You know how I feel like I'm taking that kind of thing is going nowhere.

Oh, now, of course, having a check.

If you're following me and you're not running a saloon, it's me.

And this time we're in Frog Lay Here I am today to talk to Josephine Dilla Bam!

He's a close friend of mine and she's gonna try and imbue me with her Frenchness.

Let's go.

Demon Bushels Saloon is to a French kiss.

Fine.

When are you most aware of how French jewel in England showing your emotions?

Public display?

Where is in Britain?

Everyone's really uptight and there's a tow.

We can't have seemed arrogant.

That's French people, but like something right over there, like you can like.

I've never been happier.

Yeah, there's something.

There's something a little bit like blasting, but you're not inside.

I feel incredible outside.

I looked like a I really couldn't be bothered in England.

They're kissing.

And then there's French kissing, Which is that when you stick the tongue in Right?

Uh so in Frantz is just called kissing.

So even when you were 11 you're going straight in with the tongue.

Their first kiss actually was That was three years old, but it was the talk.

Yeah, is my cousin.

There's a lot on back there.

He has an incestuous sex not reading.

My cousin is conducted cousin, so that makes it okay.

But that's going English too.

Maybe we share that in common in France, In England.

I want to talk about your mom.

You've met my mom.

What was your experience like when I was, like, 60 and she'd be so honest about sex.

And you're like the last person going down.

You know, your mama's Do you have to make sure?

Yeah.

And then she's kind of like would take my dad as an example.

Shakes.

Anyway, you mean this is how you do a little bit more?

You know, imagine tea.

Maybe Would you dare do that?

And I was just getting like, I don't know, that their sex and it was just like, this is you're aware this is my dad.

That's crazy.

Good.

That's very Molden.

Feel like nowadays People want to see if I don't know.

It's your moment of it Now.

I laugh about it at the time.

She it's great, like you're 16 years old.

Did she have like, but it's feminist.

It's cool that she should, like, make sure.

Yeah, it is.

But I like bass singer or like, argument on her sex.

Afterwards you're on that.

I think with the dawn of like APs for dating settle, things are changing.

However, I hope I speak for all of Britain when I say this the traditional way that we used to do that As you go to a pub with your mates, go home with someone by accident and see with them.

And then if that happens, enough times in a row, you've got a boyfriend.

Was this thus?

I think in France, If you basically keys twice, you're gonna wish girlfriend?

No, I mention in front looking each other like they were in love.

You were in love.

Yeah, but the thing is also where to meet me for a great degree of French River Cheetah.

Yeah.

I don't know.

Because you have a culture of mistresses.

Yeah.

Having the mistress of King?

Exactly.

Actually, my great grandmother was like the mistress of what, in my mind, French women.

They're really know, having great style because it seems to be timeless.

And outside of the constraints of trends.

So I wondered if you could show me some things in your wardrobe and maybe we talk about a different approach to I just want to feel like a grown up.

I'm still dressing like a 12 year old.

So if you could take me out to be a woman, I will explain to you Okay.

Perfect.

So this is your delightful wardrobe, which is a bit different, how we live.

I've got it.

Floored Robe.

What was that?

It's when you put your clothes on the floor and then hope for the best on then sometimes our hang something on a curtain pole.

Anyway, you are a lead singer in a band.

Well, do you perform in?

Actually, when you're playing with your band, what you're like on stage outfit tight and the one that fishnets thank you.

And I were like a black bodysuits and different and black leather glove indifference man's jacket.

Because I can't remember.

I can see you in Paris new wearing a track tracksuit bottoms, and they're like, OK, you're on.

And you just, like, took him off eyes.

That Okay, sure.

What would you wear?

For example, A date or something where you're trying to be alluring, huh?

Well, maybe I was really gonna dress like that, but you know, these two of you Do you think it's obvious, though?

I mean, what's the end goal?

No good point.

So I should be less embarrassed by the fact that I probably Do you want to get laid and just admit it and own it rather than being like, Oh, nothing to see here like it's gonna be a big surprise.

You said your mom bought you.

So your first laundry?

She's thinking you should wear something like that.

Age 12.

He's almost before the nine.

Inappropriate.

Like, I don't wear pajamas that well, now it's time to move on to this.

This one is baffling.

So my mother, that was last Christmas got me that That's beautiful to sleep in.

First of all, I think she thinks I'm about 20 servitude.

