IfyouweresittinginyourlivingroomandwatchingTVandthere's anelephant, I mean, youcan't reallyimaginethat, right, becausethat's a hugethinginyourroomrightthere.
Sotherefore, whenweusethisexpression, whichiselephantintheroomwerereallysayingthatwe'redealingwith a bigproblemon a problemthatisignoredasitis, somethingthatcancause a lotofembarrassmenton a lotofconflict?
No, a lotoftimes, youknowwehave a problem.
It's a bigissue, butwhatkindofawkwardWewanttotalkaboutitbecauseit's it's sobig.
Now I'lltellyouwhythisexpressionisiscalledthisbecause, ahlion, ifyouifyou'veseenithuntingorifyou'veseeniteatingitsmeal, itkindoftakesthemajorpartoffthefood.
Andtherefore, thisexpressionreallymeansthatyou'retellingsomeoneinthisexpressionthatthey'vegottostopandconsiderin a verycarefulwaytheirdecisionaboutsomething.
Well, youknow, I usedtobepigheadedonce, butnow I meet a lotofpeoplewhoarepigheaded.
I mean, theywanttodowhattheywanttodoon.
Theydon't wanttolistentoanybodyelse, okay?
Theyaresostubbornthatitalmoststupid.
Okay, sowhenyousee a personlikethat, orifyouknow a personlikethatandtheydosomethingverysillybecausetheyarebigheaded, youcansayGoahead, be a bighead b s bigheadedasyouwanttobe, butdon't cometomewhenyouareintrouble.
Now, letmetellyou, ifyoutrytoorifyouattempttogoafter a goose, youwillnevercatchit.
Yes, youcanbetonthat.
Hewillnevercatchit.
Maybeyouwill.
Butmostlyyouwillnotbecauseit's veryhardtogoafter a gooseon, actuallycatchit.
Soifyouareoneofthosepeoplewhogoesafterthingsthatyouwillneverget, youarejustgoingafter a wildgoosechaseandyoucouldsayin a sentence, thepolicedon't evenhavethefingerprints.
Thisinvestigationisreally a wildgiveschase, whichmeansthepolicehaveprobablynoevidence, buttheykeeponinvestigating.
Okay, Thenextexpressionrelatesto a fish, asyoucanseethefishesoutofwater.
Well, it's not a verygoodthing, right, Becausewhathappensifyouare a fishandyouwereoutofwater, you'reprobablygonnadie.
Okay, butah, well, thisexpressionreallymeanstheexpressionislike a fishoutofwateronitmeansthatyouareveryuncomfortableornotveryhappyin a particularsituationor a particularenvironment.
Okay, Now, a lotofpeoplearenotcomfortable.
Soin a sentence, youcouldsaywhenshehastospeakinfrontofpeople, shefeelslike a fishoutofwater.
Now, I haveheardthatmostpeople, infact 70% ofpeopleareveryscaredofpublicspeaking.
Soifyoufeellikethatnowyouhaveanexpressiontouse.
Youcansay I don't knowwhat I'm gonnasay.
I feellike a fishoutofwater.
Whichmeansyouarein a situationwhichmakesyouveryuncomfortable.
Thenextexpressionrefersto a fly.
Wedon't likethisimagetoomuch, but, uh, theexpressioniswouldn't hurt a flywouldn't is a contractionbetweenthewordswoodandnotokayondhe.
Theexpressionreallymeansthatyou'retalkingabout a personwhoisverypeacefulonsomeonewhoisnotviolent.
Okay, soifsomeone's really, reallymildmanneredpersonhearssomeonewhowouldnotevenhurt a fly, soin a sentence, youcouldsay I thinkthepolicehavethewrongperson.