A boytoyisusually a youngermalewhomaybehasshallowdesiresandthepersonthatthey'redatingallright, it's someone a boytoys, a manyou'reusingforfunandpleasure, andninetimesoutof 10 he's totallycoolwiththat.
Myparentsus a swipingrightswipingleftthoseairtermsthatyouuseontinderWhenyoulikesomeoneyouswipe, right.
Andwhenyoudon't likesomeone, youswipeleftbecausephysicalappearanceswiththeonlyimportantthingin a relationshipah, thirsttrapiswhenyoupost a pictureonlineknowingyou'regoingtoget a lotoflikesforit.
Andsoit's, um, someoneposting.
Ah, hotbikinipic.
I posted a pictureofmein a bathingsuitovertheweekendthat I kindofthinkwas a firsttrap.
Andthat's therumorthatweshouldallspread, catchandrelease, I wanttosay, iswhenyouhookupwithsomeoneandthenyouletthemgobackintotheworldjustaswellasJustusemotionallysoundiswhenyoufirstgotthem, catchreleases.
Whenyouhookupwithsomeoneandyoudon't becomeemotionallyattachedtothem, it's neverreallyslideintothe D.
M iswhenyoudirectmessagesomeoneeitheronTwitterinstagrambutthecoolwaytophraseslike I'm justgonnaslideintoyourdams.
I havebeenwiththesamemanfor 10 years.
Beforetherewasanysortof D or M, andthewayheslidintomyDiem's was a goodoldfashioneddatetobeleftonRedmeanswhenyousentsomeone a messageandyoucanseethatthey'vereadyourmessage, butthey'renotresponding.
Shippingiswhenyourootfor a eitherfictitiouscouplearemadepeopleinyourlifetogettogether.
I shippedthem.
I shipRonandherMiami, Um, evenifafterthey'restilltogether, they'retherelationshipyoufor.
I learned a lotofnewslangterms, but I alsolearnedthatmostofthemaretermsthatarewaystoeitherdescribe, likebeingdemeaningtowardsotherpeople, leavingpeopleorkindoftrivializing a relationshipwithotherpeople.
And I thinkthatsometimesthesewordsintheslingcanalienateusmorefromrealhumanconnection.
Andso I wouldsay, usedthesewords, butunderstandthatpeoplehavefeelingsandyoucan't becute.