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Good afternoon, everyone.
I'm very honored to be on this stage today, so let's start.
Have you ever thought about how often will change masks to be what others want us to be, how often we have to do what everyone does, just in order to not to be different from others?
Many off us consider people who differ from US insults who don't have the same standards, who don't share the same ideas that we have as crazy inter videos.
We don't want to accept an idea that contradicts to our own world view because it feels like no sense for us is the first thing that comes to your mind is how is it possible that my Rio thinking is wrong?
No, it cannot be true.
But why don't we have sorts that the problem is actually in us empty shell?
This is what we're becoming.
We're losing our identity, our uniqueness and becoming lost personalities.
We follow opinions that were imposed on us by society.
And don't you realize that this is not actually what we want.
This our desires off someone else, but not ours.
You may have a question.
So what should I do to find a solution to this problem.
Don't I need to be a member off society in order to be myself?
Well, we all know that human is a social being and not everyone off us can exist outside the society and this is effect.
So from the previous wards off mine, it follow sat In order to exist, you must successfully be in society, follow its foundations, rules and be like others.
What paradox?
Just a minute ago, I said that we're becoming M to show that follows oldest tenders of the society.
And now I'm seeing that we cannot exist outside off it.
Well, let me ask her to this question a bit later, and for now I would like to continue exploring this topic further.
So let's start from the main causes of the problem that we have to start with the main wizards.
Why two d people are losing the uniqueness are the Internet's most media and imposed opinions and ideas off course.
This all above mentioned reasons are already known to everyone.
Children Ah, people especially still developing minds.
I mean, teenagers and young adults mostly believe everything that you read without even thinking about that we don't often analyze the information provided to us relying on the veracity over the sources channels where the data is given.
As I read in one website, Zim Lost medium maybe not successful in telling people what to sing, but it's undocked.
Polis successful in telling people what to think about.
The mass media cannot straightly force anyone to have asserting opinion on the subject.
But at least it makes an influence an impression on which site over the coin we should look at in 1968 when David Rockefeller was it that the U.
S.
S.
R he proposed a deal.
Eve's a uses our supports America.
Then tomorrow also it people will stop having.
I'm sorry.
Then tomorrow all Americans will stop having bad impression about sword people.
Uh, is the USSR doesn't agree.
Then the situation will change through the war site.
Unfortunately, or fortunately, the deal was not meat.
So Rockefeller did what he promised.
What do you think?
How is it possible to control source off the whole nation?
Der Adric fella made newspapers used to make newspapers print the articles that he wants, as this is the best way to control minds what comes to the Internet.
Internet is like a virus.
Children.
Archie's in trance without having a clear understanding why they need it.
Say I like zombies follow what is fashionable, and this is the only reason that is fashionable.
That's oh, there knew was the reasons.
Let's take Instagram as an example.
I personally know the goals who follows this trance and make false impression about themselves by posting ah, photos that were not taken by them.
I mean that they posed photos off some gifts or meals from expensive restaurants.
And, you know, it would be totally aqui if they did it just because it's a light, that picture or they just wanted to make their page in instagram or beautiful, but instead off it we continue arguing and see that those gifts were really made for them, or that they really had dinner at that restaurant.
Despite its not true Tell me, please.
It's someone's admiration of the sink that was your uniqueness by such actions.
They want to be cool in other's eyes, but they don't see the price they're paying for it.
Zeleny.
None of your own life pretending to be who they are, not following is immortal.
If you didn't put that in your instagram, then it's not true.
Off course, it will be silly to say that the Internet and everything that's connected with it is evil.
It all depends on how and for what purpose you use it.
Another conformation off.
My words can serve as challenges that are so popular.
Lost times, I guess issue If you have heard about that school, break your challenge.
If No, let me explain you.
What?
It s the school break.
Your challenge involves two people fooling a certain person who is in the middle into jumping into the ear and kicking their feet from under them.
Doctors see the videos on no matter laughing and can which the broken wrist sprint ligaments or spine and brain injuries?
Dozens off teenagers around the world have already bean injured because of this silly trend.
And now this is not always the problem off your house, but also the problem off floozy or your own eye.
And you need to remember that your house cannot be what sometimes in some cases, so you need to think Police stop being into that from all of the above mansions that question arises.
So how can I find out?
Am I following what I want?
Because to date, it's really difficult to distinguish precisely your own desires from thoughts that were imposed on us by society while conducting my research To answer to this question, I came across a very effective solution to this problem.
Toyota's founder, Security Toyota, constantly used to roll off five vice in all incomprehensible citations.
He used this message and everything immediately became clear.
Let me explain you how this works.
For instance, we want a fur coat.
So we need to ask ourselves, Why do I want a fur coat?
This is the first.
Why then we need to answer to this question.
I want to note right now that you may have different answers because all of us have different problems.
And the answer is that I will bring are just examples.
The only thing that you need to do is just to be honest with yourself while answer into this questions.
So let's continue.
Why do I want a for court?
He asked.
Where is because according to the pier alien stereotypes, all rich woman have her caught.
I also want appear the seam at one to surprise people.
So from this follows a second.
Why?
Why do you want your price?
Others, as you once were, is because I want people to pay attention to me.
So why do you want people to pay attention to you?
Because I feel insecure.
It's a force y.
Why do you feel insecure?
Because I cannot be realized in any way.
I just sit in one place and cannot develop.
And finally the last wife.
Why cannot you develop yourself?
Why cannot you realize your dreams?
Because I too what I don't like.
Tell me, please.
What does if your court have to do with it?
Security.
Toyota told that C answer to the fifth.
Why brings to light what cannot be winnable at the first glance, This is the real you.
This is the root cause.
This is the root of your problem.
The fifth because brings to light was hidden.
So try to find threw off your problem and fight against it stopped following hinged labels.
There is also another cause off this problem that cannot be always solved by this message.
This is society and its opinion about you.
Many off us give up on some off goals, dreams just because we're so afraid that other people will love it.
Us.
I was so afraid that people will judge us.
And that's why we're so afraid off.
Do you what we really want?
Time passes And this leads to the keys that we have spent a whole life just useless.
I'm sure this is not the first time you're hearing it.
And ofcourse not the lost one.
But you need to remind yourself always that people will judge you.
Anyways.
In any case, see, number off opinion is equal to the number off people.
So don't be afraid of being yourself.
You have only one life to realize everything that you want, but not others.
At the beginning, off my speech, dear, was a question.
In order to exist, you must assess really be in society, follow its foundations rules and be like others.
Yes, If you want to exist, you can be like others.
You can do the same things that everyone thus, But if you want to leave and not just exist if you want to be and I just pretend to be I didn't learn to recognize what you want that your family teachers France.
But you don't spend your life so that when you are old you'll be regretting off not doing, uh, things that you wanted.
You will be regretting off, not follow your desires when you had a chance.
Be a unicorn in the world off horses.
Don't be afraid of being yourself.
Thank you.