Since one is higher than them.

I actually, I I love your mom.

The's your pants.

My mom gave me that.

Cubans.

They're quite big.

Thank you, Mom.

She think that would be a pajama for my mom, That is No, I see.

I see.

So you wouldn't get like, for example, I just want to show you my pants today.

Oh, Jesus.

You get five in a pack.

That's what I wore when I was, like, eight years old.

You listen, in the fallow years when I'm very single, I like I don't really I'm happy with my five pack of pants.

But then if you meet someone by accident, but it's always by accident, I think cotton white cotton knickers a sexy Maybe I've aged out of that being like a provocative losing my mind rigid.

Sometimes there were boxes like a tight butt boy ones.

Yeah, again, it's multi pack e.

You're gonna save me so much money.

Because when I lose one, it's like, Get that Serve you.

Well, you'll save at least £12 perfidious.

I just wanted to see you pants.

Really?

Make sure we're on the same page with absolutely no one of my favorite French phrases.

I want to put it on a T shirt.

Is Jada Vagal Um yeah, and that's actually the name.

You've got some Good, because this song is called love mahi vagal.

Um, the reason I liked it was because someone said it to me and I said, What does that mean?

And they said in a very French way, it's kind of impossible to tell you what it means because you don't really have the like, emotional vocabulary for it.

It's true.

And I was like, Give it a girl like it means like your soul is in the waves.

It means waves to my soul, waves to myself.

Which is kind of kind of means like it's there's a melancholy aspect to it, but it's kind of like heavier right?

And do you sing in French?

Yeah.

Do you ever sing in English?

There's a couple songs on the finale record, which is in English.

It's Muslim French.

What's a good French phrase for me to deploy that makes me sound sophisticated and sexy?

There's one I really like.

It is Rupa me Kicking me Collect is my guess.

Japon Clicking Clock A drama cats, the gym.

A cast was me.

I take my bits and bobs and I'm out.

Oh yeah, where would I say that to like, introduce a bit of drama in your relationship?

Why am I?

Why would I want drama to make it more exciting?

So I'm in a relationship.

Yeah, let's just say it's getting a bit boring.

It's getting a bit same saying, Yeah, like, how would I spice up so that we're just having a conversation, for example, and you'll and you'll teach me out to start the drama.

Hi.

How was your day?

How did it go on shoot today?

Is that all you have to ask me?

That was my day.

So you'll just like, pop that in willy nilly just to create a bit of attention.

Attention, validation.

Also force.

That's what you're looking for today.

Okay?

Yeah.

No, of course.

No, I never asked me how I feel.

You never actually mean.

Like, how are you?

How's my day?

You don't carry just passing through.

Singing was my day.

What would actually cares?

But they was So you probably, uh sorry.

I just care Your president are you there like a team?

I really Are you actually interested?

Wow.

Then continue.

Are you interested?

You have the implement?

You said that.

When did you actually think you care?

Yeah, I really care.

Just thought that was You asked me the same question every day.

But you never really get to the bottom of things.

No, I I just was intrigued to know how this particular shoot went because I know that you were really looking forward to it.

See, that's nice.

You care?

Loopy.

But the truth is, we never really asked me how I'm doing.

Well, how are you doing inside?

You don't mean that.

You're laughing.

Since Impostor, it's exerting your things you're taking.

That thing is going nowhere.

I can never get what I want.

Do you actually know me?

Do we know each other?

I feel like we know each other very well at this point, then you want to slam a door, maybe.

Okay, go like that salmon door.

Always something better.

Okay.

Oh, of course.

Having to check if you're following me and you're not for me.

So what?

You're just gonna sit there way trying to plummet?

You said that.

Well, maybe we shouldn't even go there, then.

Perfect.

Well, like your life's gonna be exciting if that was My problem is I live in a cottage with very small doors, so I can't really slam it.

I have to just sort of put it back on the latch.

You call.

That's not gonna work Josephine.

Yes.

Thank you so much for talking to me.

Thank you.

I feel I do feel in pity per more French.

Yes.

More French.

Yeah.

Good French accent.

Put clean it on your next date.

Why are you not looking at me?

It's super weird.

Keep eyes on the prize.

Is you loathe?

Wait till we get home.

I'm gonna get very fucking matatu.

You got more friends than me on the sea.

Well done.

Thanks.

Yeah.

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