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Today we're going to be talking about values, religion and God. If you've been watching me for a while

you probably know that I identify as a Quaker. I am a member of the religious Society of Friends.

They are commonly known as Quakers and [american accent] quakers. Quakers, not Quavers.

Although that is a pretty common misconception. Also nothing to do with oats,

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but I wasn't too sure about. I ran some ideas past my channel members,

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and they gave me some ideas for structure to focus on.

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"join", they're changing stuff. In this video

I'm going to give you an incredibly brief overview of the history of Quakerism, give you some ideas about what we believe in and

our values

..so on, and how that affects my everyday life.

I'm also really interested to know if you have a religion or you grew up with one and how you feel

it's shaped your life. Equally so, if you are agnostic or a complete atheist.

I have identified as a Quaker for

as long as I can remember. I remember asking my mother if I could be a member when I was about five and she said

no, because you have to be 16, I believe, to actually formally become a member. It has to be a choice.

It's a big part of who I am and I do feel like it has shaped me as I've grown up.

Also, a religion that allows for fluidity of

interpretation, and a lot of different viewpoints. So everything I'm going to be showing in this video is very much from my point of view,

it's the things that I believe in,

and also what I have been taught. So, other people will have different interpretations of

Quakerism, especially in different countries around the world. Quakerism grew out of Christianity in the

1600s in the north of England. The explanation that I use to describe the founding of Quakerism is, I swear,

taken from a children's meeting when I was like four, but I think it describes it very well.

There was a man called George Fox who

was very dissatisfied with the way he saw the Church of England, and how he saw that it was being run.

He saw that the men around him would

lie and cheat and steal and beat their wives and then on Sundays, they would go to church and it was as if everything

was forgiven because they were very good on this one day. But George Fox instead believed that it was possible to have a

direct experience of God, and that all people should try to live lives reflecting, faith, piety, and love. Also a big deal:

he developed some of the major concepts

with a woman called Margaret Fell. Woman! And, Quakers considered women to be vital to religion, vital!

It was the 1600s, ok? I am allowed to get excited. Quakerism has a very firm

concept of spiritual equality amongst all people.

So yay! The religion as a whole however can be very difficult

to explain and to define as it doesn't have set

religious Creed's and doctrine. Instead of a Quaker Bible, we have Quaker Advice and Queries, which is an ever evolving

document that is written by the members themselves.

The idea is that it always reflects the times, so that people can read it and have a direct

answer almost, or help with the query that they have right now,

rather than a query that would have been super helpful to people in the 1700s.

Our religion is less about following exact rules

and more about the way that we live and the effect that we want to have on the world.

We try to help each other work out how to live ethically, following our core principles. These are: equality,

justice, truth, peace, simplicity, and sustainability.

Equality

The basic belief of Quakerism is that there is that of God in everyone.

Quakers believe that all people are equal,

it's not young and old, or rich and poor, or black and white, gay, straight,

whatever. I have always been raised as a Quaker, I could speak to adults on their level.

Justice

This belief in inequality inspires quaker's to work for change in all systems that cause injustice, whether that's

dismantling slavery in the past, campaigning for gay marriage, or in the here and now;

campaigning for help for asylum seekers. Obviously, it's not just campaigning, there's a lot of very hands-on help.

We also believe that no person is beyond redemption and that no matter what a person has done, they deserve to be treated fairly.

Truth

Quakers live according to our truth, what we know and believe to be right.

Even if this means speaking out against our own interests, or being straight talkers to those in positions of power.

Hence, many Quakers got put into prison because they refused to deny that they were Quakers and they refused to stop having meetings.

We're not great to helping ourselves

We're guided by integrity - for this reason, Quaker businesspeople were known to have

incredibly good practices and

Quaker companies were generally companies that people really wanted to do business with, so then, some other businesses that were not Quaker businesses

took our name and decided to put it on the box of their grain related food product and then did not

follow Quaker business practices: point is, you'll never get cheated by a Quaker.

We are the ones who get really upset

if you give us too much change. On the personal level, I try to be open and honest at all times,

even if it might help me personally, because in the long run it might help someone else.

Peace

Quakers are probably best known for our peace testimony, since we believe that all life is of equal worth and that

love is the center of the universe. We can't harm another human being, we don't believe that it's right to do so.

Thus, Quakers refuse military service and work towards peace instead.

This could be personal, or interpersonal, and ranges from doing hands-on work in conflict zones to considering options for peace and

working in places like The Hague. Sidenote, my brother and I never had water guns as a child or any type of toy that

was similar to a weapon, or video games where you would injure someone.

So I am super versed in the zoombinis.

Simplicity and sustainability.

I have lumped these two together, because that's kind of how I see them now. In the past,

simplicity was a lot to do with Quakers wearing certain forms of

dress and living very modest and simple lives. Quakers would wear very plain clothes in very plain colors without any kind of lace edging

or anything glittery or fancy. Today, however, it's more of a

spiritual life type of thing and

goes along with the sustainability aspect. So we work to try and reduce excess and waste in our society.

