I'llberaisingtherialchildorthechildwithineachoneofusbecauseallofussittingheretodayandallwatchingarejustChildrenjustatmoreadultmore, readytopay a billortwo.
OneofthecornerstonesofPolly's teachingsisthatourstyleofparentingactuallycomesfromtheuniquesetoffbeliefs, challengesandideologiesthatwetakeon s parentsfromourchildhood.
Thatwouldbethekidsthat I wouldbeproudof, thatthatotherparentswouldsaytheywanted.
And I realizeallofthatwasdysfunctional.
Yetdon't wealldothis?
Mostofusapproachparentingfullyunconscious.
Wethinkweknowitall.
Wethinkit's genetic.
Wethinkit's a naturalinstinct, butwe'resimplytakingontheideasthatwegotfromourparents, whogotitfromtheirparents, whogotitfromtheourparents, whogotitfrom a world 100 yearsago, forexample.
I usedtobelievehisapparentthatmyjobwastokeepmyChildrenhappy.