Now, crushes may not be the best term for this word gotta get on to that in a minute see

this video is a response to Stevie Boebi's 'My lesbian youtuber crushes'

video because I'm in it and then she tagged me also then I accidentally

started something in the comments because I used the word vacation in

marks because vacation is a humorous word! I don't say 'vacation', I'm very British

and we say holiday. But it may have accidentally seemed like I was

saying yes to a threesome.

So Stevie lives here now! [Fairy Dust Sound Effect]

Stevie: Hi! Jessica: Beautiful. [Both laugh]

So Stevie called her video her 'Lesbian YouTuber Crushes' even though not everyone in the video

that she has a crush on is actually a lesbian but there are lesbian crushes

because Stevie is a lesbian and therefore everything she does is lesbian

like her lesbian coffee.

This is my lesbian drink.

As such I'm calling this a

crushes video even though I don't actually have crushes on anyone because

even though I very much am technically a lesbian I'm actually at this point just 'wifesexual'

It's just Claudia. Just my wife.

Did you know that in the asexual

community they have a term called 'Squishes' which is where you kind of

have a crush on someone but it's an asexual crush you like them so much more

than you like other people and it's not really like a friend thing although it

can be it just like you've really really really liked someone but you in no way

want to sleep with them and thus these are my squishes.

J: My number one squish is obviously Stevie. S: Woo!

True fact she cancelled her flight today. [Both Laugh] S: True

She genuinely is here forever. We haven't thought this through. [Both laugh]

For anyone who doesn't know Stevie's amazing channel, she does sex dating and relationship advice

from a lesbian point of view which doesn't just discuss lesbian stuff so don't worry you

don't just have to be a lesbian to appreciate her awesome content.

And it's wonderfully educational and no one else is doing what she's doing right

now which is creating queer sex-ed videos.

And by golly does the world need more of that for goodness sake!

Heartily approved!

I think our friendship seems strange to some people. [Both laugh]

but very we're very different people but that's

what makes it work right?

Also my wife is no longer scared that

we're going to run off together so that's good

S: [Surprised] What? No She Wasn't? Really? You guys take that video very seriously.

Claudia used to be like 'Oh my God you spend so much time with Clara

You love her so much more than me you guys have so much in common

oh my God' and I was like seriously I met you and I've never had feelings for any

girl since that day so you're good.

S: You guys are monogamous

Stevie is not monogamous

She also makes videos about polyamory so I can learn stuff that I have no clue about

it's very interesting. S: I haven't made any videos about polyamory yet.

Well I made one video on Ash's channel about polyamory. Not on my own J: Oh that's true. I've just been watching videos.

Thanks Tilly!

So my second squish is Ash Hardell!

Ash is absolutely wonderful. I met them at VidCon this year even though I've been a

fan for quite a long time. Ash makes amazing queer content including their

ABC of LGBT which I think is awesome and my dyslexia approves of

I really enjoy their informational videos that are all about the different types of places you can be

on the gender and sexuality spectrum. It's very educational and I love educational content.

Ash also has a wife Grace and they have another channel

called Ash & Grace Space where they just do really interesting discussions about

different topics. I really love Ash's editing that's one of my favorite parts

of their channel. Everything is so beautifully done and crafty and wonderful

and I think I have an editing crush.

I have an editing crush on Ash.

Squish number 3 is actually two people in one: Rach & Lau.

Because I guess do I have a more of a crush on their love I guess their relationship

it's very cute. They have matching skateboards.

You know I have a thing for skater girls. I was going to say skateboards, I clearly don't

have a thing for skateboarding, I've never gone skateboarding in my life. That'd be hilarious!

Oh no I did skateboard, I have skateboarded once!

I actually made Claud pick me up from

I've been filming in like our third date this never happened this footage does

not exist online by the way, and I made her come pick me up from this

skateboarding rink and she was like what the hell are you wearing because the

only shoes I had that were flat wear my slippers so I've been skateboarding in

my slippers. Badly.

Rach & Lau are absolutely the sweetest little couple

that I have met recently. Lau used to have another channel: 'LauraLu'

She started a new channel with her lovely new girlfriend Rachel who I think is just

one of the nicest people I've met.

They are absolutely adorable and you should go

and subscribe and support them in their new channel and my first wish is

And my forth squish is

Chandler Wilson. Chandler is so sweet! Again someone I met at VidCon this year

dear Lord I've met a lot of people at VidCon, it was amazing

Chandler's agender and makes videos about that experience but also just

about other things that are going on in their life and again more kind of LGBT

educational content which I feel like the video is entirely about that.

Educational content it's very good for you

I really like that Chandler is a very

positive person and I enjoy that because I like positive people obviously.

J: Hang on Claudia: I was doing DIY

J: You were doing DIY? C: I'm trying to fix Stevie's window

J: Awn, baby. I love you so much, thank you for making our home a happy little place. [Squeals]

S: Ok, we get it! You are so happy with each other!

[Jessie and Claud laugh]

C: Oh what was that? I didn't hear. [Everyone laughs]

J: So, Squish number 5 and

really my only crush the only person I have any kind of feelings you for.

It's you!

You can watch her on our channel. [Claudia laughs]

[Stevie fakes vomit sound]

[Jessie and Claud laugh]

I'm sorry we're so sickening.

I'm not really sorry, and I actually can't help it

Like the cheesiness I don't know where

it comes from it's very real though it brews inside my mind.

You're gonna get back in and do some more DIY? [Claudia makes affirmation noise]

So in conclusion those were my five squishes

no, four squishes and one crush really, that's what this video is about.

So to continue Stevie's tag video because I think this is a really good great way of

sharing LGBTQ+ YouTubers with our audiences

I would like to tag all of the people in this video! But Stevie obviously who's done this already

And my wife because... she's mine.

[Stevie laughs]

Tell me your crushes down below and

please share share your favourite LGBTQ+ YouTubers because I love meeting new

people and finding out all about them and watching their interesting channels

so thank you very much!

See you very soon!