We want to make sure that our use of natural resources is

sustainable and that we focus on living a

simple life that doesn't take away from others, even if there are others in the far future who will be

damaged by global warming. I try to focus my life on the things that really matter. I really try my hardest to always be as

sustainable as possible, but obviously with my disability I do have some issues with this, and

that is why I get quite upset by certain things like

plastic straw drama.

But if you really want to know yes, I do use plastic straws. No, I don't just use them

once, I run them through the dishwasher.

They're fine. I am fortunate enough to have a dishwasher, one pack of straws last me for like two years. Okay, don't..

Chill. Anyway today's video is about Quakerism and not about disabilities. Oh, I didn't actually add that, did I?

Sorry, able bodied, disabled, we are also equal. Onto the tricky topics though -

What do Quakers believe about God? Quakers do have

differing beliefs when it comes to God, and they might use that word in different ways. But the one thing that

binds us all together is that we believe that there is that of God in everyone,

but that God is different for everyone. The greater understanding of God is that it is shaped by personal experience.

We all use different words to describe it and it's down to whatever you feel is

personally helpful and meaningful - not all Quakers believe in "God" as a

separate entity who lives

in the sky. I personally believe that the goodness within each of us,

which you could call the spirit, if you will, that goodness combined is what God is. In my mind,

there is something precious and transcendent about every person, and I take great

strength and comfort from that. We're all connected

and thus we're never truly alone. I think it's a lot of history and

baggage that comes with the word God and it causes a lot of division. One thing

I personally really like about Quakerism

is that even though it grew out of Christianity, Quakerism very much sees the benefits and the

meaning and value and other forms of religion.

You could be a Quaker and also be another religion. Quakers are cool with that.

There's great history of tolerance and openness, but also

independence of mind

and thought and spirit when it comes to a Quakerism that I really value.

Basically,

we all believe that there is something beyond our individual selves and that we can communicate with that directly

on a personal level, whether that be through living spiritual lives or through silent reflection,

or both. Which brings me to: how to Quakers pray?

Now as I mentioned earlier,

we believe in complete and total equality.

Thus we have no traditional religious structures or a minister, priest, bishop

vicar

whomever. Instead we share responsibility for what we do, because everyone has a valuable contribution to make. We pray collectively through a thing called

"Meeting for Worship"

Which can take place at any time,

anywhere, but is generally held on a Sunday morning at a Quaker meeting house, because it's handy to know

where to go.

But you could also just call a meeting right now

if you wanted to. You don't have to be a member to come, you could be either a tender,

which is what my father was for many many years,

which is where you go to Quaker meetings quite regularly and you get involved in the community

but you're not actually a registered member of the religious Society of Friends.

You could also be a visitor, which is what Claud is when she comes with me. Again,

They are completely open to absolutely anyone, and you don't need to know someone who already goes to go,

though obviously you are expected to show a level of respect when you attend. Don't be on your phone or something.

Children also come to meeting, although they generally don't stay for full length of time, which is

often about an hour, and the rest of the time they will be at the children's meeting,

which is generally like a room next door to where everyone else is sitting, and they will be doing some kind of

game or learning experience.

I made my parents many bad paintings at children's meeting. During the meeting,

we all sit in silence facing the center of the room. This could be the chairs either

in

circles or squares sometimes

The idea is that there isn't a

certain special

spot where one person is. Although sometimes there are chairs that are held for elders, but that is just so you know

where they are. And what is an elder you ask? Well, within Quakerism,

there's a certain number of jobs that need to be held like someone needs to clark the meetings,

someone needs to be in charge of the building and setting up, and someone is to write rotors and the elders are basically there as

spiritual

advisors. But, the great thing about Quakerism is that you can only hold a post for three years.

You can't nominate yourself. You have to be nominated by someone else

so the community puts you forward, and I think you can only hold two consecutive

posts. You can only do it for a maximum of six years, so no one gets too big

for their boots.

Elders are also called weighty Quakers because they have a weighty spirits.

Every meeting begins in silence,

it starts as soon as the first person enters the room and it only finishes when two Quakers shake hands.

We use that silence to fully listen to ourselves and to be open to the wisdom that is around. Again,

there's no minister to lead and we don't have any set prayers, hymns or sermons. The idea is when you feel

moved to stand up and

give ministry, you do, you say your piece, and then you sit back down then there is a silence again.

And if someone else feels moved to speak, they will stand up, they will speak for a little bit and then they will sit down.

And some more silence and people reflect on what is being said.

It sounds a little strange if you've never experienced it before, but honestly when you sit in stillness and you open yourself up to

knowledge that comes from around, you sort of feel

sometimes as if there is something that you should share with the group?

Sometimes, really often, people will stand up and they will say what you've just been thinking, or they'll be talking on a

topic or a subject that you came into the room

thinking about. It's a very beautiful experience and I personally find that it

enriches my life. I need my stillness and my silence which is hilarious because

deaf girl, but I need that certain amount of time every week where you just