Andfinallybackwithanotherselfloveslashselfdevelopmentslashedthingsthatwoulddealwithon a dailybasissubjectthat I'vebeenkindofbeenbattlingmywholelifeand I feelliketalkingaboutit.
Atthatpoint, I promisedmyselfthat I won't letthisimpostersyndromestopmefromfocusingonallthethingsthat I dohavetooffer.
Insteadofconcentratingonallthethingsthat I findthat I don't dogoodenoughcomparedtoothers, I'm gonnasharethestepswithyouthathopefullyyoucanincorporateintoyourdailylifetomakeyoufeellikeyou'rearenot a fraud.
So I thinkthefirstthingisactuallytalkingaboutitWhen I wasinNewYork, that's kindofwherethisthoughtandmegettingdeeperwithmythoughtsintothiswholeimpostersyndromesituation.
Itmademestartaskingquestionsfromotherpeopleinmyspacearoundmethatunderstandthekindofmylineofworkand a greatexample, as I did a collaborationvideowithChrisElham, whois a huge, youknow, influenceinthesocialmediaworld.
Andinmyopinion, likethe O.
G.
Onsocialmedia, youknow, askherthequestion.
Doyoufeelhaveyoueverfeltlikeanimposter?
Soyeah, nowthey'rebuildingsomethingnew.
I feellikeanimpulseeveryday.
I'm like, Whatam I doing?
Wherewhoam I doingtomyArepeoplegonnaactuallybelievemeeveryday?
But I loveitsomuchshe 100% couldrelateevenaskingherthatquestion, Someonethat I respectwasreallyhelpfultohearthatshe's beenbattlingitaswellandstillhasthesethoughtscomingintoherheadtalkingaboutit.
It's always a greatwaytojustfeellikeyou'renot a little.
Thesecondthingthat I lovetodowhenthisimpostersyndromeiskindoftakingovermythoughtsistolistentootherpeople.
Youcankindofopen a noteandsee a milestoneaccomplishmentthatyoudidthatwillkindofagainvalidatethefactthatyoudeservetobewhereyouarethatyouworkedhard, thatyouaccomplishcertainthings.
Getyourhypemeuplesstogether.
Keepitclosetoyou.
I know.
I needmultipletimes a daytoopenmylisttobelikeyou're a badbitch.
Thesearethetipsthat I honestly, heusedthatarejust a goodremindertomyselftostoplimitingmyselfandlettingalltheseamazingopportunitiesthathaveworkedreallyhardforyoutocomemyway.