There are a lot of things that we get wrong about our human anatomy,

but the hymen may very well be the most

misunderstood structure we've got.

People think it's this thick barrier at the entrance

of the vagina that's intact until it's broken by sex,

making it a sign of virginity.

But that... none of that's true.

The hymen is actually a thin, elastic,

membrane at the edge of the vagina's entrance,

and how it looks at any given point in a person's life

has very little—if anything—to do with sex.

The hymen exists because of how the vagina forms.

During fetal development, it starts as a tube

of solid tissue between the outside of the body

and the organ that will essentially become the uterus.

Over time, the inside of this tube just disintegrates

to make the reproductive tract.

But it usually doesn't completely hollow out—

a thin membrane tends to remain

on the outer end of the tube.

And that's the hymen.

Within a few days of birth, this membrane

usually develops one or more openings in it,

the exact size and shape of which can differ.

Often, though, the hymen just ends up a rim

of tissue that only partially covers the vaginal opening.

Some people are even born without a hymen altogether,

which doesn't seem to be a problem because

as far as anyone can tell, the hymen has no biological purpose.

In fact, having a completely intact or imperforate hymen

can be a bit of a problem, because when puberty rolls around,

it doesn't let menstrual fluids out.

Luckily, it's rare—imperforate hymens are

estimated to occur in only 1 in 1,000 to

1 in 10,000 people with vaginas.

Not only do hymens generally have holes in them

from infancy, but there's also nothing else about them

that can be used to reliably indicate sexual activity.

For one thing, the tissue is fairly elastic in adults,

so penetration doesn't necessarily cause any lasting changes.

For example, in one study from 2004,

there was no difference in hymen size between people

who'd had intercourse and those who didn't.

In fact, more than half of participants who'd had

intercourse showed no visible changes to the tissue

that might indicate sexual activity,

like notches from healed tears.

Meanwhile, some of people who didn't have sex

did have those notches—which is probably because the hymens

can look different for all sorts of reasons unrelated to intercourse.

Vigorous exercise or even inserting a tampon

might stretch the tissue or cause small tears, for example.

And contrary to most hymen myths,

even if the tissue is torn or ruptured somehow,

there often isn't a significant amount of bleeding

because the hymen has relatively few blood vessels.

So there's basically nothing right about the idea

that people will bleed when they first have vaginal intercourse

because their hymens are being broken.

In fact, several studies have documented that bleeding

is not routinely observed after a person's first time.

So while it's an interesting artifact of development,

there are lots of reasons why the hymen

doesn't tell you anything about a person.

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If you liked learning the truth about this

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