Name: 1年的冥想。我學到了什麼 (1 Year of Meditation: What I've Learned)
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Hi guys after having edited most of the video I realized that I have a tendency to speak very seriously

That's just kind of how I talk when I talk about things that are important to me

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But the idea behind this piece was to make meditation seem more approachable and not so scary or impossible

So just take this as a fellow amateur sharing what he has discovered so far. I

I thought I would sit down and share some thoughts on my experiences with meditation over the last year and what I've learned

Meditation is the single habit that has most improved the quality of my life

It has done so in kind of an invisible way

Resources and some advice to help make this habit stick in the long term because I know it can be really hard

I'm also making this because there are so many misconceptions

Misconceptions that I've had and it's really unfortunate

I think a lot of people are looking for quick solutions and by people I really mean myself

Give me something that will fix what I'm feeling right now

I think you've all know a Harare said it brilliantly one of the biggest dangers and meditation is the pursuit of special experiences

I've come to see meditation as a way of getting to know my own mind of

Observing what's going on inside? I haven't meditated every single day over the last year

But I have been by far the most consistent with it that I've ever been I'd say probably close to

Over the last year if I had to guess I know this might not seem like a huge accomplishment

But I'm really happy with myself for continually coming back to it

Incorporating it into my life. I've always been a fidgety and anxious child

Last summer, I finished a huge project that had consumed my life for like six months

Once it came to a close I was once again finding myself asking the question

What do I want to do with my life, you know the angst the existential crisis?

Typical millennial I think I was looking for solutions. Maybe not so much to my immediate questions but to my

general approach I was really tired of making rash decisions

You know being so reactive to everything. I was looking for ways to find more clarity, you know, preferably internally

So I started experimenting with stuff and that's how I've been living for the last year

meditation was one of the first places that I started but it's something that I always put off and was extremely inconsistent with like

One or two times a year maximum practically nothing so I thought all right

No pressure or a little pressure just enough to push myself to just try and do it on a regular basis

That seems to be the best way to build new habits

I got the app headspace and I loved it not sponsored by them

It definitely has its limitations, but it was an amazing place to start and like I said

Five minutes or even three minutes at a time sometimes in the morning sometimes at night

Pretty simple a little bit disorganized but more than anything. I think I was familiarizing myself with this feeling of closing my eyes and

You build up streaks in the app, but I don't really give a shit about that I would miss days

There was no guilt or anything. Like I said low expectations

I did not become a pro overnight and I was fully aware of that. Actually. This is worth addressing right now

even a year on I totally consider myself an amateur still and

I might feel like this for the rest of my life who knows just being fully honest here meditation is still really hard

But just like anything else the relationship kind of changes and easier isn't the right word

It's more like it has become more approachable and I have seen time and again the value that it adds to my life

So again some days I would meditate twice some days

I would miss out completely and then at the beginning of this year as many of you have seen I

Charged myself to try meditating for a full hour a day for an entire week

I kind of threw myself off the deep end with that and it was super difficult, but it also

Kind of turbocharged the whole thing for me this challenge made

meditation a kind of experiment on myself really and

After this experience during and after this experience, I came to see meditation, you know in a different light

I was starting to consider it a lot more seriously

I don't think I actually recommend doing things this way

And to suddenly increase the amount of time meditating in such a like a such a short period of time

But it was eye-opening and I remember mentioning at one point in the video that it felt like there was a whole universe to explore

In my mind, it's it's exciting because it's like a reminder that there's so much more to life

It's not just the superficial games that we all play

99% of the time it made me realize that 30 minutes

Once you build up the muscle is not that long

Getting to know yourself is a priority then you make the time for it

Like I said in the beginning of this piece the biggest benefits feel almost invisible

Spending time quietly by myself following my breath observing my thoughts

Brings a sense of clarity that I don't think you can get any other way

I honestly think that it has helped me build up a little more patience for when things go to hell and

A little bit more compassion. It is an amazing tool on catching yourself on your own bullshit and

Realizing that like 95% of what I'm freaking out about right now. It has been invented in my own mind

You know in the direction of many of my fears instead of running away from them and confront them

That's not to say that it doesn't suck sometimes. I mean, I would say that I still spend more than 90% of the time

Following random trails of thoughts and being scattered getting pulled this way in that way

You know, I'll be just being all over the place, but it's part of the process. It's not good or bad

So let's talk a little bit about how to build this habit so that you can keep in the long-term first

I think the best meditations happen early in the morning before engaging too much with the world and getting sucked into things

Meditating when you're sleep-deprived makes it so much more difficult to stay awake, especially when you're not used to it

So I always recommend sleeping enough if you needed yet another reason to get the proper amount of sleep. There you go

I really believe you should give meditation the time that it deserves

So if that means scheduling it in then do that

I mean even just five minutes or three minutes, like I said is a great starting place

It always helps me to remind myself of two things. Why am I doing this in the first place and how it has

positively impacted me in the past. And when I remember these two things, it's like there's absolutely no reason not to do it

It's like the more or less the best time I spent all day posture is super important

I've had very poor posture in the past and even just being mindful about it

And making a little bit of an effort can have a positive impact. There are plenty of great tutorials out there

I don't feel qualified enough to give that kind of advice

but I will say that I find having some sort of back support helps a ton

Do not get frustrated with yourself. Every time you catch yourself going down some long winded trail of thoughts. Just bring the focus back

Ten a hundred a thousand ten thousand times if nothing else

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