtobeablewithconfidence, tosayto a patient, youmayhavePTSD, Andifyoudo, therearespecialistswhowe'regonnahelpyouwith.
Andthenthedoctor, a nurse, wasthereatthetimewhowasnot a psychiatristandnot a psychologistanddoesn't carrysomeofthebaggagethatweinthementalhealthfielddobecausewestillareseenbymanypeoplewhohaven't hadcontactwithusasthosefolkswhotreatcrazypeople.
I knowyoudidn't understandingthat a victimof a severetraumamaybeisbadlywoundedemotionallyasphysicallyknowingthatifuntreated, thoseemotionalwarmscandevelopintochronicPTSD a severe, debilitatingpsychiatriccondition, knowingwecanreducethatrisk.
Ifwespotthesignswhilethey'restillinourcareandreferthemto a specialistreassuringthemthattheemotionalaftershockstheymaybefeelingormayfeellaterarenormalreactionstoeabnormalevents.